Doug B
Footballguy
Their attitude 100% is we are gonna eat what we want.
It's a weird feeling, not REALLY pushing and nagging to get them to eat right, but if they aren't committed, there's no chance they will change
This might or might not be a related thing, but I'll share it and see if it clicks for others.
We were watching a movie on Netflix the other day, called Hit Man. Just going to share two short scenes verbally, no plot spoilers:
- A woman is seeking to hire the titular hit man. They meet at a diner. Hit man is eating a piece of pie when she arrives. She begins by telling the hit man how controlling and terrible her husband is, and how she wants him gone. She looks at the hit man's pie, and asks him if she can have a bite: "He's got me on this crazy diet and doesn't let me eat things like this".
- Later, the same woman meets a paramour near a food truck. The food truck happens to sell ice cream, so both of them order sundaes or banana splits or something, then head back to a picnic table to enjoy their ice cream, makes eyes at each other, and feel total bliss.
The point? "Food deprivation" -- heck, the actual word "diet" is being used as a symbol of "mistreatment". And the bite of pie? The ice cream sundaes? Happiness -- makes all that nasty stuff go away. Visual shorthand right there on the shelf, handy for the screenwriter to use, understood intuitively by all.
Fighting obesity in society is not fighting a lack of knowledge. The right information, the right app, even the right intentions at the individual level ... all that's about 5% of the battle. Maybe. The other 95%? My favorite buzzword in this thread: socio-cultural conditions. The water in which we fish swim. The assumptions ingrained, the stuff we don't have to think about because it's automatic. Food is good. Tasty food is better. More tasty food is even better. And to be denied that is the very definition of suffering.
"He's got me on this crazy diet ..." While sitting across from a hit man, ready to pass over an envelope of cash. And the viewers instantly understand. They get it and sympathize with the woman. Socio. Cultural.
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