More like the Packers took it.Looks like we've given Lenka her first Christmas gift.
theres also an older couple here who are decked head to toe in tri-gear...every day, everywhere. Might be the same strava guy, tbh.Not across the finish line just yet, but looks like I've gone back to back in both my leagues- dynasty and $$.
We leave Mexico tomorrow. Waking up early to get one last warm weather run in.
There's a guy on strava at or near the hotel from Lodi (near randy in Folsom). He's faster than me.theres also an older couple here who are decked head to toe in tri-gear...every day, everywhere. Might be the same strava guy, tbh.
also reminds me Cozumel has a nice IM here...always interested me. But swimming...yuck.
Didn't matter how much I did, with coaches even, I can't swim a lick. So bad. And always hated doing the training, especially when the only improvements I ever made were being able to swim farther...never faster. Yuck.
Swimming is both the hardest to get competent at and the hardest to make improvements once you're somewhat adequate.Didn't matter how much I did, with coaches even, I can't swim a lick. So bad. And always hated doing the training, especially when the only improvements I ever made were being able to swim farther...never faster. Yuck.
Congrats on the kid!!! Parenthood really does change your life."Have a kid," they said. "It'll be fun," they said.
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Right now it's because I've barely gotten any sleep, my wife is irritable AF, and I'm spending all morning on hold trying to get somebody on the GD phone to schedule my wife's follow-up OB appointment and to add the baby to my insurance plan. But I'm sure the interrupted workout will come soon enough.I'm guessing that's after the second interruption on a dreadmill interval workout after maybe 4 hours of constantly interrupted sleep.
Good luck buddy, it’s pretty tough. Find ways to split up the time/coverage for the little one and take care of each other. If you have others helping out, let them once you know what you want them to do/not do. A routine will develop but you want to shape that routine so it works for you and Mrs. But the first weeks are really just a blind blur."Have a kid," they said. "It'll be fun," they said.
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Thanks man. And yeah, I'm not a napper AT ALL, so that definitely doesn't help. Just trying to draw on my many sleepless Ragnar Relay experiences and power through.Good luck buddy, it’s pretty tough. Find ways to split up the time/coverage for the little one and take care of each other. If you have others helping out, let them once you know what you want them to do/not do. A routine will develop but you want to shape that routine so it works for you and Mrs. But the first weeks are really just a blind blur.
The sleep thing is tough particularly for folks who usually don’t/can’t nap. I developed a super power though that now allows me to nap at any time.
All of this (which I've also already relayed to our GB).Good luck buddy, it’s pretty tough. Find ways to split up the time/coverage for the little one and take care of each other. If you have others helping out, let them once you know what you want them to do/not do. A routine will develop but you want to shape that routine so it works for you and Mrs. But the first weeks are really just a blind blur.
The sleep thing is tough particularly for folks who usually don’t/can’t nap. I developed a super power though that now allows me to nap at any time.
Those first few weeks are just brutal."Have a kid," they said. "It'll be fun," they said.
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One of the best memories I have with our first born was football Sundays.Thanks man. And yeah, I'm not a napper AT ALL, so that definitely doesn't help.
One of the best memories I have with our first born was football Sundays.
I would just sit there and hold him while watching the Chiefs game, or any other game really. Usually after he had a full belly, and he would sleep for a couple of hours, and it was just peace, man. And if I dozed off with him on my chest - even better.
Looking at that little guy and enjoying the time with him - honestly one of the best times of my life.
I've always been an expert napper. My grandfather, I'm told, used to come home from his grocery store for lunch and grab a 20 minute nap on the couch. I have that same ability to lay down for a quick 15-20 minutes and then just snap out of it, completely refreshed. A few years ago, I even dozed off in an MRI machine ...and in my chair midday during the St. Louis relay while the guys chattered around me. Naps are the best.Congrats @gruecd, I'll echo what others have said...Its a blur. Sleep when the baby sleeps. Never question your wife again.
I was lucky and developed that napping super power like @bushdocda did. I would despise a nap 10 years ago, I wouldn't even attempt it. Now, give me 3-5 minutes on the couch after work and I'm out like a light for about 10 minutes. I'll wake up feeling refreshed. I never knew that could happen.
Same here. Hoping to get to 200,000ft elevation gain for the year, and will probably need the 31st to get it done.I still need to do my year end report.
Same here. Hoping to get to 200,000ft elevation gain for the year, and will probably need the 31st to get it done.
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That's, like, a half-million curbs for me.
The way I see it, I was able to do all the fun stuff that I wanted to do (without any obligations) when I was younger. Now that I'm old and boring, it's the perfect time to have kids.I just love watching a new father from afar. Mine are 26 and 19, good luck![]()
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There is definitely a trade off. I think I needed to have kids when I did to facilitate calming down. Otherwise I don't think I would have. I'm looking forward to traveling more in the near future, at first with them then soon after without though. Then no more mortgage when the oldest finishes high school in 6 years then the youngest is out when we're both about 50. Lotta ball game left.The way I see it, I was able to do all the fun stuff that I wanted to do (without any obligations) when I was younger. Now that I'm old and boring, it's the perfect time to have kids.
22 and 18 here. I truly miss them being little but there are a lot of benefits to them being grown too.I just love watching a new father from afar. Mine are 26 and 19, good luck![]()
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There is definitely a trade off. I think I needed to have kids when I did to facilitate calming down. Otherwise I don't think I would have. I'm looking forward to traveling more in the near future, at first with them then soon after without though. Then no more mortgage when the oldest finishes high school in 6 years then the youngest is out when we're both about 50. Lotta ball game left.
Yeah, this was me. Had my first at 36 and my 3rd at 41.The way I see it, I was able to do all the fun stuff that I wanted to do (without any obligations) when I was younger. Now that I'm old and boring, it's the perfect time to have kids.
ok, details... not sure what I put in my year end report since it was depressing to write as I didn't have a lot to report. So, this is my 2021 goal post. I have a couple long range goals to be the carrot that I have shown a need to chase but I also want to try to change my mindset some. I started this to get less fat and have some fun. I went from about 240 down to 193 at my lowest. I'm back up to about 210 and have been slowing increasing since basically I finished the Monumental. So, here are the long range carrots:boy do I have some work to do... last couple of days have felt like a slog after way too much christmas goodies. but one day at a time it will get better. setting some short range goals for myself. details to come.
They'd be doing that even if you had them younger. That's what kids do, IMO!Yeah, this was me. Had my first at 36 and my 3rd at 41.
No way I would have been the dad I am now if I had kids in my 20's. The downside is I will be 63 when the last one theoretically leaves college. The other downside is I'm turning into Grumpy Old Man, so my kids have started making fun of me - calling me pa and grandpa all the time. <_<
Yeah, we never said that."Have a kid," they said. "It'll be fun," they said.
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Yeah, this was me. Had my first at 36 and my 3rd at 41.
No way I would have been the dad I am now if I had kids in my 20's. The downside is I will be 63 when the last one theoretically leaves college. The other downside is I'm turning into Grumpy Old Man, so my kids have started making fun of me - calling me pa and grandpa all the time. <_<
So true.I said it on FB already, but congrats to you and the Mrs, @gruecd! A hell of an adventure you've just begun.
I won't add to the avalanche of advice likely coming your way other than to say that whenever you feel like you've reached your breaking point and you just can't take any more, the little buggers have a way of doing something, usually a "first", that totally resets things. A grasp of your finger, a smile, a laugh, a word, a crawl, a hug. They just know.
I hear you. My 17 year old walked the dog with me yesterday without having to be badgered into it.So true.
My 15 yo son just washed the dishes without being told for the first time ever. He was about to be homeless until that happened.
Hope your surgery goes well.Haven't even poked my head in here for about three weeks, because it's just not fun when you aren't running at all to hang out in here. I'm not injured, but it's just not happening right now, no motivation. Doesn't help I've put on a good 20-25 pounds this year, so everytime I do try it's just so damned hard. And now I have to have a minor surgical procedure next Monday that comes with a prescription of no exercise or heavy lifting (no getting the heart rate up) for two weeks afterward, so I won't even be able to get out on a decent hike with the pup.
I'll shake it off, I think. I don't want to be retired from running yet. I'm 22 months from turning 50, and I've been formulating this idea of aiming to be in the best shape of my life at that time - not just running but finally doing strength work, mindfullness, diet, the whole thing.
Hope y'all are doing well!
Bolded seems like good motivation. But I can empa/sympa-thize with frustration over not being able to keep up with previous versions of yourself being an impediment to today and tomorrow's training.Haven't even poked my head in here for about three weeks, because it's just not fun when you aren't running at all to hang out in here. I'm not injured, but it's just not happening right now, no motivation. Doesn't help I've put on a good 20-25 pounds this year, so everytime I do try it's just so damned hard. And now I have to have a minor surgical procedure next Monday that comes with a prescription of no exercise or heavy lifting (no getting the heart rate up) for two weeks afterward, so I won't even be able to get out on a decent hike with the pup.
I'll shake it off, I think. I don't want to be retired from running yet. I'm 22 months from turning 50, and I've been formulating this idea of aiming to be in the best shape of my life at that time - not just running but finally doing strength work, mindfullness, diet, the whole thing.
Hope y'all are doing well!
Hey, welcome to me about 3 years ago. I know it's anathema here but I hopped on a bike and haven't looked back. Getting the mojo back was tough though. It's hard going from 50-60 miles a week to nothing and then trying to get that drive back after you take a lot of time off. Sleeping in is fun, eating is fun, doing almost anything other than getting up and going for a run is fun. I still miss it terribly but I've finally got closure with it and filled the void with biking. It's not the same but can be just as challenging.Haven't even poked my head in here for about three weeks, because it's just not fun when you aren't running at all to hang out in here. I'm not injured, but it's just not happening right now, no motivation. Doesn't help I've put on a good 20-25 pounds this year, so everytime I do try it's just so damned hard. And now I have to have a minor surgical procedure next Monday that comes with a prescription of no exercise or heavy lifting (no getting the heart rate up) for two weeks afterward, so I won't even be able to get out on a decent hike with the pup.
I'll shake it off, I think. I don't want to be retired from running yet. I'm 22 months from turning 50, and I've been formulating this idea of aiming to be in the best shape of my life at that time - not just running but finally doing strength work, mindfullness, diet, the whole thing.
Hope y'all are doing well!
Definitely understood. Hope the surgery goes well! You'll get the mojo back. If not for running, for something else.Haven't even poked my head in here for about three weeks, because it's just not fun when you aren't running at all to hang out in here. I'm not injured, but it's just not happening right now, no motivation. Doesn't help I've put on a good 20-25 pounds this year, so everytime I do try it's just so damned hard. And now I have to have a minor surgical procedure next Monday that comes with a prescription of no exercise or heavy lifting (no getting the heart rate up) for two weeks afterward, so I won't even be able to get out on a decent hike with the pup.
I'll shake it off, I think. I don't want to be retired from running yet. I'm 22 months from turning 50, and I've been formulating this idea of aiming to be in the best shape of my life at that time - not just running but finally doing strength work, mindfullness, diet, the whole thing.
Hope y'all are doing well!
@ "I'm 22 months from 50".