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[dino259]

Tell her you will give the dog to the physical trainer.

 

[Dr. Awesome]

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Bob Wiley, ssherman, The Juggernaut, thecatch, No. 16, Outback, No. 16's ex

 

[IvanKaramazov]

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This better be good . . .

 

[Steve Tasker]

I say you give her the dog

 

[xulf]

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Bob Wiley, ssherman, The Juggernaut, thecatch, No. 16, Outback, No. 16's ex

This better be good . . .

 

[jomar]

Things might get crazy in a hurry.Received 50 minutes ago. Mind you I'm on the West Coast. She's probably getting ready for work:"I'm on the verge of having an anxiety attack and I don't know what to do."I've witnessed first hand these anxiety attacks. Though her roomates should be able to handle this.

anxiety attacks? RUN!!!!!! don't answer her calls and then hang up, just don't answer.

 

[Evilgrin 72]

You should have sex with the dog and text her pics of that.

 

[Evilgrin 72]

Here's your precious little mutt !! Look what's happening to little "Cucker Spaniel" NOW, beeeeotch !!!

ic:

 

[No. 16]

Ok nothing since her last text. I guessing bc she's at work right now. Too bad I got canceled.

Also, I'm not giving her the dog. She left us, no way she gets to pick and choose what goes with her since I have equal rights to the dog too.

 

[bryhamm]

Here's your precious little mutt !! Look what's happening to little "Cucker Spaniel" NOW, beeeeotch !!!ic:

oh holy sh_t

 

[IvanKaramazov]

Wait. Were people seriously suggesting that No. 16 transfer ownership of the dog to his ex? I was operating under the assumption that "give her the dog" was a euphemism, but ever since the first Otis Nixon reference I've been a little lost in places.

 

[Skipdog77]

Ok nothing since her last text. I guessing bc she's at work right now. Too bad I got canceled. Also, I'm not giving her the dog. She left us, no way she gets to pick and choose what goes with her since I have equal rights to the dog too.

So you're going to roll as a bachelor with a dog named "Belle"?

 

[Godsbrother]

Tell her she can see the dog but only after she gets down on her hands and knees and begs while servicing you.

Her response would be entertaining...

 

[derek245583]

Ok nothing since her last text. I guessing bc she's at work right now. Too bad I got canceled. Also, I'm not giving her the dog. She left us, no way she gets to pick and choose what goes with her since I have equal rights to the dog too.

Oh, cant imagine anyone would want a dog named Belle.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

Ok nothing since her last text. I guessing bc she's at work right now. Too bad I got canceled. Also, I'm not giving her the dog. She left us, no way she gets to pick and choose what goes with her since I have equal rights to the dog too.

You're looking at it all wrong. You're not giving her the dog because she wants it, you're giving her the dog because you don't want her crying to you about it. Plus it's just a damn dog that's lived with your parents more than with you.

 

[Kenny Blankenship]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again"You're such a jerk."How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

 

[DA RAIDERS]

ThisRide her like never before. Then tell her about the raw coke dealer sex and the lovely susan. Then give her the dog and tell her to GTFO!And take some pics.

Make it happen

 

[Slapdash]

16, just call your phone company and ask to block the number. They should do it. I have Verizon and I just called up to get it done.

 

[No. 16]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again"You're such a jerk."How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

1/2 way there!Does the other end know?

 

[Uwe Blab]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again

"You're such a jerk."

How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

I lead a very boring life.

 

[xulf]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again

"You're such a jerk."

How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

1/2 way there!Does the other end know?

oof.

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Yeah I snipped some quotes but as someone who busted my ex having sex with another man, and who 3 months later took her back, you need to step away from this thread and just work on things. You're not ready. You're not over her. Don't worry about entertaining us. Don't worry about what she says/texts/thinks/post on superwhoreboard.com. Distance yourself from anything about her. If that includes your friends, so be it, find some new ones.Drop the shtick. You're hurting inside and we all know it. Go #### a fatty and keep ####### her for a month, then drop her. Then #### another fatty for another month and then drop her. Then don't have sex for 6 months or so and work out, lift weights, run, swim, turn down girls for sex and yank your crank.Day 1 after 6 months, #### another fat girl but don't ever call/see her again.After all of that, THEN start considering a relationship. But that is the point you won't care anymore and you'll start hitting 7s 8s 9s and 10s without thinking of a relationship and that is where the FFA has been pointing you for the length of this thread.Either way, block the freaking number you numbnuts.

:slow effing clap: That's beautiful.

 

[BigJim®]

I say you give her the dog

Yes, why not succumb to yet another indignity and hand your dog over to satan. This whole dog thing is a ruse as others in the FFA have said. Once this dog becomes a bday gift for the PTs 3rd cousin, it will be something else this manipulative diva uses to keep 16 in her web.

 

[derek245583]

I say you give her the dog

Yes, why not succumb to yet another indignity and hand your dog over to satan. This whole dog thing is a ruse as others in the FFA have said. Once this dog becomes a bday gift for the PTs 3rd cousin, it will be something else this manipulative diva uses to keep 16 in her web.

I was just saying give up the dog so she doesnt have any reason to even pretend to contact you...I dunno.Its just a dog

 

[Steve Tasker]

I say you give her the dog

Yes, why not succumb to yet another indignity and hand your dog over to satan. This whole dog thing is a ruse as others in the FFA have said. Once this dog becomes a bday gift for the PTs 3rd cousin, it will be something else this manipulative diva uses to keep 16 in her web.

I was just saying give up the dog so she doesnt have any reason to even pretend to contact you...I dunno.Its just a dog

This is what I was getting at.

 

[BigJim®]

Its just a dog

Not anymore it's not. This dog symbolizes 16's independence, and his pride. He can let her see the dog (in his presence) and relinquish his independence, or he can give her a pet he seems to care about and further relinquish his pride. Or he can ignore her and keep both.

 

[Kenny Blankenship]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again"You're such a jerk."How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

1/2 way there!Does the other end know?

Not at all, they assume you got the texts, calls go straight to voicemail. It was a life saver when I was going through a break up. You can choose to save the history or texts and calls you recieved. I didnt care so there was no sign of any text or call, except for the occasional voicemail. This thing also work good for spam calls too.

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

I say you give her the dog

Yes, why not succumb to yet another indignity and hand your dog over to satan. This whole dog thing is a ruse as others in the FFA have said. Once this dog becomes a bday gift for the PTs 3rd cousin, it will be something else this manipulative diva uses to keep 16 in her web.

I was just saying give up the dog so she doesnt have any reason to even pretend to contact you...I dunno.Its just a dog

This made me think of when Justin Timberlake got punked and looked like he was going to cry and said "they took my dogs"...haha

 

[sbonomo]

Crap she just called. I hung up her. She keeps calling too!

Very obvious that she has a lot of growing up to do. Honestly do you want this drama in your life. I can tell you from experience that it will never go away. you need to block her number ASAP!

 

[Kenny Blankenship]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again

"You're such a jerk."

How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

I lead a very boring life.

Yeah, it is also a useful tool if you are seeing multiple women and dont want texts or calls coming through while you are with one of them from the others.

 

[sbonomo]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again

"You're such a jerk."

How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

I lead a very boring life.

The world has passed me by as well....

 

[Ned]

Here's your precious little mutt !! Look what's happening to little "Cucker Spaniel" NOW, beeeeotch !!!

ic:

 

[Zegras11]

Do not give in, 16. I had a similar experience last August. My family and I were on vacation in the OBX and the ex started texting me weird messages like "goodbye forever" and "I'm getting sleepy now." I called her to see if everything was okay and she informed me that she swallowed a bunch of Vicodins. I was concerned and threatened to call her family (since I was 10 hrs away). I told her that when I got back, we'd go to therapy to work on things. Of course I had no intention but did not what to deal with a suicidal ex 10 hrs away.She's trying everything to get a reaction from you, even her personal health. YOU FINALLY HAVE CONTROL OF THE SITUATION AND DO NOT FALL FOR HER GAMES.

And go CHANGE YOUR ####### PHONE NUMBER

 

[Gr00vus]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again

"You're such a jerk."

How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

I lead a very boring life.

Yeah, it is also a useful tool if you are seeing multiple women and dont want texts or calls coming through while you are with one of them from the others.

Sounds like a nifty app, but in this case I'm with slapdash and think he should go to his carrier and have them block her calls. It's worth the money if they charge for that in this case. Her calls should never even hit his phone so there's 0 temptation.

 

[Zow]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again"You're such a jerk."How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

When she texts, you reply with: "Your message cannot be sent because the person you are trying to contact has blocked all incoming communications." When she responds follow it up with, "Again, your message cannot be sent because the person you are trying to contact has blocked communication with you. As your service provider, we recommend you realize this person wishes that you leave him alone and suggests getting over this issue."I did this with RacistEx and thought it was pretty funny.

 

[Grace Under Pressure]

A response with some self respect might go something like this:

"You leave me for another guy, take him to Hawaii on our 7th Anniversary trip, and now I'm the jerk?

You can have the dog. I'm blocking your number now. Have one of the friends let me know if you want the dog. Otherwise, never contact me again."

If she wants it, give her the dog, it sounds like she can use the companionship right now (she probably won't want the dog). While you're at it, get your own dog. Vizsla is a cool breed, for example. Chicks always ask about them, say it's beautiful, whatever. Great conversation starter, at a dog park for example. Vizsla can usually go everywhere, very social and friendly.

You have it in your power to end this. The shared dog is just a crutch right now, a connection she's using for leverage.

 

[Instinctive]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again"You're such a jerk."How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

When she texts, you reply with: "Your message cannot be sent because the person you are trying to contact has blocked all incoming communications." When she responds follow it up with, "Again, your message cannot be sent because the person you are trying to contact has blocked communication with you. As your service provider, we recommend you realize this person wishes that you leave him alone and suggests getting over this issue."I did this with RacistEx and thought it was pretty funny.

 

[Kenny Blankenship]

And now it gets easy to ignore her again

"You're such a jerk."

How do you block phone numbers on att/iphone 4? Thanks.

Jailbreak your phone and install iBlacklist. It will block all texts, imessages and phone calls from specific users. I use it all the time.

I lead a very boring life.

Yeah, it is also a useful tool if you are seeing multiple women and dont want texts or calls coming through while you are with one of them from the others.

Sounds like a nifty app, but in this case I'm with slapdash and think he should go to his carrier and have them block her calls. It's worth the money if they charge for that in this case. Her calls should never even hit his phone so there's 0 temptation.

I agree that is the easiest way to block her but if he is tempted to talk to her he will find a way no matter what. This is just a quick fix so you dont have to change your number or get the carrier involved. I hope he has some self restraint and just uses this as another tool to move on, which is clearly the best thing he can do right now.

 

[Zow]

Yah gonna stay away from her at all costs right now. Don'tthink I could hold up if I see her crying and begging.As someone mentioned her timing is ridiculous. Though she does know about FBGs so it's possible that she's been reading.This could get crazy if she really wants to get back with me. Early in our relationship when we were long distance, one time I tried breaking up with her bc she was being controlling/jealous and she drove from LA to the Bay Area (6 hr drive) to beg and sex me not to break up with her. Looks like this thread may stay entertaining.

Look, I'm all for banging exes and think it can be therapeutic, but you're not ready for that. Despite our entertainment, stay away from this chick at all costs. Do dirty things to her in like a year, but not anytime soon. Also, quit being more mad at the personal trainer than your GF. He came across a girl willing to cheat and put out with him. He's no saint, but he's not to blame here. You'd have likely done the same thing in his position.

 

[Zow]

A response with some self respect might go something like this:"You leave me for another guy, take him to Hawaii on our 7th Anniversary trip, and now I'm the jerk?You can have the dog. I'm blocking your number now. Have one of the friends let me know if you want the dog. Otherwise, never contact me again."If she wants it, give her the dog, it sounds like she can use the companionship right now (she probably won't want the dog). While you're at it, get your own dog. Vizsla is a cool breed, for example. Chicks always ask about them, say it's beautiful, whatever. Great conversation starter, at a dog park for example. Vizsla can usually go everywhere, very social and friendly. You have it in your power to end this. The shared dog is just a crutch right now, a connection she's using for leverage.

Don't end it with vindictiveness. End it with indifference.

 

[Grace Under Pressure]

Yah gonna stay away from her at all costs right now. Don't

think I could hold up if I see her crying and begging.

As someone mentioned her timing is ridiculous. Though she does know about FBGs so it's possible that she's been reading.

This could get crazy if she really wants to get back with me. Early in our relationship when we were long distance, one time I tried breaking up with her bc she was being controlling/jealous and she drove from LA to the Bay Area (6 hr drive) to beg and sex me not to break up with her. Looks like this thread may stay entertaining.

Look, I'm all for banging exes and think it can be therapeutic, but you're not ready for that. Despite our entertainment, stay away from this chick at all costs. Do dirty things to her in like a year, but not anytime soon. Also, quit being more mad at the personal trainer than your GF. He came across a girl willing to cheat and put out with him. He's no saint, but he's not to blame here. You'd have likely done the same thing in his position.

I didn't see 16 do this directly, but this is spot on. It's not that dude's fault, at all, in the slightest.

 

[Grace Under Pressure]

A response with some self respect might go something like this:"You leave me for another guy, take him to Hawaii on our 7th Anniversary trip, and now I'm the jerk?You can have the dog. I'm blocking your number now. Have one of the friends let me know if you want the dog. Otherwise, never contact me again."If she wants it, give her the dog, it sounds like she can use the companionship right now (she probably won't want the dog). While you're at it, get your own dog. Vizsla is a cool breed, for example. Chicks always ask about them, say it's beautiful, whatever. Great conversation starter, at a dog park for example. Vizsla can usually go everywhere, very social and friendly. You have it in your power to end this. The shared dog is just a crutch right now, a connection she's using for leverage.

Don't end it with vindictiveness. End it with indifference.

While this is a good point, 16 deserves some level of the last say on the matter for his benefit. It makes the point to her that he's moved on and that if she wants to blame anyone she should look in the mirror.

 

[Gr00vus]

It makes the point to her that he's moved on and that if she wants to blame anyone she should look in the mirror.

No, see what we want here is for him to not care about this chick anymore. He doesn't need to make a point with her, he needs to not be in any way concerned with what happens to her from this point forward. Just.don't.talk.to.her.again.....ever.....period.

 

[cstu]

2 calls, hung up twice. Followed by this text:"Can I please see my dog tomorrow??? I'm going crazy! I need to feel some sense of family while I'mUp here in the bay alone."So is this a evil ploy to get the dog or is she really feeling alone now? Either way not my problem.

My reply:"Going?"

 

[tommyGunZ]

Don't end it with vindictiveness. End it with indifference.

/thread

 

[EYLive]

Who knows maybe we end up together after all is said and done, but I owe it myself to see what else is out there.

100% agree that you should go out and jizz into whatever you can. Now's the time to do it; while you're young and not tied down.But you'll be a different person in 5 years, hopefully a wiser and better version of your current self. And by the same token so might she. And when you realize that (for your sake it won't take years), you may realize the 2 of you have been walking separate but parallel paths that eventually merge back together.Young people make mistakes, give her a 2nd chance.

Just curious EYlive why do you have this viewpoint that is so different from the rest of the FFA? It maybe shtick, but if it is where is this coming from? Did you have personal experience? Just curious why you're the lone dissenter.

Usually, I skim over everyone else's posts/advice and just read your updates and responses. I built, what we call in my industry, a psychological profile. On both you and your ex, albeit rough simple ones. Based on those profiles, I believe that there are too many loose ends emotionally. And despite your actions, there has not been proper closure. To leave things as is, would take a very long time for the two of you to cut ties, because based on the way you describe things, the door to reconciliation is still slightly open. If you truly wanted to end things with her, you would have done it already in no uncertain terms. We know how she feels, now it's time to be reeeeally honest to yourself about how you feel. Once you've done that, it should be communicated to the other party.And if I know what I think I know, you two will be back together.

 

[The Z Machine]

Block her calls and texts. Forget the ho.

 

[Zasada]

Don't end it with vindictiveness. End it with indifference.

/thread

Nothing will aggravate her more than you not caring. Woz is on the money here.

 

[No. 16]

Yah gonna stay away from her at all costs right now. Don't

think I could hold up if I see her crying and begging.

As someone mentioned her timing is ridiculous. Though she does know about FBGs so it's possible that she's been reading.

This could get crazy if she really wants to get back with me. Early in our relationship when we were long distance, one time I tried breaking up with her bc she was being controlling/jealous and she drove from LA to the Bay Area (6 hr drive) to beg and sex me not to break up with her. Looks like this thread may stay entertaining.

Look, I'm all for banging exes and think it can be therapeutic, but you're not ready for that. Despite our entertainment, stay away from this chick at all costs. Do dirty things to her in like a year, but not anytime soon. Also, quit being more mad at the personal trainer than your GF. He came across a girl willing to cheat and put out with him. He's no saint, but he's not to blame here. You'd have likely done the same thing in his position.

I didn't see 16 do this directly, but this is spot on. It's not that dude's fault, at all, in the slightest.

Oh I don't blame dude at all. I know it's entirely 100% her fault/choice. This isn't the first guy that hit on her or tried to steal her away. However, that doesn't mean I can't think the guy is a huge richard (especially since he never had long-term intentions). Also, I can't fault the guy because like I mentioned before.... I was him 7 years ago when I met her at a mutual friend's party (the one who is getting married in June). I asked our friend about her, she said the ex had a BF (senior year HS/freshman college deal), I asked if he was there, and she said No. Made out that night, followed up on MySpace a few days after, and the rest is history.

 

[tikitime]

My ex-wife walked out on me unexpectedly after two years of marraige (told me she kissed a co-worker). (This is over 10 years ago.) We talked over the first month as things were developing in our relationhip, and then went a week went without us speaking.

She called after the week and said something along the lines of "What's going on? I feel like I don't really know what is happening in your life right now." (I was unsure of what her intent was) I responded curtly and said something along the lines of "You can't have your cake and eat it too with being in my life, (meaning unsure of where we were in a relationship, while maintaining contact as friends), and as a result we aren't going to be talking any longer." Other than for purposes of signing divorce papers and other legal documents related to taxes and the sale of our house, we never spoke again.

Best decision I ever made, I was clear and unamiguous about my intent. Don't #####foot around.