Chaos Commish
Footballguy
I'm glad vacaver made the point. You say nobody is perfect. I think given the stated purpose of being excellent to each other around here, that it's inexcusable for Staff to ridicule and insult. Joe is in a tough spot trying to enforce such a standard, but I do appreciate it. I have no interest in internet tough guys, smartalecs, trolls, or those who think a constant flow of personal insults is fun conversation. I recently made a completely generic comment that I still believe was accurate. Someone respectfully disagreed and provided numbers to support his case. A Staff member hopped in quoting us both and proceeded to insult me two different ways in a strange effort to make a joke about banning people. It was confusing to me and the first poster, who thought the banning probability was being aimed at him. I read it differently. I asked the Staffer who he was talking to and if he knew what he was talking about. His reply was just an immature challenge as far as I'm concerned. I dropped it understanding it could only devolve into a very petty exchange. This is not a big deal to me, but since vacaver brought it up, I thought I'd mention it-- again, considering the stated purpose around here. A quick apology would have been more appropriate. My comment that spawned the exchange was aptly supported by other numbers, and I was not being blind or emotional. It was odd baiting is all I can conclude.Nobody's perfect. Everyone's going to slip up every once in a while and do something like that. I know I've done it in rare instances when I get really frustrated.One thing that might cut-down on the amount of trash-talk we get is if some of the FBG staff tone it down a little. A few mods/staffers have provoked some trash this year and while I'm sure they want to participate as "regulars" as well, I think they would need to be above this (take some FWP discussions/provocations as an example). No need to point fingers, though, because these couple of guys know who they are. Just something to be conscious of.
You are correct. This is the bigger issue. I'm a refugee from another board that's gone off in a handbasket, and this board feels like it's about two years behind that one if the cycle isn't broken with steady monitoring.Like I said before, I feel it's the very, very few people who *constantly* do it that make new people feel that it's the norm. And then, it becomes a vicious cycle.