***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (3 Viewers)

[Otis]

Otis, it's pretty obvious what type of girl you go for from those pics. The first 10 or so I looked at... all very similar.

Seriously? Please explain. I've never understood my own taste.

Ok, I know I like skinny chicks. Without a doubt. Never been into chubby or tubby or round looking. Is that where the manly jaw comes in?

 

[Capella]

Otis, it's pretty obvious what type of girl you go for from those pics. The first 10 or so I looked at... all very similar.

Seriously? Please explain. I've never understood my own taste.

Ok, I know I like skinny chicks. Without a doubt. Never been into chubby or tubby or round looking. Is that where the manly jaw comes in?

I don't know about the manly jaw, but from what I've gathered here, you like 8 or 9s with flawless skin and it seems like you prefer them to be almost totally brain-dead.We've had this conversation before when you've discussed not finding the wife. You might have to stop shopping in the under-22 and completely vapid category.

 

[Otis]

Otis, it's pretty obvious what type of girl you go for from those pics. The first 10 or so I looked at... all very similar.

Seriously? Please explain. I've never understood my own taste.

Ok, I know I like skinny chicks. Without a doubt. Never been into chubby or tubby or round looking. Is that where the manly jaw comes in?

I don't know about the manly jaw, but from what I've gathered here, you like 8 or 9s with flawless skin and it seems like you prefer them to be almost totally brain-dead.We've had this conversation before when you've discussed not finding the wife. You might have to stop shopping in the under-22 and completely vapid category.

For the record, the chicks posted above are actually, on the whole, pretty smart. I filter out the "OMG lool" chicks right off the bat, regardless of looks. The chicks above include professionals -- lawyers, chemical engineers, and even a chick in med school (one of the ones I find most attractive of all). I guess yeah, I probably likes 8s and 9s. That doesn't mean they're automatically otherwise worthless, does it?

 

[Capella]

Otis, it's pretty obvious what type of girl you go for from those pics. The first 10 or so I looked at... all very similar.

Seriously? Please explain. I've never understood my own taste.

:XOk, I know I like skinny chicks. Without a doubt. Never been into chubby or tubby or round looking. Is that where the manly jaw comes in?

I don't know about the manly jaw, but from what I've gathered here, you like 8 or 9s with flawless skin and it seems like you prefer them to be almost totally brain-dead.We've had this conversation before when you've discussed not finding the wife. You might have to stop shopping in the under-22 and completely vapid category.

For the record, the chicks posted above are actually, on the whole, pretty smart. I filter out the "OMG lool" chicks right off the bat, regardless of looks. The chicks above include professionals -- lawyers, chemical engineers, and even a chick in med school (one of the ones I find most attractive of all). I guess yeah, I probably likes 8s and 9s. That doesn't mean they're automatically otherwise worthless, does it?

No. Wasn't really talking about these chicks, more of your previous bimbos.

 

[Otis]

Otis, it's pretty obvious what type of girl you go for from those pics. The first 10 or so I looked at... all very similar.

Seriously? Please explain. I've never understood my own taste.

Ok, I know I like skinny chicks. Without a doubt. Never been into chubby or tubby or round looking. Is that where the manly jaw comes in?

I don't know about the manly jaw, but from what I've gathered here, you like 8 or 9s with flawless skin and it seems like you prefer them to be almost totally brain-dead.We've had this conversation before when you've discussed not finding the wife. You might have to stop shopping in the under-22 and completely vapid category.

For the record, the chicks posted above are actually, on the whole, pretty smart. I filter out the "OMG lool" chicks right off the bat, regardless of looks. The chicks above include professionals -- lawyers, chemical engineers, and even a chick in med school (one of the ones I find most attractive of all). I guess yeah, I probably likes 8s and 9s. That doesn't mean they're automatically otherwise worthless, does it?

No. Wasn't really talking about these chicks, more of your previous bimbos.

My recent ex is an attorney making almost $200k a year.The other chicks I have been dating semi regularly (1) work at Credit Suisse on the trading floor and (2) graduated from Columbia.These aren't bimbos I swear. If anything, I could use a little bimbo fun in my life.

 

[Sister Havana]

Jesus...

About Me:Hey watz up im da type of person dat is laid bak, fun, out going, blunt, i dont like to play games and i alwayz keep it real.... im very easy to get along with until u get on mah bad side so juz stay on da good...lol...but newayz I like to party alot go 2 clubz, party u know but most of mah time is wit mah kids.

And this person has reproduced.

 

[Clark Griswold]

Jesus...

About Me:Hey watz up im da type of person dat is laid bak, fun, out going, blunt, i dont like to play games and i alwayz keep it real.... im very easy to get along with until u get on mah bad side so juz stay on da good...lol...but newayz I like to party alot go 2 clubz, party u know but most of mah time is wit mah kids.

And this person has reproduced.

Ho Fo Sho

 

[Disco Stu]

I signed up at plentyoffish yesterday. Looks pretty promising...

Outstanding response rate here. Uploaded a few pics to the underground. Hope to meet at least one of those three Saturday.

Hey Stu, whatever happened to the cute redhaired hairdresser? I think I was in with her myself. Seem to recall you lived far away from one another and were having trouble getting together...

Yeah, I kind of dropped it after that. I also got the impression that she enjoyed myspace public attention, which I'm not into at all. I don't want to be one of those schlubs drooling over some chick's myspace.She did send me a message there last weekend. And then I noticed her at POF, so I sent her a "familiar face" type note. I actually owe a response on that one. Maybe I should pursue this more just for you...

I thought she was the cutest girl that anyone posted.

Update:Message exchange at POF...

Hey "Red",

I just registered here about an hour ago. While I was trying to figure this place out, a familiar smile and crop of red hair along the bottom of the screen caught my eye.

Any luck with this site?

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No luck....a friend of mine told me about this site a month or so ago. I just think I'm in a funk, too picky and not ready to meet anyone, other than friends.

Let me know how it works for ya...

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I've gotta agree with the "too picky" part. I mean c'mon, you don't even want to meet ME???

Happy Birthday! Hope you're having a good one.

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Thanks! Sure we can meet. I just started thinking you probably live too far away :(

Well played! (Of course, I hand out "well played" cards at this point to anyone who doesn't mention pedophilia.) Hope you two get a chance to get together.

#### changes in a hurry. Last week we were comparing schedules trying (unsuccessfully) to line up a meeting. This week she has a boyfriend. Sorry krista, I tried.

 

[Woz]

well the girl read the e-mail but hasn't replied. we'll see what happens.

 

[Woz]

any of you guys find these girls who wanted to double match with me on hotornot interesting?

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OYSRAQK&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GYBYSUB&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORRZKSR

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORSEKUB&mp=1

 

[Disco Stu]

any of you guys find these girls who wanted to double match with me on hotornot interesting?

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OYSRAQK&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GYBYSUB&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORRZKSR

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORSEKUB&mp=1

1. Sexy. Looks like she could make a man of you. 2. Well, she knows how to spell anal. :(

3. One pic + a bunch of virtual flowers = probably fake.

4. 18 year-old figure skater... GD it Woz right now I really wish you weren't such a ####up.

 

[Woz]

any of you guys find these girls who wanted to double match with me on hotornot interesting?

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OYSRAQK&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GYBYSUB&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORRZKSR

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORSEKUB&mp=1

1. Sexy. Looks like she could make a man of you. 2. Well, she knows how to spell anal.

3. One pic + a bunch of virtual flowers = probably fake.

4. 18 year-old figure skater... GD it Woz right now I really wish you weren't such a ####up.

messages 1 and 4. both were brief. both asked questions about their profiles

 

[Kraft...]

any of you guys find these girls who wanted to double match with me on hotornot interesting?

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OYSRAQK&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GYBYSUB&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORRZKSR

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORSEKUB&mp=1

#3 seems like the best prospect for you IMOStu says she's fake, what do I know. She was the cutest of the bunch Is the mention of "disease free" a dead givaway or is that fairly common?

 

[Woz]

any of you guys find these girls who wanted to double match with me on hotornot interesting?

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OYSRAQK&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GYBYSUB&mp=1

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORRZKSR

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=ORSEKUB&mp=1

#3 seems like the best prospect for you IMOStu says she's fake, what do I know. She was the cutest of the bunch Is the mention of "disease free" a dead givaway or is that fairly common?

eh, usually when they just have pic, add you first, and seem too good to be true they are fake. i thought she looked fake too, but who knows.

 

[KnowledgeReignsSupreme]

Otis, it's pretty obvious what type of girl you go for from those pics. The first 10 or so I looked at... all very similar.

Thin with long dark hair and manly jaws.

Is this what KRS was talking about?I never thought I liked manly chicks

What Krista said without the manly jaw thing (which I did not notice).

 

[Disco Stu]

At the risk of making Alias jealous here's a new girl I'm talking to.

 

[Keys Myaths]

I think I'm pretty much done with this.

Got a few B&M chicks to handle, and this is becoming a chore more than fun. Plus, my subscriptions run out this month.

I'll still be here to give advice and stuff, but this has passed me by.

 

[Woz]

UPDATE:

Here's her latest reply:

"How I ended up on it is pretty dumb actually. I wasn't looking for anything or even wanting to try the site but one of my best friends was on here and having trouble sorting through date offers. We signed me up on evening so I could look at the people who were extending offers to her I "helped" her the best I could. Hence my vague profile and it saying I'm here for talk/email. This was over a year ago and my good friend has since decided after many dates with men from here that it wasn't working because she is actually a lesbian, met her girlfriend, moved to San Francisco and is very happy. Long story short, I hadn't been on here in a while and my email was full so I signed in, cruised through my emails and here I am."

One good thing about the reply - with her inbox completely full she chose me of likely just a few to reply to. If she's telling the truth about why she is using the site, certainly she wouldn't reply to many guys if any.

The bad things - She skirted my question for a date. Didn't ask any followup questions.

So, I'm getting the feeling she is getting tired of the back and forth (I am too) and I think she may only reply to one or two more e-mails. How do I handle this then? Thinking of something like this:

"Wow, that is quite the story. It's interesting how people discover themselves that way and never quite understand their sexuality. I'm sure she is much happier now. Guess you have her some unintended "help" with that.

But by the way, you never answered my question about the drinks. "

 

[Woz]

I think I'm pretty much done with this.Got a few B&M chicks to handle, and this is becoming a chore more than fun. Plus, my subscriptions run out this month.I'll still be here to give advice and stuff, but this has passed me by.

your 5 in 5 will still be legendary

 

[Tremendous Upside]

I would drop the "never quite understand their sexuality line," that just sounds creepy...

 

[Drifter]

I think I'm pretty much done with this.Got a few B&M chicks to handle, and this is becoming a chore more than fun. Plus, my subscriptions run out this month.I'll still be here to give advice and stuff, but this has passed me by.

your 5 in 5 will still be legendary

If that's what I think it is, I had it beat back in my i-dating days.

 

[Disco Stu]

UPDATE:

Here's her latest reply:

"How I ended up on it is pretty dumb actually. I wasn't looking for anything or even wanting to try the site but one of my best friends was on here and having trouble sorting through date offers. We signed me up on evening so I could look at the people who were extending offers to her I "helped" her the best I could. Hence my vague profile and it saying I'm here for talk/email. This was over a year ago and my good friend has since decided after many dates with men from here that it wasn't working because she is actually a lesbian, met her girlfriend, moved to San Francisco and is very happy. Long story short, I hadn't been on here in a while and my email was full so I signed in, cruised through my emails and here I am."

One good thing about the reply - with her inbox completely full she chose me of likely just a few to reply to. If she's telling the truth about why she is using the site, certainly she wouldn't reply to many guys if any.

The bad things - She skirted my question for a date. Didn't ask any followup questions.

So, I'm getting the feeling she is getting tired of the back and forth (I am too) and I think she may only reply to one or two more e-mails. How do I handle this then? Thinking of something like this:

"Wow, that is quite the story. It's interesting how people discover themselves. that way and never quite understand their sexuality. I'm sure Sounds like she is much happier now. Guess you have her some unintended "help" with that.

Hopefully you've changed your mind about the "talk/email" thing, because I'm looking forward to meeting you. Speaking of, But by the way, you never answered my question about the drinks. "

Edited.

 

[Woz]

I think I'm pretty much done with this.Got a few B&M chicks to handle, and this is becoming a chore more than fun. Plus, my subscriptions run out this month.I'll still be here to give advice and stuff, but this has passed me by.

your 5 in 5 will still be legendary

If that's what I think it is, I had it beat back in my i-dating days.

whoreby the way, what do you think of my reply to that girl?

 

[Drifter]

I think I'm pretty much done with this.Got a few B&M chicks to handle, and this is becoming a chore more than fun. Plus, my subscriptions run out this month.I'll still be here to give advice and stuff, but this has passed me by.

your 5 in 5 will still be legendary

If that's what I think it is, I had it beat back in my i-dating days.

whoreby the way, what do you think of my reply to that girl?

Go with Stu's version. I might put in a quick "Well, before you give it up, you should at least meet one person to say that you tried it. How about those drinks?"

 

[krista4]

I think I'm pretty much done with this.Got a few B&M chicks to handle, and this is becoming a chore more than fun. Plus, my subscriptions run out this month.I'll still be here to give advice and stuff, but this has passed me by.

your 5 in 5 will still be legendary

If that's what I think it is, I had it beat back in my i-dating days.

whoreby the way, what do you think of my reply to that girl?

Go with Stu's version. I might put in a quick "Well, before you give it up, you should at least meet one person to say that you tried it. How about those drinks?"

Agree that the sexuality line sounded creepy, like you are in the midst of figuring yours out as well. (You think you might be gay, Woz? [/furley])

 

[djcolts]

I've said that I was going to wait a couple of months to go back to the online dating world, but last week I started up again on Match. I've written a few emails with no response (well, one wrote back saying thanks but no thanks), but I got a wink from someone a few days ago, and after a few email exchanges it looks like we'll meet up next week. It will be my first date in, well, a long time.

 

[Disco Stu]

I've said that I was going to wait a couple of months to go back to the online dating world, but last week I started up again on Match. I've written a few emails with no response (well, one wrote back saying thanks but no thanks), but I got a wink from someone a few days ago, and after a few email exchanges it looks like we'll meet up next week. It will be my first date in, well, a long time.

 

[KnowledgeReignsSupreme]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

 

[Drifter]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

 

[KnowledgeReignsSupreme]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Not bad if true.Woz, just ignore her until Friday. Make plans with your buddies to be in that general vicinity. email her in the afternoon and let her know where you're gonna be and to text if you want to meet up. Ignore her from now on if she doesn't respond to that very positively.Next.

 

[Otis]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

 

[Drifter]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

As I said, I think mine was better.(3 in 24)

 

[JAA]

UPDATE:Here's her latest reply:"How I ended up on it is pretty dumb actually. I wasn't looking for anything or even wanting to try the site but one of my best friends was on here and having trouble sorting through date offers. We signed me up on evening so I could look at the people who were extending offers to her I "helped" her the best I could. Hence my vague profile and it saying I'm here for talk/email. This was over a year ago and my good friend has since decided after many dates with men from here that it wasn't working because she is actually a lesbian, met her girlfriend, moved to San Francisco and is very happy. Long story short, I hadn't been on here in a while and my email was full so I signed in, cruised through my emails and here I am."One good thing about the reply - with her inbox completely full she chose me of likely just a few to reply to. If she's telling the truth about why she is using the site, certainly she wouldn't reply to many guys if any. The bad things - She skirted my question for a date. Didn't ask any followup questions. So, I'm getting the feeling she is getting tired of the back and forth (I am too) and I think she may only reply to one or two more e-mails. How do I handle this then? Thinking of something like this:"Wow, that is quite the story. It's interesting how people discover themselves that way and never quite understand their sexuality. I'm sure she is much happier now. Guess you have her some unintended "help" with that. But by the way, you never answered my question about the drinks. "

subtle neg/reel"Thats a pretty involved story, do you and the friend still talk much? Before you answer, why dont we continue the conversation someplace simple over a drink or two. How about <day of week> somewhere easy to get to?"

 

[KnowledgeReignsSupreme]

"Thats a pretty involved story, do you and the friend still talk much? Before you answer, why dont we continue the conversation someplace simple over a drink or two. How about <day of week> somewhere easy to get to?"

Extremely corny.

 

[KnowledgeReignsSupreme]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

Oh really?

 

[JAA]

I've said that I was going to wait a couple of months to go back to the online dating world, but last week I started up again on Match. I've written a few emails with no response (well, one wrote back saying thanks but no thanks), but I got a wink from someone a few days ago, and after a few email exchanges it looks like we'll meet up next week. It will be my first date in, well, a long time.

 

[JAA]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

As I said, I think mine was better.(3 in 24)

morning - afternoon - booty call?

 

[JAA]

"Thats a pretty involved story, do you and the friend still talk much? Before you answer, why dont we continue the conversation someplace simple over a drink or two. How about <day of week> somewhere easy to get to?"

Extremely corny.

so is the girl. she writes to tell about her lesbian best friend moving to SF with lover?

 

[Otis]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

Oh really?

Wait. I take that back. If you meet a lot of girls online, that's not outrageous. I haven't done much of this and probably would not be that far from there. I thought it was 5 in a row. That's super impressive I think.

 

[Otis]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

As I said, I think mine was better.(3 in 24)

3 what in 24 what?Sex with three women in 24 hours is impressive.

 

[mr. furley]

Agree that the sexuality line sounded creepy, like you are in the midst of figuring yours out as well. (You think you might be gay, Woz? [/furley])

hey, i just hate to see people deny the obvious. it's like the balding guy who wears a hat or who spikes his hair with tons of gel. it's obvious to everybody, just go with it!! sometimes people just need a blunt object to the back of the head to "get it".or sometimes they need to sift through dozens of iDates to finally give up and accept the inevitable.

 

[mr. furley]

3 what in 24 what?Sex with three women in 24 hours is impressive.

one of my good friends does this with semi-regularity. no joke.of course he has 4 kids and no wife. but.. it happens.

 

[Otis]

3 what in 24 what?Sex with three women in 24 hours is impressive.

one of my good friends does this with semi-regularity. no joke.of course he has 4 kids and no wife. but.. it happens.

That's heroic. I felt bad about several different women in a few days. But in one day? Wow.

 

[KnowledgeReignsSupreme]

Does 5 in 5 mean you had first date sex with 5 of the girls you met online?

I took it as 5 in 5 days.

Big difference here. The first is epic. The second is, I think, not that difficult for a major metropolitan area and someone with good planning skills.

Oh really?

Wait. I take that back. If you meet a lot of girls online, that's not outrageous. I haven't done much of this and probably would not be that far from there. I thought it was 5 in a row. That's super impressive I think.

 

[mr. furley]

3 what in 24 what?Sex with three women in 24 hours is impressive.

one of my good friends does this with semi-regularity. no joke.of course he has 4 kids and no wife. but.. it happens.

That's heroic. I felt bad about several different women in a few days. But in one day? Wow.

yeah, he's quite the man-whore. then again that's how you end up with 2 kids being born 1 month apart of different mothers.

 

[Sister Havana]

So last night's date went all right. Fun was had - not sure when I will see him again though.

Meanwhile, another guy I've been talking to on PoF will be in the area this weekend so we're going to meet up. Yay - he's fun to talk to (we chat pretty much every day), he has a cool accent, and he is a cutie, even if he doesn't think so. Boo - he lives in Wisconsin - about 5 hours from me. We'll see how that goes.

 

[mr. furley]

So last night's date went all right. Fun was had - not sure when I will see him again though.

Meanwhile, another guy I've been talking to on PoF will be in the area this weekend so we're going to meet up. Yay - he's fun to talk to (we chat pretty much every day), he has a cool accent, and he is a cutie, even if he doesn't think so. Boo - he lives in Wisconsin - about 5 hours from me. We'll see how that goes.

Green Bay?

 

[Sister Havana]

Nope. Eau Claire.

 

[larry_boy_44]

so I've e-mailed back and forth with Blonde2 a couple times now... I think she's interested...

 

[krista4]

So last night's date went all right. Fun was had - not sure when I will see him again though. Meanwhile, another guy I've been talking to on PoF will be in the area this weekend so we're going to meet up. Yay - he's fun to talk to (we chat pretty much every day), he has a cool accent, and he is a cutie, even if he doesn't think so. Boo - he lives in Wisconsin - about 5 hours from me. We'll see how that goes.

What kind of accent?