krista4 said:
GB bentley, I saw your post last night directed at me but didn't reply because I was going on three nights without sleep and feeling really sad. Today I'm going on four nights without sleep but feeling less sad.
Anyway, I'm really sorry as my post must have sounded obnoxious. What I intended but likely did a poor job of communicating is that I feel like I don't fit in the South, and the tendency to get really dressed up for no reason and wear a lot of makeup is one aspect of the South that is really weird to me--weird as in different than my experience for the vast majority of my life, not weird as in wrong. I didn't mean to imply that it was weird for you guys to dress up, especially if you were doing it because it was a fun date night for you not because you felt you had to. I also forgot that you were in Austin--particularly strange given that I had someone develop and install a "what's bentley doing now" app on my phone--which is undoubtedly more laid-back than other parts of Texas anyway.
All just to say sorry if I offended you, and I'm glad you and AngryWife had such a nice night.
I can understand this, k4. I grew up in a very southern household with a very small but strong southern matriarch. I went to a very southern school (The University of the South, for crying out loud). Against my will, I made my debut, etc.
I haven't worn makeup other than the occasional mascara (engagement party, wedding) in over 5 years. My husband actually prefers no makeup. It's just not for me.
But when the occasion calls for it (wedding, party, etc.), I LOVE putting on a cocktail dress. Maybe it's because those of us in the South all live in overalls, so we love the chance to put on our fancy clothes?