I am one healthy mother ####er. That is for sure.
I have given more blood and urine the past few weeks than any man should. I have been poked and probed by at least a dozen nephrologists and surgeons both here in Boston and back home in Minneapolis. Had quite a few CT scans, x-rays, MRIs. And I got nothing wrong with me!
Yesterday was the final pre-surgery tests. My Dad and I are both a go. 5:45 AM on Tuesday, I head into MGH to donate my kidney to my Dad.
Neither of us are great at communicating our love for each other...so the best that I could come up with was writing something about him on my girlfriend's blog. Here is what I wrote....
Suppose you have a 5 percent chance of dying from a flu vaccine but a 10 percent chance of contracting and dying of the flu when an epidemic strikes. Do you take the flu shot? Surprisingly often, people do not.
This apparent irrationality is commonly attributed to “omission bias” - people often prefer inaction to action, even if inaction carries some greater risk.
Inaction is effortless, and less conducive to living. Here are a few “actions” that have been proven to prolong life: Going for walks. Making art. Seeing a therapist. Having pets and plants in the house. Stretching. Drinking lots of water. Making new friends. Spending time outdoors. Eating more fruits and vegetables. Managing stress.
Or, donating a kidney. Seriously…
A 1997 Swedish study, that followed 430 living donors, determined that the survival rate was 29% better in the donor group than in the general population.
On March 4th I am donating one of my superbly working kidneys to my Dad, a beautiful man who has endured too much pain and depression this past year and a half.
Inaction does not suit him.
If you visit the blog, there are links to organ donor sites.
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Peace and Love