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Atomic Punk said:
Another reason why I love this place … you have a rough day and then realize there is so much more going on with others. My day is suddenly one that I am thankful for! You are an inspiration my man. All the best to you and your incredible family this season.
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I don't take compliments well. I don't like getting gifts. I'm a product of my early development when we didn't have much, I guess. Did my best to control my own destiny by learning from others. I write that because I appreciate what I would consider the greatest compliment, but it's hard for me to accept. I thought about it today on my walk because others have communicated similar thoughts. I came to the conclusion that I was reasonably adjusted before all of this nonsense. Afterwards, I'm hyper focused on what matters. Just another great thing that has some from the craziness. I don't care about things that used to drive me crazy. For the most part, I'm at peace. Doves haven't been perching on my shoulders, or other wild beasts greeting me when I'm outside, but I fully expect them to any day now.

AP, the bottom of my heart, thank you.
 
St. Louis Bob said:
Atomic Punk said:
Another reason why I love this place … you have a rough day and then realize there is so much more going on with others. My day is suddenly one that I am thankful for! You are an inspiration my man. All the best to you and your incredible family this season.
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I don't take compliments well. I don't like getting gifts. I'm a product of my early development when we didn't have much, I guess. Did my best to control my own destiny by learning from others. I write that because I appreciate what I would consider the greatest compliment, but it's hard for me to accept. I thought about it today on my walk because others have communicated similar thoughts. I came to the conclusion that I was reasonably adjusted before all of this nonsense. Afterwards, I'm hyper focused on what matters. Just another great thing that has some from the craziness. I don't care about things that used to drive me crazy. For the most part, I'm at peace. Doves haven't been perching on my shoulders, or other wild beasts greeting me when I'm outside, but I fully expect them to any day now.

AP, the bottom of my heart, thank you.
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As another once put it to me … ”life is good, just enjoy it”. It is too easy to get in our own way sometimes to find that peace that was right there the whole time. We all get inspiration from different things at times … you were mine on this day, so enjoy knowing you make a difference.
 
St. Louis Bob said:
Yo, my brothers and sisters!

I had a scan recently and good news, looks the same as the previous one in December of last year. Cool man, cool! It was moved up a month because I had a lot more "bad" days August-October than "good". I thought things may have gone off the rails, the cancer was spreading. Speaking with others in remission, this is a common thought.

I had an appointment with my Primary in October prior. He's my age, and my doc for 25 years. He's always serious and straightforward which I appreciate and respect. He told me that with the amount of treatment I received, most likely, I'll never be physically and mentally the way I was prior. It sucked to hear that but also a good thing. The oncologist agreed with his assessment. I've been striving for an unrealistic expectation. This helps tremendously as I no longer worry about all of these crazy aches and pains where the main tumor was and especially in unusual places. Sadly my groin area isn't used enough to feel as strained as it is. ;)

I do have a couple of favors to ask as this has been an enlightening experience to say the least.

If you know someone that has gone through treatment, please understand how much that person has changed. Just because they seem fine when you are with them, doesn't mean they will feel well the next day. I keep thinking of friends to me at the time, seemed just fine. It hasn't been until I walked a mile in their shoes that I realized they were just being strong, fighting. Please remember that. I think most of you know me well enough, this isn't for me looking for sympathy. Screw that noise.

Secondly, treatment is crazy expensive even with decent insurance. If you see a friend having a fund raiser, please give them something, anything, if you can afford it. Again, not for me, we're good. If you're somehow fortunate enough that you don't know anyone battling, there's always Chance for Hope.

In that vein, the last couple of Christmas's, I spoke to our boys, and told them that times were lean with all of the medical bills. I've always taught them to be fiscally responsible. We could still get them a bunch of presents however then we wouldn't be able to help the less fortunate the way we normally do. They instacalled to give assistance to those that needed things much more than them.

The ship has been righted since. I asked them both in November, three separate times, what they wanted this year. Our oldest requested some new sheets for his bed and a couple of pairs of jeans. The youngest, a new pair of shoes. That's it. Both were emphatic that we continue the tradition of helping others with the balance. What a freaking wonderful Christmas present to me. :heart:

Love you all and wishing you a wonderful Holiday!
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What an incredible update, and thank you so much for sharing your perspective and words of wisdom. This post absolutely made my week! And while I will continue to pray for you as you deal with the challenges from your treatment, I celebrate the incredible gift you have given all of us by fighting to continue your story and sharing your journey. All the love to you my man!
 
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St. Louis Bob said:
Yo, my brothers and sisters!

I had a scan recently and good news, looks the same as the previous one in December of last year. Cool man, cool! It was moved up a month because I had a lot more "bad" days August-October than "good". I thought things may have gone off the rails, the cancer was spreading. Speaking with others in remission, this is a common thought.

I had an appointment with my Primary in October prior. He's my age, and my doc for 25 years. He's always serious and straightforward which I appreciate and respect. He told me that with the amount of treatment I received, most likely, I'll never be physically and mentally the way I was prior. It sucked to hear that but also a good thing. The oncologist agreed with his assessment. I've been striving for an unrealistic expectation. This helps tremendously as I no longer worry about all of these crazy aches and pains where the main tumor was and especially in unusual places. Sadly my groin area isn't used enough to feel as strained as it is. ;)

I do have a couple of favors to ask as this has been an enlightening experience to say the least.

If you know someone that has gone through treatment, please understand how much that person has changed. Just because they seem fine when you are with them, doesn't mean they will feel well the next day. I keep thinking of friends to me at the time, seemed just fine. It hasn't been until I walked a mile in their shoes that I realized they were just being strong, fighting. Please remember that. I think most of you know me well enough, this isn't for me looking for sympathy. Screw that noise.

Secondly, treatment is crazy expensive even with decent insurance. If you see a friend having a fund raiser, please give them something, anything, if you can afford it. Again, not for me, we're good. If you're somehow fortunate enough that you don't know anyone battling, there's always Chance for Hope.

In that vein, the last couple of Christmas's, I spoke to our boys, and told them that times were lean with all of the medical bills. I've always taught them to be fiscally responsible. We could still get them a bunch of presents however then we wouldn't be able to help the less fortunate the way we normally do. They instacalled to give assistance to those that needed things much more than them.

The ship has been righted since. I asked them both in November, three separate times, what they wanted this year. Our oldest requested some new sheets for his bed and a couple of pairs of jeans. The youngest, a new pair of shoes. That's it. Both were emphatic that we continue the tradition of helping others with the balance. What a freaking wonderful Christmas present to me. :heart:

Love you all and wishing you a wonderful Holiday!
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What an incredible update, and thank you so much for sharing your perspective and words of wisdom. This post absolutely made my week! And while I will continue to pray for you as you deal with the challenges from your treatment, I celebrate the incredible gift you have given all of us by fighting to continue your story and sharing your journey. All the love to you my man!
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You and your family are a major part of our inspiration. I spread your message all the time. Love you
 
Bob, that is such great news! It's so great to hear about your family and their support. Not everybody has that and it reflects upon the cultivation of their morals and manners, which you have so obviously been instrumental in shaping. Keep it going and keep the love alive!
 
Many of you reading this may be wondering why you haven’t seen me much in person lately. Last Fall, I started having more challenging days than good ones, and unfortunately, things have only intensified this year.

In April, I discovered a lump on the right side of my neck. Since then, I’ve had several CT scans, biopsies, and a PET scan. As Tom Petty sings, “The waiting is the hardest part.” Finally, on Friday 8/2 , I received some clarity. There are a few small but contained masses on the right side of my neck that will need to be surgically removed, like the procedure I had on the left side in 2021.

More concerning is the tumor found in the tear duct of my left eye. It is close to 3.1cm square. To address it, my left eye will need to be removed, and the area around it will need to be opened to make space. I had suspected this might be necessary due to the persistent pain I’ve been experiencing. While it’s a shock to hear, we explored other treatments that might preserve the eye, but their success rates were too low, and they would likely cause more harm than good. After removing the tumor, I’ll need reconstructive surgery using a skin graft from one of my legs. I’m hopeful that the result will make me look like Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean. ;) This procedure will be performed first and tentatively scheduled for the week of 8/26. I’m expecting to be hospitalized for 5-10 days,

After healing from the surgeries there’s going to be 33 radiation treatments and chemo. How much is chemo is currently TBD.

Is this a lot of information to digest? Oh yeah. I’m right there with you. Reflecting on this journey, I remind myself just how lucky I am. I only wish everyone in the world could experience the love and support from a large circle of family and friends as I have throughout my life. It’s that love which will continue fueling me to keep fighting through this. Thank you for giving me strength!

BH

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It was determined on Thursday there would be 33 radiation treatments. That's on top of the 39 I received 3 years ago. Man, that stuff doesn't play.

Also wanted to thank my brother @General Malaise for offering to draft my FF team and managing it the first few weeks at least. That will really help give me something to look forward to every week.
 

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St. Louis Bob said:
Many of you reading this may be wondering why you haven’t seen me much in person lately. Last Fall, I started having more challenging days than good ones, and unfortunately, things have only intensified this year.

In April, I discovered a lump on the right side of my neck. Since then, I’ve had several CT scans, biopsies, and a PET scan. As Tom Petty sings, “The waiting is the hardest part.” Finally, on Friday 8/2 , I received some clarity. There are a few small but contained masses on the right side of my neck that will need to be surgically removed, like the procedure I had on the left side in 2021.

More concerning is the tumor found in the tear duct of my left eye. It is close to 3.1cm square. To address it, my left eye will need to be removed, and the area around it will need to be opened to make space. I had suspected this might be necessary due to the persistent pain I’ve been experiencing. While it’s a shock to hear, we explored other treatments that might preserve the eye, but their success rates were too low, and they would likely cause more harm than good. After removing the tumor, I’ll need reconstructive surgery using a skin graft from one of my legs. I’m hopeful that the result will make me look like Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean.View attachment 4589 This procedure will be performed first and tentatively scheduled for the week of 8/26. I’m expecting to be hospitalized for 5-10 days,

After healing from the surgeries there’s going to be radiation and chemo. How much is currently TBD.

Is this a lot of information to digest? Oh yeah. I’m right there with you. Reflecting on this journey, I remind myself just how lucky I am. I only wish everyone in the world could experience the love and support from a large circle of family and friends as I have throughout my life. It’s that love which will continue fueling me to keep fighting through this. Thank you for giving me strength!

BH
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Know the plan, work the plan. I have no doubt you can do this. You have already exhibited all the strength and resilience you need for this next chapter. You are truly an inspiration.
 
I'm sorry about these challenges that have arisen, Bob. You're attitude is inspiring. I hope all the surgeries go great for you, and the wellness fairy showers you with her magic dust. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers, and I think you'll look pretty damn sexy with an eye patch. :pirate: :heart:
 
I don't believe I've posted in this thread yet but have gone back to the beginning and followed along since. When you basically get the entire story all in one bunch like I did, I'm left with the feeling that the Big C, in your case, picked the wrong dude! If it wasn't for it being cancer, I'd almost feel bad for it, with how you've been whoopin' its ***! Sending you my strength, the card girl is stepping outta the ring and it's time for you to get off your corner stool and go lay the smack down again. Dukes up!
 
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Cat shirt AND an eye patch?! Sweet jeebus, brother... Completely unstoppable combo.

I hate that you're going through this, but I know you'll take care of it with the same inspirational determination, humor and grace we've all been blessed to have seen from you in bad times and good.

Heres to the good times ahead. love you, brother.
 
Bob, that you look upon yourself as blessed and lucky is all anybody needs to know about you and your indomitable spirit. You’ve shown such courage through all of this and have never complained. I paradoxically often feel better about your situation when you present the worst of news.

My prayers and thoughts are with you, my friend. I’m just on the internet, but give my love to your family. Your wife, your children. Hold them close and precious—I know you do.

Love you, Bob.
 
St. Louis Bob said:
Many of you reading this may be wondering why you haven’t seen me much in person lately. Last Fall, I started having more challenging days than good ones, and unfortunately, things have only intensified this year.

In April, I discovered a lump on the right side of my neck. Since then, I’ve had several CT scans, biopsies, and a PET scan. As Tom Petty sings, “The waiting is the hardest part.” Finally, on Friday 8/2 , I received some clarity. There are a few small but contained masses on the right side of my neck that will need to be surgically removed, like the procedure I had on the left side in 2021.

More concerning is the tumor found in the tear duct of my left eye. It is close to 3.1cm square. To address it, my left eye will need to be removed, and the area around it will need to be opened to make space. I had suspected this might be necessary due to the persistent pain I’ve been experiencing. While it’s a shock to hear, we explored other treatments that might preserve the eye, but their success rates were too low, and they would likely cause more harm than good. After removing the tumor, I’ll need reconstructive surgery using a skin graft from one of my legs. I’m hopeful that the result will make me look like Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean. ;) This procedure will be performed first and tentatively scheduled for the week of 8/26. I’m expecting to be hospitalized for 5-10 days,

After healing from the surgeries there’s going to be 33 radiation treatments and chemo. How much is chemo is currently TBD.

Is this a lot of information to digest? Oh yeah. I’m right there with you. Reflecting on this journey, I remind myself just how lucky I am. I only wish everyone in the world could experience the love and support from a large circle of family and friends as I have throughout my life. It’s that love which will continue fueling me to keep fighting through this. Thank you for giving me strength!

BH

ETA

It was determined on Thursday there would be 33 radiation treatments. That's on top of the 39 I received 3 years ago. Man, that stuff doesn't play.

Also wanted to thank my brother @General Malaise for offering to draft my FF team and managing it the first few weeks at least. That will really help give me something to look forward to every week.
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Man alive I love the **** out of you. We’ve never met. Nor spoke on the phone. We’ve mailed each other crap. I guess that counts. You’re a bad *** mofo. Love you! you need anything. Including some more of that Mexican coke. Holler.
 
My BIL recently had eye surgery to deal with the crazy pressure in his eye. It didn’t go well. He’s now mostly blind in that eye. He wore an eye patch to his kids graduation. He looked bad ***.

Also: are you gonna get an eyeball like Thor? That’d be sweet.
 
DA RAIDERS said:
St. Louis Bob said:
Many of you reading this may be wondering why you haven’t seen me much in person lately. Last Fall, I started having more challenging days than good ones, and unfortunately, things have only intensified this year.

In April, I discovered a lump on the right side of my neck. Since then, I’ve had several CT scans, biopsies, and a PET scan. As Tom Petty sings, “The waiting is the hardest part.” Finally, on Friday 8/2 , I received some clarity. There are a few small but contained masses on the right side of my neck that will need to be surgically removed, like the procedure I had on the left side in 2021.

More concerning is the tumor found in the tear duct of my left eye. It is close to 3.1cm square. To address it, my left eye will need to be removed, and the area around it will need to be opened to make space. I had suspected this might be necessary due to the persistent pain I’ve been experiencing. While it’s a shock to hear, we explored other treatments that might preserve the eye, but their success rates were too low, and they would likely cause more harm than good. After removing the tumor, I’ll need reconstructive surgery using a skin graft from one of my legs. I’m hopeful that the result will make me look like Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean. ;) This procedure will be performed first and tentatively scheduled for the week of 8/26. I’m expecting to be hospitalized for 5-10 days,

After healing from the surgeries there’s going to be 33 radiation treatments and chemo. How much is chemo is currently TBD.

Is this a lot of information to digest? Oh yeah. I’m right there with you. Reflecting on this journey, I remind myself just how lucky I am. I only wish everyone in the world could experience the love and support from a large circle of family and friends as I have throughout my life. It’s that love which will continue fueling me to keep fighting through this. Thank you for giving me strength!

BH

ETA

It was determined on Thursday there would be 33 radiation treatments. That's on top of the 39 I received 3 years ago. Man, that stuff doesn't play.

Also wanted to thank my brother @General Malaise for offering to draft my FF team and managing it the first few weeks at least. That will really help give me something to look forward to every week.
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Man alive I love the **** out of you. We’ve never met. Nor spoke on the phone. We’ve mailed each other crap. I guess that counts. You’re a bad *** mofo. Love you! you need anything. Including some more of that Mexican coke. Holler.
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Both kinds!
 
DA RAIDERS said:
My BIL recently had eye surgery to deal with the crazy pressure in his eye. It didn’t go well. He’s now mostly blind in that eye. He wore an eye patch to his kids graduation. He looked bad ***.

Also: are you gonna get an eyeball like Thor? That’d be sweet.
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Love you guys too.

:lmao: I made that joke to Mrs. SLB. She thinks Thor is hot or something. :rolleyes:

I was told a prosthetic eye wasn't an option so patch it is! Surgery scheduled for 8/27.
 
St. Louis Bob said:
DA RAIDERS said:
i was at dinner tonight, and this guy showed up. had to get a pic with him! dude had to be at least 6'7" that's a lot of cat shirt.

thinking of ya @St. Louis Bob
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Don't know if I posted lately but by youngest son turned 14 in March and is quickly approaching a legit 6'4. That's how it looks when I stand next to him.

I didn't know you looked awesome. Sweet action. We need to party at some point I figure.
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Still need to party. Love ya dude
 
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