I don't get it.... I haven't been around here but for a couple years but I always thought of the FFA as kind of a group of guys sitting around the bar shooting the stuff. I assume that on the forum side of a subscription based FF website in the FFA you could talk about all the stuff guys in the real world talk about. This includes but is not limited to: Girls, wives, GF's, sex, Music, other sports, Life, Death, medical issues, diets, beer, drugs and all that it means to be a guy. Men talk about women and how they look. It's not wrong or right, it is just the nature of the world and men. If you get a group of them together and they aren't talking about women, my guess is they are all gay, and even then they will criticize what they wear.
I know there are women on the site that actively participate and for the most part I haven't seen anything that I wouldn't say in front of any women that would hang out with me and my friends at a bar. At the end of the day it is your website and you can do what you want with it. I don't think it will change my involvement, but at the same time I don't think it makes the forum or the world a better place or you any more deserving of praise by anyone real or imaginary.
I am resisting the urge to ask smart ### questions, so I will leave it at... Peace.