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Marital Advice - Friendly camping trip too friendly? (1 Viewer)

What do I do next?

  • Nothing, let it go.

    Votes: 9 17.6%

  • Go to counseling.

    Votes: 13 25.5%

  • Have my wife call this guy to figure out the events.

    Votes: 26 51.0%

  • [No response text]

    Votes: 15 29.4%
  • Total voters
    51
The beauty of this thread is that the man in the yellow hat has not even posted in it since October 21, 2008 and it's still alive.

 
'Warhogs said:
The beauty of this thread is that the man in the yellow hat has not even posted in it since October 21, 2008 and it's still alive.
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Yeah, it's pretty whack that he posts other stuff but doesn't update this thread.That should be an FFA policy....no new threads if you have others out there with people looking for updates.
 
'Man in the yellow hat said:
'AnonymousBob said:
Why would you jokingly offer up a bottle of wine, rather than tell him you need to know the facts and that this is potentially a serious matter?
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My wife works at a winery. And frankly, if they all really thought I was pissed, I feel as though they'd be less forthcoming. I know, it sounds stupid. But me joking about will probably get me more information from the third parties.
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i thought she did home daycare?
 
'Man in the yellow hat said:
'Spanky24 said:
I can't get past the idea of NOT going to check on things when a friend tells you that your wife is in a bathroom

stall with another man? How do you just sit and wait for them to come back 15 minutes later?

I call BS.
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I guess I don't see why this is so hard to grasp. Hindsight is 20/20. At the time, I had no reason to believe anything was actually going on. These were two people I trusted. Call it naive, but I trusted them.
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she didnt seem to have a hard time with this :confused:
 
Man in the Yellow Hat needs to set this up better...

AR loaning a chick money is perfect... He has all of the updates highlighted in the OP - That is how this should be done.

 
Man in the yellow hat said:
I'm going to try to keep this short sweet, but since I'm thinking about this and can't sleep, here goes.Every year, some friends organize a camping trip for a whole group of people. These are former college roomates and their significant others, most of whom we've known for close to ten years. This year's event happened over the weekend.Some backstory. I started my freshman year in college when I was twenty after taking a few years off. My now wife was friends with some of the guys I ended up living with when I arrived. We'll call one of these guys 'Steve'. I got to know Steve through some of my close friends, and I ended living with him for two years. Now, Steve was a nice enough guy, but he was a bit of a player. The opposite of me in that respect. I had my share of girl's I dated, but I was pretty low key when it came to hitting on women. Steve started dating his current wife about 6 months after I started dating my wife. We hung out quite a bit during our college years. Now, Steve is a nice guy, but he wasn't exactly faithful while dating this girl. My wife isn't aware of his indiscretions, and it's not my place to fill her in. In any case, I know the guy isn't one to turn down a free offer.Fast forward a few years. As husbands and wives sometimes do, my wife and I started having a discussion about college, and she told me that she had a huge crush on Steve before I met my wife. I wasn't really surprised by this, as they were kind of flirty. It never really bothered me though.Fast forward to last weekend's camping trip. Steve was there, along with many other friends and their significant others. This grouip always gets goofy when we get together, and joke about swapping wives and stuff. I never take any of it too seriously, and flirting is all in good fun. Friday night we all had our kids with us, but on Saturday, we all handed them off to grandparents, who all happened to live near the camping area. Our kid exchange didn't go all that smooth, as one of our boys was feeling a little sick Saturday morning. So, my wife and I were both stressed out. When we got back to the campground, my wife had her first drink. This was around 3. We ended up playing beach volleyball for a while, and then things start getting fuzzy for me.Somewhere between about 9 and 1 a.m., we ended up back at the campsite. I distincly remember three of the guys, inclusing Steve announcing they had to walk to the bathroom. I also remembr my wife saying 'me too' and walking with them toward the bathrooms. Five or so minutes later, two of the guys came back. One of them, we'll call him 'George' told me "Hey, you should go check on your wife, she went into the same stall as Steve". I laughed, because we're always doing goofy things like that to each other. Another 15 minutes or so (having a hard time with time) went by, and George looked and me and said "Dude, seriously. Where are those two? They went into the same stall together." I wondered about it, but again, played it off. A few minutes later, they came walking back to the site together. George asked them what was going on and Steve just laughed. I laughed it off, but now some pieces are starting to come together for me.Later that night, my wife wasn't feeling well, as she drank way too much. She walked up to the bathroom, and walked up a few minutes later to check on her. She was doing OK, but wanted to walk back to the campsite. As she walked out of the bathroom, she said "Hey, my #### are haning out of my bra." I asked how that happened, and she had no idea. Me being drunk and horny, I reach under her shirt and her bra is still fastned, but her breasts are out. Not easy to do with a big chest, so cleary she or someone else helped take those out.I laughed that off as well, until I started thinking about this yesterday. Last night, I brought this series of events up to my wife, and she does not remember any of it. She remebers things from the night, but does not remember going into the stall with the guy, nor does she remember anything happening. She kind of freaked out about this, and I certainly wish I'd have listned to George and walked to the bathroom to check on them.Quite honestly, this all does not sit well with me today, which is why I can't sleep. So, what's my next move?
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"I laughed it off again, until a used condom fell out of my wife's box. Then I said, hey, wait a minute..."
 
Aha, the great purge...

Poll: What do I do next? (583 member(s) have cast votes) What do I do next?
  1. Nothing, let it go. (86 votes [15.84%])
  2. Go to counseling. (146 votes [26.89%])
  3. Have my wife call this guy to figure out the events. (137 votes [25.23%])
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214 votes lost to history.

 
So I got to like page 16 or 17 and threw in the towel.

Does MIYH ever update with anything significant? Wife leave him? He remembers kissing her later that night and she tasted like a protein shake? Anything?

 
After spending two and a half hours in this thread, I'm finally noticing how bad the poll options are. I kept reading the occasional comment about them, and reading how people wouldn't vote, but never fully got the complaints about it. Oh, God. They're so perfect. I read them three...four...five times and it didn't dawn on me until just now how beautiful they are.

:lmao: :cry: :lmao:

 
NCCommish said:
For all those saying there is no way the wife doesn't remeber well that's just wrong. The OP was so drunk he can't even narrow down the time frame past between 9 and 1. I have been in complete blackout and carried on conversations where the other person had no idea. I was still ordering drinks. So yes she may not remember.

But the other two guys who went to the bathroom remember. And they tried to get the OP to go put the brakes on it. I would try to get the info from them.
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NCC spot on as usual

 
Crazy Canuck said:
So I got to like page 16 or 17 and threw in the towel.

Does MIYH ever update with anything significant? Wife leave him? He remembers kissing her later that night and she tasted like a protein shake? Anything?
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Why stop? Back in the day I remember not being able to read as fast as people were posting, falling further behind. You have it easy now. It's like a quick book even though you already have two other books started.
 
McGarnicle said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
I'm going to try to keep this short sweet, but since I'm thinking about this and can't sleep, here goes.Every year, some friends organize a camping trip for a whole group of people. These are former college roomates and their significant others, most of whom we've known for close to ten years. This year's event happened over the weekend.Some backstory. I started my freshman year in college when I was twenty after taking a few years off. My now wife was friends with some of the guys I ended up living with when I arrived. We'll call one of these guys 'Steve'. I got to know Steve through some of my close friends, and I ended living with him for two years. Now, Steve was a nice enough guy, but he was a bit of a player. The opposite of me in that respect. I had my share of girl's I dated, but I was pretty low key when it came to hitting on women. Steve started dating his current wife about 6 months after I started dating my wife. We hung out quite a bit during our college years. Now, Steve is a nice guy, but he wasn't exactly faithful while dating this girl. My wife isn't aware of his indiscretions, and it's not my place to fill her in. In any case, I know the guy isn't one to turn down a free offer.Fast forward a few years. As husbands and wives sometimes do, my wife and I started having a discussion about college, and she told me that she had a huge crush on Steve before I met my wife. I wasn't really surprised by this, as they were kind of flirty. It never really bothered me though.Fast forward to last weekend's camping trip. Steve was there, along with many other friends and their significant others. This grouip always gets goofy when we get together, and joke about swapping wives and stuff. I never take any of it too seriously, and flirting is all in good fun. Friday night we all had our kids with us, but on Saturday, we all handed them off to grandparents, who all happened to live near the camping area. Our kid exchange didn't go all that smooth, as one of our boys was feeling a little sick Saturday morning. So, my wife and I were both stressed out. When we got back to the campground, my wife had her first drink. This was around 3. We ended up playing beach volleyball for a while, and then things start getting fuzzy for me.Somewhere between about 9 and 1 a.m., we ended up back at the campsite. I distincly remember three of the guys, inclusing Steve announcing they had to walk to the bathroom. I also remembr my wife saying 'me too' and walking with them toward the bathrooms. Five or so minutes later, two of the guys came back. One of them, we'll call him 'George' told me "Hey, you should go check on your wife, she went into the same stall as Steve". I laughed, because we're always doing goofy things like that to each other. Another 15 minutes or so (having a hard time with time) went by, and George looked and me and said "Dude, seriously. Where are those two? They went into the same stall together." I wondered about it, but again, played it off. A few minutes later, they came walking back to the site together. George asked them what was going on and Steve just laughed. I laughed it off, but now some pieces are starting to come together for me.Later that night, my wife wasn't feeling well, as she drank way too much. She walked up to the bathroom, and walked up a few minutes later to check on her. She was doing OK, but wanted to walk back to the campsite. As she walked out of the bathroom, she said "Hey, my #### are haning out of my bra." I asked how that happened, and she had no idea. Me being drunk and horny, I reach under her shirt and her bra is still fastned, but her breasts are out. Not easy to do with a big chest, so cleary she or someone else helped take those out.I laughed that off as well, until I started thinking about this yesterday. Last night, I brought this series of events up to my wife, and she does not remember any of it. She remebers things from the night, but does not remember going into the stall with the guy, nor does she remember anything happening. She kind of freaked out about this, and I certainly wish I'd have listned to George and walked to the bathroom to check on them.Quite honestly, this all does not sit well with me today, which is why I can't sleep. So, what's my next move?
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"I laughed it off again, until a used condom fell out of my wife's box. Then I said, hey, wait a minute..."
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"Then I laughed it off......."

The end

 
Man in the yellow hat said:
tdoss said:
MIYH...give us an update.How's the relationship with everyone involved?Do you guys have any contact with Steve, the wife or the friend?
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Just remember, you asked for it....Everyone seems to have moved on from it. Steve and his family were actually in the area a few weeks back. Our kids played together at a public area that that day and everyone was very cool. I'd like to stress that my wife and Steve's wife became very close about two years ago. I don't want to get into too much detail, but a close family member of Steve's wife had cancer and my wife was very supportive of her. As such, they do connect occassionally. My wife and Steve never spent any time with each other without me there. I was cordial, but he's very aware of my feelings on the whole situation and does tread lightly. This does not come up in conversation in my house anymore. My wife knows where I stand on it, and we've moved on for the most part. The idea of getting a DNA test is still hanging out there, just for piece of mind.
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Is MIYH implying his kid may be Steve's kid?

 
Ditka Butkus said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
tdoss said:
MIYH...give us an update.How's the relationship with everyone involved?Do you guys have any contact with Steve, the wife or the friend?
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Just remember, you asked for it....Everyone seems to have moved on from it. Steve and his family were actually in the area a few weeks back. Our kids played together at a public area that that day and everyone was very cool. I'd like to stress that my wife and Steve's wife became very close about two years ago. I don't want to get into too much detail, but a close family member of Steve's wife had cancer and my wife was very supportive of her. As such, they do connect occassionally. My wife and Steve never spent any time with each other without me there. I was cordial, but he's very aware of my feelings on the whole situation and does tread lightly. This does not come up in conversation in my house anymore. My wife knows where I stand on it, and we've moved on for the most part. The idea of getting a DNA test is still hanging out there, just for piece of mind.
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Is MIYH implying his kid may be Steve's kid?
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:yes:

 
Socrates11 said:
Ditka Butkus said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
tdoss said:
MIYH...give us an update.How's the relationship with everyone involved?Do you guys have any contact with Steve, the wife or the friend?
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Just remember, you asked for it....Everyone seems to have moved on from it. Steve and his family were actually in the area a few weeks back. Our kids played together at a public area that that day and everyone was very cool. I'd like to stress that my wife and Steve's wife became very close about two years ago. I don't want to get into too much detail, but a close family member of Steve's wife had cancer and my wife was very supportive of her. As such, they do connect occassionally. My wife and Steve never spent any time with each other without me there. I was cordial, but he's very aware of my feelings on the whole situation and does tread lightly. This does not come up in conversation in my house anymore. My wife knows where I stand on it, and we've moved on for the most part. The idea of getting a DNA test is still hanging out there, just for piece of mind.
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Is MIYH implying his kid may be Steve's kid?
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:yes:
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Wow.....I though Steve just boxed her boobies a little......wait for it....

 
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