NounIncel?
the he still won't get laidWhat would you tell an Incel that wants to change his behavior?
I usually get hammered and go hoggin’ to rebuild my confidence.
Good luck.
When you say change his behavior do you mean that the person is doing something that isn't getting them laid or do you just mean they want to get laid? Feels like we are missing a lot of details to give good advice. In general, I would say, be yourself, be kind, spend time hanging out with friends - they should put themselves in situations to meet women (or men) - social groups like churches or clubs. The person should also realize that while sex is fantastic, it usually isn't that great for somebody who is inexperienced and with a mate for the first time. So, it may be a little bit of a let down.What would you tell an Incel that wants to change his behavior?
Are you willing to listen to my advice?What would you tell an Incel that wants to change his behavior?
We need you on the Robert K Kraft defense team!Make it a business transaction, take emotion out of it.
I agree, life changes a lot year to year. Also, making simple changes can have profound impacts down the road. Start working out or reading books, getting a nice wardrobe or taking college classes, improve yourself in some way and it will have a positive impact.I remember being in my early- to mid-20s and having a hard time meeting girls. Now I'm in my early- to mid-40s and I've got girls in their early- to mid-20s chasing after me all the time. So... chill out and wait, I guess?
This is terrible advice and I couldn't disagree with you more. Terrible, terrible advice. Stop giving advice, please.And masturbate - a lot.
#NoWanks — It’s a way of life to build ambition.Stop masturbating. It takes all your ambition away.
AFCdom?Noun
incel (countable and uncountable, plural incels)
1. (neologism, broadly) A person who is not sexually active despite desiring to be. quotations ▼
Synonyms: see Thesaurus:incel
Antonym: volcel
Hyponym: AFChick
2. (neologism, specifically) A member of a mostly online subculture of people (typically misogynistic, white straight men) who define themselves by being unable to find a sexual relationship despite desiring one. quotations ▼
3. (uncountable, seduction community, informal) "Involuntary celibacy": the state of not being sexually active despite wishing to be.
Synonyms: incelibacy, love-shyness, ####stration, AFCdom, AFCness
Oh heyNoun
incel (countable and uncountable, plural incels)
1. (neologism, broadly) A person who is not sexually active despite desiring to be. quotations ▼
Synonyms: see Thesaurus:incel
Antonym: volcel
Hyponym: AFChick
2. (neologism, specifically) A member of a mostly online subculture of people (typically misogynistic, white straight men) who define themselves by being unable to find a sexual relationship despite desiring one. quotations ▼
3. (uncountable, seduction community, informal) "Involuntary celibacy": the state of not being sexually active despite wishing to be.
Synonyms: incelibacy, love-shyness, ####stration, AFCdom, AFCness
Vice did a good story awhile back.TIL
Incels are members of an onlinesubculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.
wow
Always but just being nice and even keel can go a long way.Rule 1 and Rule 2 apply.
1. Be good looking
2. Don’t be unattractive
What I got from that is they are losers who get in a chat room to perpetuate their failures?Vice did a good story awhile back.
https://youtu.be/oliq8m8Qph0
Honestly I still just think it’s a bunch of guys on the spectrum that watch too much porn and get the wrong idea about relationships.
Pretty good advice, though a little masturbation is OK. I'd avoid pornography though.This is terrible advice and I couldn't disagree with you more. Terrible, terrible advice. Stop giving advice, please.
Advice for this person should begin with and end at self improvement. Do something you enjoy, but work to improve yourself every single day and accomplish difficult goals. Confidence will result, as well as an increased self esteem, which will then attract a healthy mate. Stop masturbating. It takes all your ambition away.
So the guy can't get laid and he can't masturbate or check out porn? You trying to get him to off himself?Pretty good advice, though a little masturbation is OK. I'd avoid pornography though.
My goal is him not getting off.So the guy can't get laid and he can't masturbate or check out porn? You trying to get him to off himself?
These guys are also pretty passive when it comes to women. They might pine for someone and somewhat shyly interact with them, but they really want the girl to "notice" them, and make the first real move / give the "all clear" sign. And that's not really how it works.Vice did a good story awhile back.TIL
Incels are members of an onlinesubculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.
https://youtu.be/oliq8m8Qph0
Honestly I still just think it’s a bunch of guys on the spectrum that watch too much porn and get the wrong idea about relationships.
This is largely true.Vice did a good story awhile back.
https://youtu.be/oliq8m8Qph0
Honestly I still just think it’s a bunch of guys on the spectrum that watch too much porn and get the wrong idea about relationships.
When I was in college, during the summers I would work in a large imaging print shop (think Kinkos but for blueprints). The other guy there was early 20s and a bit strange but I’d try to chat with him. He got the job because his older sister was a manager and she was cool. Anyway, he lived at home and would always try to chat about anime with me which I know nothing about. One day he got back from lunch and I asked where he went. He told me he went to see his girlfriend at the mall. This blew my mind so I asked what her name was... he didn’t know. It turns out his “girlfriend” just worked at a kiosk in the mall. He would go there every day and walk by her and that was enough interaction that he thought they were together. He would tell me that she “has that soft Asian look that I love.”These guys are also pretty passive when it comes to women. They might pine for someone and somewhat shyly interact with them, but they really want the girl to "notice" them, and make the first real move / give the "all clear" sign. And that's not really how it works.
it's okay, yeah. unless you tryin to win championships. that's what I'm here to doa little masturbation is OK
FYP for the PYTsIf a hot girl ate cake morning, noon, and night, she'd have her cake and eat it, too
This is nuts.Yup. True story: Friend tried to fix me up on a date with Taylor Swift. Turned her down. Rejected! If it could happen to her, it could happen to anyone!