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My daughter is friends with this girl. They are both 16. Our two families are close and we speak quite a bit. Their daughter K has had difficulties with mental health the last couple of years. Me and my daughter are very close. She tells me everything going on in her life and with her friends. K's parents know this. Recently K tried killing herself by OD'ing. She was admitted in the hospital and is now home seeing therapist's etc. I spoke to K's parents and told them if there was anything my daughter told me about K that I felt they should know I would tell them with the understanding that they would not let K know how they found out. The types of things i've shared in the past is how she was feeling, what she is doing at school etc. K's mom understands that if this would ever get back to my daughter it would likely damage our relationship as well as dry up any helpful info i am able to pass to them regarding their daughter.
Well my daughter told me a bombshell last night. She told me that a third friend I'll call E (who also has mental issues) and K were talking. K told E that she was going to kill herself and how she was going to do it. E apparently told K to "go ahead and do it or figure out another way to do it"!! Truly awful. My daughter said "How could someone do that?"
My question is: Do I tell K's parents this? In the past they have been careful about the things i've told them about their daughter but if I were them I'd want to strangle E!! At the very least I would tell my daughter not to hang out with E anymore. I'm worried this certainly would get back to my daughter who specifically told me not to tell anyone. Ugh. What should I do?
Well my daughter told me a bombshell last night. She told me that a third friend I'll call E (who also has mental issues) and K were talking. K told E that she was going to kill herself and how she was going to do it. E apparently told K to "go ahead and do it or figure out another way to do it"!! Truly awful. My daughter said "How could someone do that?"
My question is: Do I tell K's parents this? In the past they have been careful about the things i've told them about their daughter but if I were them I'd want to strangle E!! At the very least I would tell my daughter not to hang out with E anymore. I'm worried this certainly would get back to my daughter who specifically told me not to tell anyone. Ugh. What should I do?