Point is you seem to be incapable of discerning between irritants and serious problems.
Point is you seem incapable of taking a position and putting yourself on record about anything that you would deem worthy of opening your mouth to another person. Sounds like all the scenarios I presented in the earlier post are minor irritants to you and thus you would say nothing. Right? That is your position?
How annoyed are you that nobody is answering your scenario questions? How do people who don't take positions when you would make you feel?
I am not annoyed about it. You illustrate my point for me by not engaging because you don't want to be asked to justify or explain what you deem to be an irritant versus serious problems. Isn't it so much more fun and amusing to lob shots over from a distance without actually taking a stand on anything?
As far as I can tell, you are the guy who doesn't let life's little irritants like cursing in front of your kid, talking and texting in theatres, racial epithets or unruly children in restaurants bother you. Why you are afraid of owning your position is beyond me. Clearly, you are the better man here. I am sure everyone else agrees with you. You are among friends.
Hint: not all of these things belong in the same category.
Are you representing Leeroy Jenkins, speaking for everyone else or just yourself?Jenkins says i don't know the difference between a minor irritant and a serious problem. You "hint" that the items I mentioned above fall into different categories.
I am aware of the fact that if you asked a hundred people to rank a list of 20 different scenarios that there would be a lot of differences in the composition of these lists. But you both and others rely on making vague statements because you do not want to be forced into justifying why X is a minor irritant or Y is a serious problem. Like I said above, it is easier to rag on/critique MOP, myself and others who put themselves out there with what they have done or would do when you can take pot shots from the back of the room. It is far different when you step into the fray and are forced to undergo an examination of what you would do and in what situations.
I have no problem with someone saying...yeah, SIDA!, I agree with you on this, this and that. But, over here...I am not crossing that line because it is not worth it to me or the risk is just too great for my liking.
I have no problem being scrutinized for my actions or being asked to justify why I think a certain way or do certain things. Unfortunately, most people it seems have adopted a viewpoint that they are not accountable to anyone else. That whatever they do is none of anyone else's business and whatever someone does is none of my business. And I suspect that some of things I see in this thread is a manifestation of what I believe we are increasingly seeing in society.
And that is...nobody wants to be judged or asked to answer about why they did X,Y and Z. Don't judge me and I won't judge you.
It is crap and why our society is decaying.
I am breathless with anticipation for your response. I can't wait to read how sane and normal you two are and what great judgment you are able to display in discerning the difference between irritants and serious problems. I am sure you have it all figured out and I just don't "get it".