Nipsey
Footballguy
I'm a big fan of the forum, a big fan of @Joe Bryant and the way he runs it. That being said I always felt the moderation style did nothing to help the forum except to put out short term fires. Specifically, I'm talking about the "time out" style of moderating. I feel it accomplishes little except give certain posters an "inmate mentality" where it's them vs. "the man". I say a better approach would be to reach out via PM to people who cross the line and let them know that while they're a big part of the forum's success, what they just posted can't happen. Try to get the person on your side instead of turning them against the place and the people running it. I know that's not easy and it's not going to work every time but I bet it works more than you think it will. Sometimes people get caught up in a moment or they're having a bad day or whatever and just making contact and letting them know they're an important part of the place and to help out in keeping it great would accomplish what you're setting out to do which is to put out a short term fire and to avoid a future headache.
Back in the day, maybe over 20 years ago, I had a moderator reach out to me and tell me they "didn't like me". I laughed to myself because why the heck was this person saying this to me (I think I posted a dumb joke or something and it didn't meet said mod's standards, plus the board was way more clicky back then). Anyway, that kind of turned me against the place a little and made me want to push the envelope more. I for sure did at times. Then about 10 or so years ago Joe reached out to me unsolicited and thanked me for being part of the forum and said something like people like me were part of it's success. I'm sure he reached out to many people that day but I have to say it made me feel a certain sense of responsibility and in some small way made me want to be better. So in conclusion maybe instead of just handing out bans, the moderators could reach out with an open hand. Maybe do that a couple of times and then if the poster will still not see the light then maybe that's someone you can permanently remove from the board. Some thing like a "3 strikes nice" rule. I really think the political forum could have survived if just a few guys would have been shown the door. You can see in these latest board related threads how some guys are just here to get under people's skin for whatever reason. I say 3 strikes nice those guys to see if it helps and if it doesn't then 86 those guys.
One other thing is "be excellent to each other", while a nice slogan for how to behave, I think needs to be spelled out in a more specific way. Things like making sure guys stay on topic and not resort to ad hominem attacks would be the big one. More specific rules for posting so everyone here knows what's up and what won't fly. And update or delete the forum FAQ. Some of that stuff hasn't been relevant for years and years.
Back in the day, maybe over 20 years ago, I had a moderator reach out to me and tell me they "didn't like me". I laughed to myself because why the heck was this person saying this to me (I think I posted a dumb joke or something and it didn't meet said mod's standards, plus the board was way more clicky back then). Anyway, that kind of turned me against the place a little and made me want to push the envelope more. I for sure did at times. Then about 10 or so years ago Joe reached out to me unsolicited and thanked me for being part of the forum and said something like people like me were part of it's success. I'm sure he reached out to many people that day but I have to say it made me feel a certain sense of responsibility and in some small way made me want to be better. So in conclusion maybe instead of just handing out bans, the moderators could reach out with an open hand. Maybe do that a couple of times and then if the poster will still not see the light then maybe that's someone you can permanently remove from the board. Some thing like a "3 strikes nice" rule. I really think the political forum could have survived if just a few guys would have been shown the door. You can see in these latest board related threads how some guys are just here to get under people's skin for whatever reason. I say 3 strikes nice those guys to see if it helps and if it doesn't then 86 those guys.
One other thing is "be excellent to each other", while a nice slogan for how to behave, I think needs to be spelled out in a more specific way. Things like making sure guys stay on topic and not resort to ad hominem attacks would be the big one. More specific rules for posting so everyone here knows what's up and what won't fly. And update or delete the forum FAQ. Some of that stuff hasn't been relevant for years and years.
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