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How often do you get laid? (1 Viewer)

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    Votes: 35 10.6%

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Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
If my wife and I were both healthy, no oral and/or no sex would be due to a deeper issue. Not getting a ####### in 15 years is crazy. Even if your wife doesn't like doing it, she should still make a sacrifice once in a while.
:goodposting:
meh. It would a half-assed one anyway if she was just taking one for the team.
I couldn't imagine being with someone that refused to put my #### in her mouth. Regardless of how good it was.
I suspect for most people it's not a flat out refusal, it's just that it never happens. Mine used to do it frequently before marriage and before kids. Even after kids it would be every so often but less frequent but recently while she hasn't "refused" she either finds excuses or there are valid reasons. Like she isn't sleeping well so isn't into it. When we have relations the quality is low and it's basically her doing be a favor by bending over. Meanwhile, everything is at home is good. Our relationship is strong, but lacking physically as she's exhausted despite whatever I do to help - mostly taking care of the kids all weekend.

 
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It's a good thing everybody doesn't have the same preferences here because otherwise there would be a whole lotta folks left out in the cold.

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Sounds pretty honest to me. :shrug:
 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
I'm not talking about getting a bj, I thought it was obvious that that was stupidly extreme. I was simply expanding on the idea.

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
good for you. Sex is very important to my marriage and even after 10 yrs its something me and my wife are pretty amazing at. Great job by you judging other peoples marriage.
 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
good for you. Sex is very important to my marriage and even after 10 yrs its something me and my wife are pretty amazing at. Great job by you judging other peoples marriage.
1) I'm not judging your marriage, I'm judging YOU for being shallow

2) Congrats on being amazing at sex. But that's not what we are talking about here. Unless you feel that the only way you can be amazing at sex is by getting/giving oral. :crazy:

Edit: Removed unnecessary name-calling :bye:

 
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Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
good for you. Sex is very important to my marriage and even after 10 yrs its something me and my wife are pretty amazing at. Great job by you judging other peoples marriage.
1) I'm not judging your marriage, I'm judging YOU for being shallow

2) Congrats on being amazing at sex. But that's not what we are talking about here. Unless you feel that the only way you can be amazing at sex is by getting/giving oral. :crazy:

Edit: Removed unnecessary name-calling :bye:
Regarding #2 yes. Why is that crazy? Its something we both like so yes it is part of the package of "sex"

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
good for you. Sex is very important to my marriage and even after 10 yrs its something me and my wife are pretty amazing at. Great job by you judging other peoples marriage.
1) I'm not judging your marriage, I'm judging YOU for being shallow

2) Congrats on being amazing at sex. But that's not what we are talking about here. Unless you feel that the only way you can be amazing at sex is by getting/giving oral. :crazy:

Edit: Removed unnecessary name-calling :bye:
Regarding #2 yes. Why is that crazy? Its something we both like so yes it is part of the package of "sex"
And there you go... If it wasn't something your wife liked, would that make you two not amazing at sex?

 
13-15

10 or more

Married/serious relationship 26 years

:drive:

Couldn't have said this two short years ago. (see "Why do men tolerate..." thread) It all comes down to her finding a path towards enjoying teh sechs again. If a lightly packed bowl is what helps, so be it. And- as I alluded to in that other thread- giving herself "permission" to be a bad girl.

At my age, many of my peers haven't kept up their end of the bargain. While genetics helps, I like to think that I have. It certainly helps.

Oh- and how many of you guys would need wild horses to drag you out to see that 50 Shades flick for Valentines Day because the "little" woman wanted to? You're not helping your cause...

 
Interesting numbers at this point:

Over 1/3 of FBG's haven't had sex in 2015 and over 40% haven't gotten a #######.
Wow - These polls in the past make it seem like everyone is getting it all the time.............. :shrug:
I messed up what I meant to type...

Over 1/3 have had sex one time or less.
Interesting numbers at this point:

Over 1/3 of FBG's haven't had sex in 2015 and over 40% haven't gotten a #######.
Wow - These polls in the past make it seem like everyone is getting it all the time.............. :shrug:
I messed up what I meant to type...

Over 1/3 have had sex one time or less.
yeesh 40% with 0 oral. That sucks.

 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
good for you. Sex is very important to my marriage and even after 10 yrs its something me and my wife are pretty amazing at. Great job by you judging other peoples marriage.
1) I'm not judging your marriage, I'm judging YOU for being shallow

2) Congrats on being amazing at sex. But that's not what we are talking about here. Unless you feel that the only way you can be amazing at sex is by getting/giving oral. :crazy:

Edit: Removed unnecessary name-calling :bye:
Regarding #2 yes. Why is that crazy? Its something we both like so yes it is part of the package of "sex"
And there you go... If it wasn't something your wife liked, would that make you two not amazing at sex?
we wouldn't be together. Not sure why this is so impossible to understand
 
Regardless of whether you get any or not, the shallowness of FBG's saying they would leave their wives if they did not get any BJs is sad, and telling of their commitment to their marriage.
Let's say that bj's (and the sex overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the sex essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of physical intimacy with your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
Let's say that doing blow (and drugs overall) were part of what made you want to marry your wife in the first place. Part of what made you two click. Then let's say that after marriage the desire to get high essentially dried up (non-medical related) and this lack of immaturity by your wife makes you extremely unhappy. If you've tried every means possible to explain the situation to your wife but she just refuses to change, would you still think leaving is shallow?
What point are you trying to make? There have been lots of posts on this board that support the idea of staying in your marriage basically no matter what.
The point I'm trying to make is that people change. Maybe I just don't understand how important getting a BJ is to you... but if your wife no longer wants to suck your ####, it's not grounds for divorce IMO. Getting a BJ (or not) doesn't affect how much I love my wife.
good for you. Sex is very important to my marriage and even after 10 yrs its something me and my wife are pretty amazing at. Great job by you judging other peoples marriage.
1) I'm not judging your marriage, I'm judging YOU for being shallow

2) Congrats on being amazing at sex. But that's not what we are talking about here. Unless you feel that the only way you can be amazing at sex is by getting/giving oral. :crazy:

Edit: Removed unnecessary name-calling :bye:
Regarding #2 yes. Why is that crazy? Its something we both like so yes it is part of the package of "sex"
And there you go... If it wasn't something your wife liked, would that make you two not amazing at sex?
we wouldn't be together. Not sure why this is so impossible to understand
Wow... just wow.

 
I dont understand whats so wow about me saying i love bjs and i wouldn't have fallen in love with someone who didnt give them to me

 
Oh- and how many of you guys would need wild horses to drag you out to see that 50 Shades flick for Valentines Day because the "little" woman wanted to? You're not helping your cause...
Thankfully my wife has no desire to see a film glamorizing abuse.

 
I dont understand whats so wow about me saying i love bjs and i wouldn't have fallen in love with someone who didnt give them to me
I don't think the love for BJs is in question here. I'm just wondering what happens when she hits the big M and the drive slows down. Is that divorce time?

 
Interesting numbers at this point:

Over 1/3 of FBG's haven't had sex in 2015 and over 40% haven't gotten a #######.
Wow - These polls in the past make it seem like everyone is getting it all the time.............. :shrug:
I messed up what I meant to type...

Over 1/3 have had sex one time or less.
Interesting numbers at this point:

Over 1/3 of FBG's haven't had sex in 2015 and over 40% haven't gotten a #######.
Wow - These polls in the past make it seem like everyone is getting it all the time.............. :shrug:
I messed up what I meant to type...

Over 1/3 have had sex one time or less.
yeesh 40% with 0 oral. That sucks.
a good follow up question for that 40% is why. Is it mutual, is it an issue, etc.

 
Interesting numbers at this point:

Over 1/3 of FBG's haven't had sex in 2015 and over 40% haven't gotten a #######.
Wow - These polls in the past make it seem like everyone is getting it all the time.............. :shrug:
I messed up what I meant to type...

Over 1/3 have had sex one time or less.
Interesting numbers at this point:

Over 1/3 of FBG's haven't had sex in 2015 and over 40% haven't gotten a #######.
Wow - These polls in the past make it seem like everyone is getting it all the time.............. :shrug:
I messed up what I meant to type...

Over 1/3 have had sex one time or less.
yeesh 40% with 0 oral. That sucks.
a good follow up question for that 40% is why. Is it mutual, is it an issue, etc.
She doesn't like receiving even when I offer or almost force myself down there. She pushes me away forcefully. Psychological thing for some reason. Therefore, I guess in her mind she doesn't have to reciprocate. There was always bigger complaints to be had so I never made a big deal out of it. My sex life is not at the good or even middle end of the spectrum though. So yea...

 
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Oh- and how many of you guys would need wild horses to drag you out to see that 50 Shades flick for Valentines Day because the "little" woman wanted to? You're not helping your cause...
Thankfully my wife has no desire to see a film glamorizing abuse.
come on
Seriously, a film glamorizing female abuse based on a book written by a female for females and directed by a female. Yea, women should be up in arms about it.

 
Numbers down to newborn twins, wife afraid of getting pregnant again (vetting that fixed) and either myself, wife, babies, or 6 year old having the flu past 2 weeks.

 
I dont understand whats so wow about me saying i love bjs and i wouldn't have fallen in love with someone who didnt give them to me
:shrug: mine loves giving too. And yes it was a factor for why we got married. If she didn't like sex as much as I do we wouldn't be nearly ascompatible or as happy as we are now.
 
My wife recently hit the "prime" we been going at it like bunnies lately.

'However after each child birth, there was definetly a lull. But we got through it

 
Oh- and how many of you guys would need wild horses to drag you out to see that 50 Shades flick for Valentines Day because the "little" woman wanted to? You're not helping your cause...
Thankfully my wife has no desire to see a film glamorizing abuse.
come on
Seriously, a film glamorizing female abuse based on a book written by a female for females and directed by a female. Yea, women should be up in arms about it.
Never said they should be, though there's plenty of people who feel that way. my wife just doesn't want to see it. Neither do my female co-workers. Or male for that matter.

 
Oh- and how many of you guys would need wild horses to drag you out to see that 50 Shades flick for Valentines Day because the "little" woman wanted to? You're not helping your cause...
Thankfully my wife has no desire to see a film glamorizing abuse.
come on
Seriously, a film glamorizing female abuse based on a book written by a female for females and directed by a female. Yea, women should be up in arms about it.
Never said they should be, though there's plenty of people who feel that way. my wife just doesn't want to see it. Neither do my female co-workers. Or male for that matter.
Its just a terrible movie in general. I can go see a good chick flick no problem. But this is garbage. It be like me taking her to see the Interview.

 
FUBAR said:
James Daulton said:
KarmaPolice said:
FUBAR said:
Oh- and how many of you guys would need wild horses to drag you out to see that 50 Shades flick for Valentines Day because the "little" woman wanted to? You're not helping your cause...
Thankfully my wife has no desire to see a film glamorizing abuse.
come on
Seriously, a film glamorizing female abuse based on a book written by a female for females and directed by a female. Yea, women should be up in arms about it.
Never said they should be, though there's plenty of people who feel that way. my wife just doesn't want to see it. Neither do my female co-workers. Or male for that matter.
Not wanting to see the movie is understandable. To say that the film glamorizes abuse is completely silly.

 
shadyridr said:
I dont understand whats so wow about me saying i love bjs and i wouldn't have fallen in love with someone who didnt give them to me
I think Keerock's issue was that you stated you would leave your wife if you didn't get your BJs. I'm not judging and I love the secks as much as the next guy, but that amazes me too. I can't imagine leaving your spouse because you aren't getting oral secks. Totally blows me away (no pun intended).

 
shadyridr said:
I dont understand whats so wow about me saying i love bjs and i wouldn't have fallen in love with someone who didnt give them to me
I think Keerock's issue was that you stated you would leave your wife if you didn't get your BJs. I'm not judging and I love the secks as much as the next guy, but that amazes me too. I can't imagine leaving your spouse because you aren't getting oral secks. Totally blows me away (no pun intended).
This. It reeks of being really, really shallow.

 
shadyridr said:
I dont understand whats so wow about me saying i love bjs and i wouldn't have fallen in love with someone who didnt give them to me
I think Keerock's issue was that you stated you would leave your wife if you didn't get your BJs. I'm not judging and I love the secks as much as the next guy, but that amazes me too. I can't imagine leaving your spouse because you aren't getting oral secks. Totally blows me away (no pun intended).
This. It reeks of being really, really shallow.
:goodposting: X2

 
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I would not be able to stay married in a sexless marriage. I'm not sure if that's shallow, but that's the truth. I'm not interested in a sexless marraige at all. That's a big part of being married. That's like getting married and then springing on the wife that you are going to live off the grid. Just not part of what she signed up for at all.

Now, taking it a step further. Those in a sexless marriage that tolerate it, what is unacceptable to you? What if she told you she cheated once ten years ago but it was a one off thing and she is very sorry? How can you offer unconditional love to somebody who obviously doesn't reciprocate? That's not love. I mean, I spent 4 hours in a car in a blizzard to go see a performance I had no interest at all in seeing. I did it because I love my wife and kids. If she's not even willing to try and have sex, that just seems totally out of whack to me.

 

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