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Here Is Where We May Come To Give Thanks For Our Blessings Or Mourn Innocence Lost (1 Viewer)

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Just saw a St. Jude calendar downstairs, graced by the presence of a child with a shaved head.

Here is where we count our blessings, by God or by nature, for our health, continued and hopeful, of our loved ones and ourselves.

Check in if feeling neurotic for a little perspective on how lucky we are. 

 
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Don't even need to get too deep or heady. Just a moment and a pause in hopes that we are to be kept in grace by nature and/or God. 

 
Sure. My wife and I have great jobs, our health, a beautiful new house and a son we can’t get enough of. We can do things for him our parents couldn’t do for us. I have substantially more than I ever thought I would ever have, and even though I wait daily for the other shoe to drop I am enjoying it and constantly thankful. 

Both my football teams suck but that’s a fair trade imo 

 
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I get to be me today. That's an indescribably wonderful gift and has always been more than enough thru a life of luck good & bad.

 
One thing stands out.   My wife almost died last year in a horrible accident.  Was in the hospital for 27 days.   At that point in time everything was going so good for us.  We live in a beautiful home in a great area, our kids are happy and doing well..then in an instant your life changes and what you live for can be gone.     As of today my wife has made almost a full recovery so each day I look at her I feel very thankful as she is my blessing.

 
My wife got me a book for my birthday, journal type book, where the point is to write down on a daily basis that which I am thankful for.  I could go and list the typical stuff everyone (who has it) is thankful for; family, job, health, etc.  Beyond that, I really have no idea how to think about this question on a daily basis.

 
My wife got me a book for my birthday, journal type book, where the point is to write down on a daily basis that which I am thankful for.  I could go and list the typical stuff everyone (who has it) is thankful for; family, job, health, etc.  Beyond that, I really have no idea how to think about this question on a daily basis.
What happened with that cocktail thingy?

 
Unfortunately, after losing Jack, it's still very difficult to give thanks or find blessings for much of anything.  I know that I'm thankful for my other boys and my wife, but that is overshadowed by the difficulty accepting losing such a great kid. 😢
that easy, goofy smile is stuck in my head and i didn't even know Jack. the luck of loving will always exceed the luck of losing, no matter the pain.  :heart:

 
Unfortunately, after losing Jack, it's still very difficult to give thanks or find blessings for much of anything.  I know that I'm thankful for my other boys and my wife, but that is overshadowed by the difficulty accepting losing such a great kid. 😢
that easy, goofy smile is stuck in my head and i didn't even know Jack. the luck of loving will always exceed the luck of losing, no matter the pain.  :heart:
Thanks GB...  This much is true.

I didn't intend to bring the thread down guys.  Carry on...

 
Unfortunately, after losing Jack, it's still very difficult to give thanks or find blessings for much of anything.  I know that I'm thankful for my other boys and my wife, but that is overshadowed by the difficulty accepting losing such a great kid. 😢
Very understandable.

 
Unfortunately, after losing Jack, it's still very difficult to give thanks or find blessings for much of anything.  I know that I'm thankful for my other boys and my wife, but that is overshadowed by the difficulty accepting losing such a great kid. 😢
And had I thought better of it, I might have figured out a way to ease someone's pain who was having a tough time being so thankful. I simply saw the calendar and was moved by innocence thwarted. May this thread be in yours and big's and shady's and others who have lost that easy innocence's honor, for lack of a better word. 

 
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Unfortunately, after losing Jack, it's still very difficult to give thanks or find blessings for much of anything.  I know that I'm thankful for my other boys and my wife, but that is overshadowed by the difficulty accepting losing such a great kid. 😢
So sorry man. Literally can’t even imagine. Nobody should ever have to carry that. 

 
In this time of both thanks and fantasy football, let me share with you a story about an NBA legend and his effect on a future fantasy football writer,  Mike Tagliere:

With so much negativity surrounding the game of football – Antonio Brown in particular – right now, I thought I’d share a personal story about a time a professional athlete went above and beyond.

My parents used to take us to French Lick, Indiana as kids. It was an annual tradition and one that I looked forward to every year. When you’re a kid, everything is just simpler. You cram into the car for a road trip and you’re excited about it. You aren’t in your bed at home and you’re more than okay with that. You’re eating more fast food than anyone rightfully should. Kudos to my parents for doing that for us, as I know none of those things are pleasant as an adult.

The hotel we stayed at did this giant Easter egg hunt for all the kids, which was a highlight of the trip for my brother and me, until we got a bit older and needed to find other things to occupy our time out there. I don’t think my parents wanted our annual tradition to end, so my dad veered off the plan in what I believe was 1994. I would have been 11 years old and my little brother was 8 years old.

We were a huge sports family and that period was when the Bulls had Michael Jordan, so basketball was alive and well in the Tagliere household. We’d been basketball fans for a long time, so my dad told us he wanted to show us something. French Lick happens to be the hometown of basketball legend Larry Bird. My dad got us in the car and drove us to see his property, which has a short four panel white fence surrounding the perimeter. There was a full-size basketball court with glass backboards and lights for all to see. There was no mistake; this was a basketball player’s dream.

Another thing you do when you’re a kid is have zero regard for personal privacy, so my brother and I wanted to walk up to the door and meet Larry himself. It’s not every day you’re standing outside a legend’s house. While my dad probably shouldn’t have allowed us to do it, we walked up to his front door and rang the doorbell. My heart was beating faster than it probably ever had before, but when the door opened, we saw a giant man who was not Larry Bird. Instead, it was his bodyguard who just stared at us.

“Is Mr. Bird home?” I can hear my 11-year-old voice now.

The large man started to tell us how it was Larry’s personal home and that we needed to take off, but mid-sentence, Larry himself walked out from the kitchen and told the man to let us in. There were a few large bags of McDonald’s on the counter, to which Larry told us we could have whatever we wanted.

He said, “They sponsor me, so feel free. There’s no way me and the big fella are going to eat all this food.” It felt odd, but how was I going to turn down french fries from Larry Bird?! I ate the fries. He went on to say, “Hey guys, I really do appreciate you being fans, but I have a rule with autographs. I don’t sign them at my house. It’s the one place I want to be able to just relax.” We understood and respected that. The fact that he invited us in made our day.

We went back to the car and our dad was in total shock that we went into Mr. Bird’s house. We explained everything to him, and I think he felt bad about letting us walk up there. We went back home shortly thereafter, and he told us to write a letter to Mr. Bird thanking him for being so kind. We did and it felt good. Even better? We got home from school a few weeks later and there was a package waiting for us. Larry had signed a few basketball cards and sent them back to the return address, our house.

You see, not all stories surrounding athletes are bad, even when there are no cameras on, and they’re not getting any credit from the press. Don’t let one bad apple spoil the bunch.

 
Hoard, you're such a funny ####er and so prescient, I honestly cannot tell for the life of me...

:lmao:

Thanks regardless. Good on Larry.

 
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