The good news is that if she comes back you get to keep her. Why do u hate her? Wtf do u care what she does? She moved on she can do whoever and whatever. You should try it.
7 years. Hard to let go even though I know I should have once she moved out. Doesn't help that her friends always tell me that they think she'll come back to me once this honeymoon phase passes. However, I can't ever forgive her for going on our anniversary vacation with another man she just met. That's like a super middle finger to me. So I ####in hate her for that and feels damn good. I actually don't care what she does anymore. My last tie to her was this trip. Now I have no idea nor do I care what that whore does.
At some point you'll no longer be angry at her and will thank your lucky stars this all played out before you made the mistake of marrying her. But right now you should hate that whore with all your might. She broke up with you, lied to you, nailed another dude without missing a beat and is now taking her guy replacement on YOUR romantic getaway. She either just met the guy and already replaced you or met him long ago and was building the relationship behind your back. Either way you should be livid. And friends are telling you she'll come back to you after she's done with her fun? Like you're the runner up prize she'll settle for when she can't find someone better? Screw that ########. I'm not quite in camp Christo but bang a fatty. Hell, go with a transgendered midget. Just don't let your ex be the last thing you've nailed. If you're an old man and don't have a list of chicks you're ashamed to say you slept with then you're going about this the wrong way. I once nailed an overweight wookie. I even posted the picture here in the ffa. So hideous. I promise the fatty you find will not be uglier. But whatever. It gives me (and my friends) something to laugh about. And you should have lots of stories to laugh about - that's what your 20's are for. Join okcupid and plentyoffish - they're free and if you have an ounce of confidence/present yourself well you'll have the option of a woman every single time you go out. Many of the women on there are dtf. Disco Stu, Bender, and many of the other fbg manwhores regularly fish at those sites. We go there for a reason. It sounds like you're mostly handling this fairly well you just need to keep your pipeline full. You land a number and make plans? That's great - but right now for every night out you have planned with a chick, you should have another chick waiting in your queue. I know you're up in my hometown and the women there are plentiful. Dancing at bars is great but the internet dating gives you another angle. And right now you should load up with more options than you can handle.Stay angry. And let that anger fuel your rampage.