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Some hair?I'll be honest. I didn't even know that was possible. "During the second stage of syphilis, an infected person may experience hair loss..."####. I'm not even having freaky sex with drug-dealing Hawaiian chicks and I need to get tested for an STD now.
I'm not new here, and I don't know what they're talking about. Are there pics to be seen of No. 16's missus, or what?
Seconded, I too would like to see 'em and have no clue where to look.
Or sometimes not at all...
In what alternate universe is this true? The opposite is FAR more true.
Yeah, and the crazy thing is, if it's yellow you don't know if it's good or bad.
If they are on e I don't know where. But plenty of interesting stuff there it looks like.
Check "The Cage" there's a thread just for it.
Was last week. Prolly got knocked up by some adian guy and looking for a patsy.Jk nice job but ur playing with fire...kid #3 on the way
Show her recent cell phone pics
tell her you'll come next year but you don't want to cause a scene/upstage her party with unknown drama. she'll thank you for it.
The play is that you don't care. Don't go out of your way to be a #### and show that you hate her, and don't go out of your way to ignore her be indiferent. (which is how you should be feeling now anyway, that whore isn't worth your time or energy to think about)
Be cordial and friendly towards the ex, as if you just won a game of tennis. Then bang her best friend. She's your friend, too, right?
If she's a friend she knows the details of this drama. And should completely understand your lack of desire to be in the same room as the ex. Don't go to the party this year. Next year you can surely be in the same room as your ex. But not right now. Nothing good will come from it.
It's either this (and buy at least a card with a handwritten personal note from you thanking her for her support, and maybe a bottle of wine or something else that the bday girl likes), or you decide you have to go but you just stay away from your ex. Sit away from her, mingle with who you can, hang with your BF, and then leave early. I hope it goes without saying, but if it doesn't, don't bring a date. Honestly, I'd say don't go and send your regrets. Your BF and his GF will completely understand.
You shoplifting? You should sue her for punitive damages and have her tried for criminal conspiracy.
I dunno . . . Ex just got back from Hawaii with her new man, and then HI blabs about her abandoned kids in Hawaii . . .
If he has any respect for his friends he won't do this. If he has any respect for the ffa he will do this.
Great point. Very hi risk maneuver . IF HI is hotter then X 16 wins but if HI blabs about her two kids and the one on the way, not so much so.
The ex is hotter/more beautiful than HI. HI has a great body, slighty more ### than the ex but her face can't compete.What I did find funny was that a new lady friend I have bern hanging out with lately told me the ex asked to be her friend on facebook even though they have never met. So she has been keeping tabs on me, even while she ####### another dude on what was our anniversary vacation.'boots11234 said:
Yeah, I do agree this is the best move.
I'm confused about this. It's his best friends GF's birthday party. Why is the ex going? And why is it on him not to show up to a party to someone that close to him instead of her not showing up? Can anyone clear this up for me?
Ex is roommates with her.
Ah, I forgot how close this whole group was. Thanks.I say go, enjoy the dinner, and just treat it as a normal dinner party and mingle.
Yah spend 7 years with someone during and after college we pretty much share most of our friends.
I disagree. As long as 16 feels he can see the ex with they guy that has been plowing her there is no reason he shouldn't go to a friend's b-day party. If the ex has been keeping tabs on him that will drive her crazy wondering about how quickly he has gotten over her and moved on, however DON'T DRINK TOO MUCH if you get drunk and start blubbering it will not be pretty. He needs to maintain a cool calm demeanor and not give a #### about his ex.
Slim chance dude is here. He lives in Southern California and doesn't have much cash I hear as non-college graduate/personal trainer. For sure she's the one spending all the money and that's why her friends all think she's crazy.
If the ex is still stalking him there are some feelings there. Not necessarily good ones but there is absolutely no need to potentially hijack attention from a friend's birthday party. It's a bad move to go if the ex will be there. The best case scenario is nothing happens. There are many worst case scenarios. No. 16 - your friends will definitely understand if you pass. Send a bottle of wine and go land another chick or nail Hawaii.
Not planning on getting drunk so should avoid any or all scenes. I'm fine with seeing her, I don't want to be with her. Whenever I think of her it's just about how much she lied to me the last month. Certain events/actions that seemed weird at the time finally make sense now. So #### her.
You may be fine seeing her but I'm skeptical she's fine seeing you. She's stalking you and has her friends/family telling her how stupid she's been and what a mistake she's made. Steer clear of the party. Or go and be sure to post it here so we can enjoy the
Pretty much my thoughts exactly. About HI, I'm planning to call or tomorrow or Monday and tell her that I'm not looking for a relationship, yadda yadda.I know it might end all possible booty calls, but I would feel bad stringing a single mom, albeit a coke dealing one, just for sex. If she's down to continue as good times/booty call I'll ride it hard. If not at least my concscience is clear.Anyone see any other downside to letting her know? FFA entertainment aside.
Minus any burning sensations.
It serves no purpose. She's going to hear what she wants to hear. If she wants a relationship it doesn't matter what you say - she's going to hope she can sleep her way into one. Wouldn't be the first time a relationship started on the basis of sex. Nor will it be the last.If she doesn't want a relationship then your talk is just stupid.
I agree with this. Earlier, I said I would be honest with her. And I would, but only when she brings it up.
You have good points, but I don't think he should be making a point to avoid any of his friends just because his ex might be there. He is the breakie, not the breaker. If he is looking to get back at the ex showing up to the party and letting everyone see how much happier he is without her will start to have all of them thinking what a whore his ex is. There is a chance she could make a scene, as long as 16 doesn't start it and doesn't play into her games at all he should be fine, in fact I think their mutual friends will start to prefer 16 more than the ex. Of course if he doesn't feel like going/getting back at the ex then he should stay away.
