a while back, heavier fella that i know, coming off a string of major injuries (broken back, major concussion, among others) decided that he was going to run to get back in shape. it had been 20 years since he had done any exercise. he ate like 3 adult men. periodically he would lose weight by gorging on amphetamines (or coke, sometimes both) and brag about how easy it was to lose weight when he wanted to.
he came to me one day and asked what my normal running routine was for a week. nothing special i said.. 3-4 days a week. varying mileage and terrain depending on what i have time for. nothing wacky. nice reasonable pace. no marathons, nothing super intense.
oh, he chuckled, i thought you were running.
he had just come from a doctor's appointment at which his doctor said "your lifestyle is unsustainable. you've got to start losing weight. now. get in the pool, get on a treadmill and walk 30 minutes a day.. but do something."
he told me that, since he had run track in HS, he was going to go out that night and run for an hour or so... go from there. he asked what my pace was normally. i told him. he laughed and said "i'll probably run 7:30 miles or so. that's what i did in HS (20+ years ago)".
the following morning as he limped past my desk i had to stop and ask how it went. "i ran for about 20 seconds and it felt like my lungs were going to explode. my whole body was on fire and my head was pounding. i had to stop and walk for 5 minutes. then i tried to run again but my legs were killing me so i just walked back home."
take it easy, i advised. maybe just some long walks for a while to get your stamina up. then try a program that mixes walking with running to get you going.
well, he turned down that advice and decided to bike instead. 30 minutes at a time... 1-2 days a week. that lasted for a month or so.
fast forward a couple years, mix in a back surgery, some wild weight fluctuation as he "dieted" and things are pretty much back to where they were.
stopped by my office last night and asked what i knew about HIIT. nothing, i said. only people i know who seriously do it are men & women who have made exercise and being in shape a life. at least those that sustain it over a long period of time. sure there are the "i'm joining a gym!" people that get overwhelmed by it and quit in a few weeks/months because it's unsustainable to jump right in to something like that from zero for most people. but beyond that i only know the basics.
oh, he says, i'm going to start doing some HIIT program to lose this weight.
eaaaaaaaaaaaasy, big fella, i say. are you sure that's a good idea? last time you tried exercising you nearly had a heart attack after a minute. you sure you want to jump right in to something intense? as a quick weight loss idea there are probably safer ways.
he laughed and told me "i'm in a lot better shape now since i've been going to the gym the last couple months"
oh, really? i had no idea. what are you doing? are you on the treadmill? running at all? swimming?
no, he laughed, i don't need to do cardio. i've been doing squats and benching. he figured that gave him the necessary stamina to jump right in to some crossfit-type workout and it won't be a problem for him.
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he asked how long it took me to lose weight. i answered honestly that it took me years. i had been running regularly for 3-4 years without losing any weight. got frustrated and decided that i had to do something about my diet. once i cut out soda, pared back my portions and stopped eating fast food twice a day the weight started to come off. but don't take my anecdotal advice, talk to other people and read up on it. i've always heard "can't out-run a bad diet" and in my experience that has been true. not sure if that's the case for everybody but it's what worked for me.
eat less, he chortled, ha. that's not how you lose weight. after all he had lost "30 lbs by riding my bike 3 days a week for like a few miles at a time in like 2 months". left unsaid "while burning through coke, hammering speed pills by the fistful, and downing 4-5 Monster energy drinks per day" (i only know this because he told me).
hey, you asked. i'm just telling you what worked for me. YMMV. the only way i've been able to lose and keep weight off is by modifying my diet. doesn't mean eating only salad and granola but it means not eating 2 meals at lunch, a whole Domino's pizza for dinner, half a cake to wash it down and a 12 pack of beer before bed.
what the hell do i know. i'm not a doctor. diet has nothing to do with weight loss, apparently. curls and squats are sufficient for the metabolism. just bulk up muscle 45 minutes at a time a couple days a week and get fit!
i'm not one to mock people for trying. i think it's awesome when someone starts on the path and i hope they find a sustainable way to a feeling better (physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever) but i just cannot stand the willful ignorance and "i know better than you" attitude. don't ask for advice and then tell me why you know better and are going to do it your way. if you already know, then keep your head down and do it. prove it. then i'll ask you for advice one day. otherwise, shut the #### up.