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I know lolI assumed the same thing you did, just wanted to check since I'm still kinda
about most of this... lol
You're supposed to be stopping from emailing match.com chicks...WTF?proninja said:
WannaBuyAHouse?proninja said:
Just got a booty call from a chick I really shouldn't be going to hook up with. Somewhat attractive, but bad news from front to back.Oh well. Fun shall ensue.
I also accept them in my inbox. TIA.
I've never even seen Swingers...and its not even close... lolI mean, I'm still posting on FBG, so I have to at least remain in schtick a little bit...
Have you re-read any of your posts?I mean, I'm still posting on FBG, so I have to at least remain in schtick a little bit...
have you read the things I"ve actually mailed the girls? lolhere, I'm part schticking, part serious, being a smidge serious when I can and asking questions when I'm curious (and asking more questions that I'd normally ask otherwise since I don't care what you all think of me)...But I'm not acting like this at all in the messages I send these girls or anything like that...seriously, learn to seperate schtick from reality lolHave you re-read any of your posts?I mean, I'm still posting on FBG, so I have to at least remain in schtick a little bit...
this is some
I have asked about this before too, I think even pm'd some of these scoundrels.nothing.
I only have video. Sorry about your luck.Just got a booty call from a chick I really shouldn't be going to hook up with. Somewhat attractive, but bad news from front to back.Oh well. Fun shall ensue.
How am I supposed to know if I should use stalker shtick or pedophile shtick if you dont say #### about yourself in your profile lady.
no... I don't want to pull a woz!!!
Woz might become an idating term.Kind of like munson became a term in Kingpin."dude went all Woz on me last night"
It's the skinny thing, IMO.I'd do her.Looks awfully young...
Why are you emailing her?(I mean, why her, especially? Must be a reason, even with her having little to say about herself)
she's pretty attractive...and there aren't a million active girls around my age on there, so I'm pretty much e-mailing any of them that interest me in any way and figure if they end up not being that interesting, I can figure that out later....
also, I'm seeing a lot of girls who aren't saying a ton about themselves to comment on... Like they say what they want in a guy, but they don't say a lot about themselves...
Yo, LB - If you haven't sent it already, put in something about how working with autistic kids must be very challenging in addition to rewarding. Why are you laughing at looking for a job? If you want to lol, turn it into some shtick about being turned out the in real world."I'm a lot like you" is bad. The line should be more like "We seem to have a lot in common"Don't ask her out immediately. Get a response first before you suggest a meeting. Also - look to the early advice in the thread. Keep the first meeting short and non-intimidating. Dinner shouldn't be considered unless it's super-casual.
I wouldn't waste my time. If she hasn't said much in her profile, it's because she's not that interested in i-dating. She put the minimum in there that she needed to check it out but isn't really sure about actually meeting anyone.she's pretty attractive...and there aren't a million active girls around my age on there, so I'm pretty much e-mailing any of them that interest me in any way and figure if they end up not being that interesting, I can figure that out later....
I don't know why I was laughing... old habits...you are right, "we seem to have a lot in common" = better... (I know, I should actually use the vocabulary I have, I'm just so use to pretending it isn't there lol)and the only reason I said something about dinner & a movie was 'cuz I was referincing her "first date" section...
seemed like a good idea, although now that I think about it it probably isn't...
Homer Jay, what happened to the tall real-life girl that you met (at a wedding, maybe?) and seemed to like a lot?
Agreed; he's doing very well.No Woz sightings here in a while...what's the word, Keys?
Last time I talked to him was about the blind date thing. He changes his Facebook picture a lot, so he's alive, at least.
Yes, it's that easy.
Sounds like Gordon Gekko if you ask me...
It's amazing what actually listening to advice from people who've been there and done that will do.
Minuses: Could be a big headache, often makes scheduling difficult, divided emotional loyaltiesPluses: At least you know she puts outlarry_boy_44 said:
If you're looking to just get laid, one could argue that single moms are the holy grail of the idating universe. Considering they are typically swamped with their job and their nasty kids, you never have to worry about:1) Being the main priority in their life. This is gold if you want to get in with multiple wimmens and would rather spend time at the bar with your buddies than with them. You know you can pencil them in once a week or every 10 days or so and then;2) you know you'll have fun, and if they like you, you WILL get laid. Single moms don't have much time to go out. When they do, they want to have as much fun as possible and do all the things they used to do before they had the screaming, crying, disgusting 75-lb anchor around their fat calves that they now have. 3) They probably won't invite you over a whole lot at first, as they'll be embarrassed by their kid, and probably their house (it's such a mess), so you also won't have to confront that for the first month or so. 4) They know they have the kid. They know guys don't want anything to do with the kid. So by showing interest in them, it gives you a quicker in than you may have with some hot 22-year-old who has every guy drooling over her. Think about it.If you play it cool and don't get too hitched up, dating single moms can and will be among the best experiences of your idating life.
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5 stars.If you're looking to just get laid, one could argue that single moms are the holy grail of the idating universe. Considering they are typically swamped with their job and their nasty kids, you never have to worry about:1) Being the main priority in their life. This is gold if you want to get in with multiple wimmens and would rather spend time at the bar with your buddies than with them. You know you can pencil them in once a week or every 10 days or so and then;2) you know you'll have fun, and if they like you, you WILL get laid. Single moms don't have much time to go out. When they do, they want to have as much fun as possible and do all the things they used to do before they had the screaming, crying, disgusting 75-lb anchor around their fat calves that they now have. 3) They probably won't invite you over a whole lot at first, as they'll be embarrassed by their kid, and probably their house (it's such a mess), so you also won't have to confront that for the first month or so. 4) They know they have the kid. They know guys don't want anything to do with the kid. So by showing interest in them, it gives you a quicker in than you may have with some hot 22-year-old who has every guy drooling over her. Think about it.If you play it cool and don't get too hitched up, dating single moms can and will be among the best experiences of your idating life.
Does she have anything in her profile? Any interests listed? What about her pictures - is she posing with a car or a pet or in an interesting city or at a major tourist attraction? If this is on PoF, has she posted anything in the forums? I know when I send a message to someone I usually try to comment on something in his profile. And the messages I like receiving are ones from people who've obviously read my profile and mention something like a common interest or ask a question about something I've said. The thing that drives me crazy is when a guy asks me a question that can be answered by looking in my profile. (For example: "Where do you live?") If there's really absolutely nothing in there, you could just tell her something about yourself.larry_boy_44 said:
Go for it...On another note - OMG, I am getting propositioned by a guy who is 19! I'm 33! I'm practically old enough to be his mother (had I gotten pregnant my freshman year of high school)
Why not?
hmmm... makes sense... So basically just ask some general questions and make sure what you ask isn't answered in her profile...I think my problem is I'm thinking too hard about it trying to be witty or whatever, when, really, its unlikely what I say is going to change if they are interested or not, so I should just message them, say what I got to, ask a couple questions about them so they know I am interested, and leave it at that....:takes a deep breath and is going to try and give that a shot:
bad? Good? Horrible?? Any suggestions on how to fix it??Also... she has a daughter, should I ask about the daughter or leave it 100% up to her to mention anything about the daughter???
as a first message I think it is too long, too many questions, too much effort, first sentence is not necessary (it is obvious you are interested in her hence the email). Expect > 90% rejection and make use of your time appropriately.
I would ditch the "for whatever reason"... That comes off as a horrible way to start....Think about how you would react if you received the message you are writing...Otherwise I thnk it's solid...I wouldn't mention the daughter specifically the first time, it's kind of implied in the "juggling lots of stuff" comment...
so cut out the first and last line (not including "I look forward to hearing from you.")???
I don't the length is a real problem, especially since you've already written it...
Don't think there's anything wrong there - in fact, you can usually land a much hotter woman than normal if she's got a drooling piece of baggage hanging onto her skirt.
