By my count, I've got a DUI and a BUI (boating under the influence) for Benson, vs. Cutler refusing to return his employer's phone calls, getting kicked out of a country club for refusing to tuck in his shirt, and earning himself a reputation for being a partyer and a doucher around town. While we could argue over which are worse (I'd say a much greater percentage of the population drives under the influence than refuses to speak to their employer while under contract), but at the end of the day, I think they're both in the same ballpark.
You have a curious view towards drunk driving. While many people do it, comparing it to refusing to speak to ones' employer doesn't make it alright just because most don't do it. One gets people killed/maimed/arrested and the other gets one fired.
I never once said that driving drunk was "alright". I have very, very strong personal views on driving under the influence. A good friend of mine was orphaned 2 months before her high school graduation by a drunk driver. She couldn't walk again for almost a year. I think it's reckless and reprehensible. I also think that it's portrayed by society at large as a perfectly fine thing to do. For instance, a party of four could go to a restaurant and order a couple rounds of drinks and nobody in the restaurant would bat an eye. How does the waiter think those 4 people got there? Does the waiter think there's a 5th member of the party who is hiding in the bathroom during dinner, but who is going to drive them home? After 2-3 drinks, every single member of that party is likely over the legal limit, and nobody in the restaurant so much as bats an eyelash. Or the boating under the influence thing... how often have the movies glorified getting a 12-pack and going fishing on the lake with dad? I hope you're using those beers to keep the fish cold, because otherwise you're now boating under the influence.The simple fact is that drunk driving is RAMPANT in America, and most of the time what the law considers drunk driving, society at large would not. MADD estimates that there were 159 million alcohol-impaired driving trips in 2002. In 2006, there was 1 drunk driving arrest for every 139 licensed drivers... and the average American drives drunk 87 times before getting caught. Taking those two statistics together, it's entirely possible that the MAJORITY of the population in America has driven drunk. Which totally meshes with what I've seen from people I know. If driving under the influence automatically make someone a scumbag, than the majority of Americans are scumbags (most without even a moment's remorse... unless they get caught). Odds are most people reading this thread have had 3 beers with dinner before, or have gone to a party and then later driven home, or have gone out drinking with some friends, or have been in any number of situations where they've driven "tipsy", or driven "buzzed", or even not been feeling the effects... but ultimately who drove while over the legal limit.So, in the end, you've got a guy who is guilty of doing something that society at large is openly outraged about... but which it implicitly condones on a daily basis. On the other hand, you've got a guy who is guilty of doing something that society pretty unanimously agrees is unacceptable behavior. The first behavior is, in my opinion, far and away the more reprehensible. The second behavior is, in my opinion, far and away the more inexcusable, and probably the greater reflection on the player's character.
I get it, you hate Cutler. But can you stop making RIDICULOUS statements like the above?Maybe when you have a friend/family member killed by someone refusing to answer a phone call from his boss you can chime in with this sort of perspective.
I don't hate Cutler. As a Bronco fan, I was mortified when they first started discussing trading him, and even more mortified when they actually did it. I thought at the time, and I *STILL* think, that it was an idiotic move. I've routinely written many scathing comments about the way Josh McDaniels handled the incident, and I've just as frequently written comments that were mildly supportive of Jay Cutler (I can't support refusing to talk to the guy who is still signing your paychecks, but I understand how he got pushed to that point). This is not me with an axe to grind against Jay Cutler. With all of that said... is he a tool? Yeah, it definitely seems like he's a pretty big tool. That's fine, it takes all kinds to make the world go round. I'm sure a lot of people would call me a pretty big tool, too.I'm not at all trying to say that drunk driving is a perfectly fine thing to do. All I'm saying is that society as a whole treats drunk driving like it's a perfectly fine thing to do, as long as you're only driving a little drunk and not a whole lot drunk.
SSOG - Let it go, man. Your disdain for Cutler is obvious, but carry it on in some other thread. Don't let this thread continue to tease those of us who come looking for credible information.
Like I said, I like Cutler. I think he's a hell of a football player. I really, really wish he was still a Bronco, and Shanahan/Dennison/Turner with him. This isn't about Cutler. This is about Jerry Angelo, and how when he says "we only want high character guys", what he really means is "we only want high character guys... unless they're really talented, in which case their character doesn't matter nearly as much".Edit: I'm not even saying that's a bad position for Angelo to have. Hell, that's exactly how I feel. I think Cutler's a low-character guy, but I still want him on my team because he's really talented. I'm just saying that we should call a spade a spade, here. If Angelo thinks VJax is very talented, then a couple of DUIs aren't going to stop him from adding him to the Bears.