Hello Jake,
Sorry for the long delay in responding to you. We are currently in Japan on the road meeting with our research staff, priests and government officials who are all involved with us and support us in our endeavors to find family here.
The flag you have is quite extraordinary.
At first glance we believe, without the benefit of closer inspection, that those hand prints would be from the soldier’s children. They were too young to hold a brush and write characters so this is the only other option.
It was a fairly common practice during that time.
The Tiger appears to be drawn with great artistic care, which might mean the family had an artist friend, but it might also mean that this soldier was born in the year of the tiger, and to represent this proud fact the father or mother or wife took the flag to an artist to have this included.
Pure speculation….but based on years of experience.
In answer to your question about retaining possession, we must follow a policy of what we call “guaranteed return.”
We must have possession before the search begins.
Because of the investment in time and resources put into every item…and the fact that to actually confirm that we have found the correct family, our agents here ultimately must show a picture to the family for them to see.
At that point in time, we never know the reaction and response from them.
In years past Americans have contacted newspapers with an image of something they wanted to return, and after months or years of searching the reporters finally found the family…….but upon trying to contact the Americans again they discovered they had disappeared.
This left the reporters with a bereaved family who had seen a photograph of a possession once carried by their family member….but the Americans who have it had disappeared. It was almost like a tease, except much worse.
What happened to the Americans is unknown. Whether they were in a car crash…or their home swept away in a tornado….or they were sickened with cancer…or they changed their minds…..we will never know. But these sorts incidents have happened…they are a reality of what we were warned about years ago.
Our guaranteed return is based on us having possession of the item
before the search begins. That way, if and when the family is found…..there is no delay in their receiving it.
If we were just dealing with “stuff”….you know….like helmets or uniforms or rifles….it would be different. But the fact we are dealing family heirlooms that represent to only surviving trace of someone is entirely different. Also, because of that….these items Americans might see as ‘war souvenirs’ or ‘flags’ actually contain the ‘spirit’ of that person. It is alive to the Japanese. They talk to it….take it to the cemetery to show their deceased relatives….they apologize to it.
Please click on this link to a CBS program from last year about us that illustrates that exact response by the Japanese.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvHTtR8NID4
We imagine this is not the news you expected to hear, but the reason is probably perfectly clear. We must be very sensitive and careful.
On our website we have included links to our past newsletters. They are filled with stories and photographs of families and soldiers and returns of items to Japan. Please have a look. This will better illustrate what I am saying than any words.
http://obonsociety.org/obon-society-newsletter/
We look forward to hearing from you Jake.
Be well, and thank you for your generous heart. Those soldier’s children are probably in their 70’s now and would very much appreciate having this remains of their father.