Did we ever get clarification that she was actually "Cheating?"
I know its highly likely, but I think 16 should check....
From what she told me and her cousin told me:- Met him Mid December in Vegas. Her cousin said it is crazy how she was still talking about getting married, buying a house, etc on this trip but would mention personal trainer once in a while.
- Flew back 2 weeks later to "visit her Aunt going away to Australia" - Actually, went with PT and same cousin and her BF on double dates. Her cousin didn't want to go on the dates, but went there to watch her on our behalf so she didn't do anything she would regret. Said no kissing/nothing went on.
- Came back and broke up with me First week of January and you guys know the rest.....
So no she didn't "physically cheat" on me and I believe her, but to flip the switch after meeting a guy 2x is what hurts more. Just shatters everything you think you know about that person, yourself, and what "love" is. If she made out with the guy, but wanted to get back together. I could possibly do that. No attempt to "work things out" is what was killer.
Before I blamed myself, but now I realize if she tossed everything away after 7 years for some guy, I could never depend on her as a wife. If it was true love, she would have given us a chance to work things out. She seemed like the perfect wife, but without that loyalty and trust everything else doesn't mean a thing.
I'm truly done with her because I know I'll never trust her ever again.