Stealthycat
Footballguy
I cannot remember whom I argued with on privilege's and the legal systems over the last few years - but I was wrong in a way on it and want to say how.
My 21 daughter was pulled over last Christmas for "following too close". She was driving my truck. That turned into a search her vehicle because of smell of marijuana and they found a pouch of drug paraphernalia and a bottle that had I think 3 Adderall pills in it. She had no prescription for them. There was no marijuana in the car, she hadn't been smoking, wasn't under influence. Somehow, there was an escalation and confrontation and she was jailed. I got her out next morning.
I try not to be overbearing towards my kids, they're adults at 19 and 21, they can make their own choices, they NEED to make their own choices. She was 100% guilty of the charges. She was assigned a public defender and the court date was set for June. I can only tell you what she told me, and that was the public defender, a black man, never even reached out to her, she met/talked to him the day of the first court date and they entered a plea of not guilty and the second date was set.
I went with her to the second date, and as she told it, the day before that second date her public defended called and literally say she could take 4 years probation plea or 1 year probation plea and a class D felony. Those were her options.
Now my daughter doesn't have money, a 5th year senior in college. I'm not wealthy, I'm not even middle middle class I don't think but I did sell my house in March of this past year and had some money in the bank from that. I sked her what she wanted to do and she said get a lawyer. I agreed with her, those two options sucked for the offense she was charged with. So she told that public defended she wanted her own lawyer and her presented that to the judge - the very last case of the day he made her sit until ..... and the judge said next time I see you (to my daughter) you'd better have representation.
I found a lawyer, and we went for consultation. He asked if this and this motion had been filed and my daughter said not that she knew but her public defended hadn't told her anything. He said $5,000 and he'd get those motions filed, he'd do the things needed to be done and he said 1 year probation was the goal to get the prosecutor to agree too. Daughter and I both agreed that was reasonable, I mean she was guilty.
Let me inject this too - her boyfriend was murdered 18 months back, she had other pressures and she'd used those to get a Dr to prescribe her Adderall as well as get a medical marijuana card.
4 weeks later, the lawyer called and said he'd viewed the camera footage of the arrest with the prosecutor I guess and they both agreed to drop all charges.
Now to my point - had I not had that $5,000 to give to the lawyer, my daughter would have had years of probation or a felony conviction. I've argued time and again on black/white/color of skin privileged ..... this wasn't that and in fact, it might have actually been racism a bit towards the white college girl from the black public defender, I'll never know.
What this REALLY was .... and is ..... is a wealth issue. I've always known wealth buys - and I'm ok with that too. People earn money, work hard, and that money buys things that people who don't work and don't have money can't get. That's fair in my world however, in our judicial system .... its not fair, its not right and its not everyone having a fair trial/treatment.
My money is what got my daughter off. Plain and simple. It wasn't that I'm white but that I worked and saved and had money. What about the 21 year old that had nobody to get the $5000 from?
I blame the public defender - whatever our lawyer used/found out to have the charges dropped, he could have too. How often does that happen ?
I have a different view of the judicial system now is what I'm saying. I still don't see/believe it is slanted in a racism way, but it dang sure is in a monetary way
My 21 daughter was pulled over last Christmas for "following too close". She was driving my truck. That turned into a search her vehicle because of smell of marijuana and they found a pouch of drug paraphernalia and a bottle that had I think 3 Adderall pills in it. She had no prescription for them. There was no marijuana in the car, she hadn't been smoking, wasn't under influence. Somehow, there was an escalation and confrontation and she was jailed. I got her out next morning.
I try not to be overbearing towards my kids, they're adults at 19 and 21, they can make their own choices, they NEED to make their own choices. She was 100% guilty of the charges. She was assigned a public defender and the court date was set for June. I can only tell you what she told me, and that was the public defender, a black man, never even reached out to her, she met/talked to him the day of the first court date and they entered a plea of not guilty and the second date was set.
I went with her to the second date, and as she told it, the day before that second date her public defended called and literally say she could take 4 years probation plea or 1 year probation plea and a class D felony. Those were her options.
Now my daughter doesn't have money, a 5th year senior in college. I'm not wealthy, I'm not even middle middle class I don't think but I did sell my house in March of this past year and had some money in the bank from that. I sked her what she wanted to do and she said get a lawyer. I agreed with her, those two options sucked for the offense she was charged with. So she told that public defended she wanted her own lawyer and her presented that to the judge - the very last case of the day he made her sit until ..... and the judge said next time I see you (to my daughter) you'd better have representation.
I found a lawyer, and we went for consultation. He asked if this and this motion had been filed and my daughter said not that she knew but her public defended hadn't told her anything. He said $5,000 and he'd get those motions filed, he'd do the things needed to be done and he said 1 year probation was the goal to get the prosecutor to agree too. Daughter and I both agreed that was reasonable, I mean she was guilty.
Let me inject this too - her boyfriend was murdered 18 months back, she had other pressures and she'd used those to get a Dr to prescribe her Adderall as well as get a medical marijuana card.
4 weeks later, the lawyer called and said he'd viewed the camera footage of the arrest with the prosecutor I guess and they both agreed to drop all charges.
Now to my point - had I not had that $5,000 to give to the lawyer, my daughter would have had years of probation or a felony conviction. I've argued time and again on black/white/color of skin privileged ..... this wasn't that and in fact, it might have actually been racism a bit towards the white college girl from the black public defender, I'll never know.
What this REALLY was .... and is ..... is a wealth issue. I've always known wealth buys - and I'm ok with that too. People earn money, work hard, and that money buys things that people who don't work and don't have money can't get. That's fair in my world however, in our judicial system .... its not fair, its not right and its not everyone having a fair trial/treatment.
My money is what got my daughter off. Plain and simple. It wasn't that I'm white but that I worked and saved and had money. What about the 21 year old that had nobody to get the $5000 from?
I blame the public defender - whatever our lawyer used/found out to have the charges dropped, he could have too. How often does that happen ?
I have a different view of the judicial system now is what I'm saying. I still don't see/believe it is slanted in a racism way, but it dang sure is in a monetary way