Yet calling all Republicans racist gets crickets in comparison is what’s perplexing Joe.We've made a pretty big deal out of not allowing ####### as it's a joke using the word we dont' allow for mentally handicapped people. You were suspended 30 days in May of 2017 for:
Again, this is the kind of thing I'm talking about. Anything someone does themselves is harmless. But the "other" side is the one that gets away with everything.
Thanks. I had a long response typed out but I think it's just best to say I think you're seeing the challenges. Thanks for the feedback.You are absolutely right. Our business is brick and mortar and the vast majority of our business is done through customers that walk through our front doors. However--in the last few years--we have allotted a large budget and many worker hours towards our online and social media presence. Even though the vast majority of our business is still done through people walking through our doors--we have started to notice an increase of new clients that are doing business with us because of our online impression/footprint. My point is that many business decisions are back loaded. We had to put up time and resources up front to start seeing the benefits of those sacrifices later.
In the world of online businesses--I think consumers are looking for full experiential packages--and your forums can absolutely be a haven used to attract new customers if they are managed properly. That's just my opinion. If you feel like the forums are relegated to being a "non-contributor" to the bottom line of your business--then maybe you should hope that it polices itself from a distance. If that is indeed your stance--my advice might be to change the name of the forums and take them out of the FBG umbrella. Go through the PSF and ask yourself--would you pay to subscribe for anything that shares the same name with that place if you are a new user? I'm a long time member of this forum and even I avoid that place like the plague. Keep in mind that I graduated with a degree in political science--so I would absolutely love to have a good, civil and rational discussion about politics. Heck--go through the basketball thread. Posters were getting clowned by long time FBG members for speculating their thoughts on where Lebron could land next season. Why on gods earth should people get clowned for mentioning their thoughts on a very basketball relevant topic in the NBA thread? Seeing this type of behavior on threads does not invite discussion and it does not invite community. It probably scares many potential new people from posting their thoughts on these forums--and this limits the upside from the forums in a business sense. What I see here is the essentially the same group of people as time goes by--and we slowly seem to be losing some over time. If you choose to passively participate in these forums--the trend will continue. If you think that these forums can act as a very beneficial part of the FBG umbrella in the future--my advice is to bite the bullet and invest more time and resources to them. In any case--I do appreciate you taking the time to listen to my thoughts. Digest them as you please.
The thread post was started by Jonmx as an unfunny parody attempt. It was locked. Sinn Fein responded with one from the other side. I'm sure some people thought jonmx and sinn fein should have been suspended for it and think it's perplexing he did not.Yet calling all Republicans racist gets crickets in comparison is what’s perplexing Joe.
Hey its your board and I respect that, and if aligning it with your views which is your right is the goal then I’m good. If the goal is to clean things up that aren’t good then this needs attention.
It is amazing what qualifies one as a racist these days.
- Well of course supporting Trump is an absolute sure sign one is a racist.
- Even defending Trump in any way puts you in the highly suspect group of racists.
- Not readily buying into every claim of racism before any real facts are known makes one a racist.
- Watching Fox News makes one a racist unless it is immediately followed by watching an hour of Maddows for the appropriate re-education.
- Desiring any increase in restrictions on immigration is a sure sign one is racist.
- Believing one should stand and show respect for the flag during the national anthem is a very racist concept.
- Supporting Republicans in general is racist.
Of course the list goes on and on and grows daily. Feel free to add to it with one if the daily examples of what seemingly normal action or opinion in today's world makes one or at least heavily implies that one is a 'racist'. By my estimation there are well over 100 million racists in this country alone, so be careful out there.
I don’t think this is perplexing Joe at all. You, on the other hand, seem infinitely perplexed by parody.Yet calling all Republicans racist gets crickets in comparison is what’s perplexing Joe.
Hey its your board and I respect that, and if aligning it with your views which is your right is the goal then I’m good. If the goal is to clean things up that aren’t good then this needs attention.
Hi @Epic Problem Can you elaborate with specifics?I don’t think this is perplexing Joe at all. You, on the other hand, seem infinitely perplexed by parody.
Iirc you posted awhile ago that Trumper, Trumpette, "orange president" etc wouldn't be tolerated anymore.Thanks. That's how I see it too. But clearly you have others like @Cowboysfan8 who don't see it that. I make a decision that ####### isn't allowed and it turns into:
That's a perfect illustration of some of the challenges on the board.
Commas are important. Without one, he said you’re the one that’s perplexed. After that, it appears that I just echoed what you said.Hi @Epic Problem Can you elaborate with specifics?
No. I posted we don't censor those words like we do libt - ard.Iirc you posted awhile ago that Trumper, Trumpette, "orange president" etc wouldn't be tolerated anymore.
It's tolerated on most every page of every thread
Ah. Thank you. My reading skills aren't great at times.Commas are important. Without one, he said you’re the one that’s perplexed. After that, it appears that I just echoed what you said.
I'm still trying to understand what the issue with the who's hottest threads was: The pictures, the voting, or the comments? If, as you mentioned in your post, it was about what they devolved to in the comments, then why toss the baby out with the bath water? It's like you saw two children fighting over a toy and your solution was to throw out the toy rather than give them a chance to share. Rather than prohibit the threads, why not simply warn us that inappropriate comments will not be tolerated and put the future ability to have those threads at risk? I think we could have been trusted enough to clean up our act.As I said in the original post on the who's hottest, there's not any kind of behind the scenes drama or anything special. I'd been thinking about dropping the who's hottest for a long time. I felt, as a lot of people did, they just seemed wrong as they devolved into crude comments that we'd try our best to delete (often after getting a bunch of "likes" from the crowd). Some of the comments in one of the threads a few weeks ago were too much and it was enough to make a change. I think we covered it pretty exhaustively in the other thread. Sorry. Nothing dramatic.
Joe,The thread post was started by Jonmx as an unfunny parody attempt. It was locked. Sinn Fein responded with one from the other side. I'm sure some people thought jonmx and sinn fein should have been suspended for it and think it's perplexing he did not.
Thanks @Chemical X I hear you. My worry with more mods is it's just like it went with Shick. Because there's so much of what you describe, it eventually breaks you down. Shick was already almost done before he had guy from here try to contact his work and get him in trouble. Incredibly uncool. We'll keep working on it though thanks.this in itself is a fascinating thread to read. i never really understood, until now, how many whiners are at this site. complaining about bannings, name calling, perceived preferential treatment, heavy handed moderating. i have been associated with this board/site for about 20 years and have never reported a post. had a couple of bannings for jokes gone bad. i think that the longevity here has given posters the false sense of community. while many posters have IRL familiarity, most here are just a name and avatar. for the most part, i am of the opinion that this is an anonymous message board and people get online muscles when posting as such. i always felt that this community required thick skin and for the most part was self moderated. i have learned most don’t have thick skin and joe has felt the need to moderate more to this crowd. i am not thrilled with joe’s style of moderation, as i feel his beliefs differ from mine, but this is his playground, so i adjust. i do not like the “if you don’t like it find another board stance”. this reminds me of people that complain about the cost of a baseball game, ticket is $60, parking is $25, food is expensive and other people telling them “well, don’t go”. it’s not that simple, people are emotionally invested in their team. with this point, team means sports, board, political party. i still believe this board should be self moderated. we do have ignore feature, though it needs to be bolstered. if you don’t like what a poster says or believes, ignore them. if a poster is a dope, then i am all for the board ganging up on that poster and letting them know. this board should be more like a clubhouse. there will be different personalities and views. different motives and beliefs. but we have to get along for this place to succeed.
joe, i think you should step back and bring back moderators, like when shick and maxwell were here. heck, there are many level headed posters here that would be willing to help moderate so you don’t have to be dropped into the middle. as active as many are, i think they know what does and doesn’t fly. somehow i figured it out. solicit some names for forums, post a thread, take votes and let the board decide who can mod.
this board can and has done many good deeds. i have faith that if we try hard enough we can all be civil. american society is moving away from civility, if anyone has noticed. it’s easy to be a bully. it’s time we all take responsibility for our actions, understand that there are other points of view out there, you don’t have to agree with another poster, but you certainly can respect their opinion. rather than being a chode, maybe walk away?
Thank you.Joe,
thansk for your feedback, while I don’t agree it’s moderated fairly I do appreciate and respect your perspective as it’s the one that matters. If things are under review hopefully this gets consideration and maybe to get another perspective may be worth discussing with Dodds or someone with just a separate view from the masses in there. Appreciate what your offer here.![]()
Thanks @comfortably numb It's possible that could work. I'm just hesitant to do more suspending as it seems the consensus is we're already too heavy handed. But that may be the only answer. It's a giant gray area though as to what's ok. Orange is totally out? Size of hands gets a suspension? It's that kind of thing. Let me look at it some more.Wouldnt it be easier to give TOs and bannings when people use variations of those words.
Speaking that sets the tone for how any political thread will go. Nipping that in the bud would take a few weeks and people would eventually get the hint on how to have respectful political discussions or they would eventually leave.
Seems like a lot of potential winning for everyone.
Having done that might have prevented a need for the seperation of a political forum.
We were told to not use those as well as nicknames for Kaepernick after Squistion got triggered. The guy complaining about Drumpf yesterday is using Orange Doofus today.Iirc you posted awhile ago that Trumper, Trumpette, "orange president" etc wouldn't be tolerated anymore.
It's tolerated on most every page of every thread
If I underatand the situation correctly, this is how you’re killing the FFA in a nutshell. PG content gets posted, someone makes a joke that several other forum members like, and the post gets killed. Which runs even the mildly interesting off. It’s not just about that one post, it’s about the whole approach.As I said in the original post on the who's hottest, there's not any kind of behind the scenes drama or anything special. I'd been thinking about dropping the who's hottest for a long time. I felt, as a lot of people did, they just seemed wrong as they devolved into crude comments that we'd try our best to delete (often after getting a bunch of "likes" from the crowd). Some of the comments in one of the threads a few weeks ago were too much and it was enough to make a change. I think we covered it pretty exhaustively in the other thread. Sorry. Nothing dramatic.
Thanks @proninjaJoe -
Thanks for providing this place. It's a heck of a community. The decisions you've made over the years have resulted in a fantastic place to hang out online, and I'd encourage you to keep following your instincts. They've worked so far, and they'll probably keep working well.
Also, I appreciate the political forum. Even with the vitriol. Smart people here have changed my mind on just about everything I used to believe when it comes to public engagement. I like keeping it out of the FFA, I like being able to engage, and imo the juice is worth the squeeze. I know it's not exactly how you want it, but it probably *can't* be exactly how you want it due to the nature of the beast, and on balance I think it's a great, positive addition to the board.
But you do you. It's worked well so far, and I appreciate what you've built.
You keep confusing liberalism with conservatism with regard to the thumb-on-scale moderation.Middle aged white guys hate change and being told what to do.
Frankly that could be the motto of the country right now.
I have no idea if I'd be the slightest bit interested in this sort of forum or even read it, but it sounds like a far better idea than asking a community of adults who have been together for 20-odd years (I've been here/Old Yeller for about 16 or 17 I think) to suddenly conform their discourse to some ill-defined, apparently kid-friendly standard. I suspect, as I've noted before, that something is happening behind the scenes to motivate these changes. Perhaps FanDuel demanded them, which if so, is ironic in the extreme. We're clearly not going to find out and nothing is going to change, but it's remarkable how many posters are coming up with far better ideas to fix a problem that most didn't know existed in the first place.Maybe just create a separate forum where PG13 type stuff is allowed?
Obviously, things like nudity, curses, etc. wouldn't be allowed but nicknames, who's hottest polls, etc. would be.
I would guess that over 90% of the people reading the FFA are 21 or over. They can handle the internet in a PG13 manner.
Interesting thought.Maybe just create a separate forum where PG13 type stuff is allowed?
Obviously, things like nudity, curses, etc. wouldn't be allowed but nicknames, who's hottest polls, etc. would be.
I would guess that over 90% of the people reading the FFA are 21 or over. They can handle the internet in a PG13 manner.
I get your perspective here at least, that's helpfulAnd for sure, zero interest in trying to debate specific suspensions here. As we said earlier, there's no upside there beyond letting people know what they did. And these have been on the conservative side. For sure, they liberal side guys who get suspended have the same reaction that they're being picked on while the "other" guy is allowed to troll at will.
I don’t think the nicknames for public figures should warrant a timeout, but when you start targeting groups of people or specific posters with stuff like Libs, Trumpers, Red Hats, etc you should be warned to stop. Do it again and it’s a TO.Wouldnt it be easier to give TOs and bannings when people use variations of those words.
Speaking that sets the tone for how any political thread will go. Nipping that in the bud would take a few weeks and people would eventually get the hint on how to have respectful political discussions or they would eventually leave.
Seems like a lot of potential winning for everyone.
Having done that might have prevented a need for the seperation of a political forum.
....from the guy that photoshopped the Russian ushanka (or whatever it's called) on a pic of the President as his avatar.I get your perspective here at least, that's helpful
I think you're circling an interesting dilemma here. This isnt to whine at all, but I do think it is too heavy handed. I voted as such when you made a poll. Getting suspended for calling Trump a moron or the things in your posts seems pretty crazy to me. It is your board and your choice, of course. You've created a great place in spite of these disagreements.Thanks @comfortably numb It's possible that could work. I'm just hesitant to do more suspending as it seems the consensus is we're already too heavy handed. But that may be the only answer. It's a giant gray area though as to what's ok. Orange is totally out? Size of hands gets a suspension? It's that kind of thing. Let me look at it some more.
I agree to a point but there is some good stuff in the political forum. A lot of those guys do some heavy lifting on the daily question of WTF that we are dealing with. And they do it without spin. Well researched and diverse sources. There is the usual party loyal nonsense. But it’s an education over there almost every day.facook said:It's not the absence of political threads that I am grateful for, it's the absence of a certain subset of posters who just couldn't seem to avoid turning any and every thread they read into a political argument. Not everything has to be political. It's a huge relief to have them in their own sandbox which I can avoid.
I can't claim to Photoshop nearly that well....from the guy that photoshopped the Russian ushanka (or whatever it's called) on a pic of the President as his avatar.![]()
I've been thinking this myself. Gotta be $ related, right?I have no idea if I'd be the slightest bit interested in this sort of forum or even read it, but it sounds like a far better idea than asking a community of adults who have been together for 20-odd years (I've been here/Old Yeller for about 16 or 17 I think) to suddenly confirm their discourse to some ill-defined, apparently kid-friendly standard. I suspect, as I've noted before, that something is happening behind the scenes to motivate these changes. Perhaps FanDuel demanded them, which if so, is ironic in the extreme.
Let's be honest, as true as that statement is, even though it's not being "Excellent", no one will ever get suspended for it. Now calling Hillary a moron? That'll get you a TOGetting suspended for calling Trump a moron or the things in your posts seems pretty crazy to me
I don’t think the nicknames for public figures should warrant a timeout, but when you start targeting groups of people or specific posters with stuff like Libs, Trumpers, Red Hats, etc you should be warned to stop. Do it again and it’s a TO.
We have to self police to a certain extent as well. Posters shouldn’t be attacked for their views; when we see it we should probably report it. I’ll give an example...
Helltoupe was called out about his belief of the “bus loads of illegal voters” thing in NH last year. I think he was rightfully called to back it up with facts. However, blood got in the water and folks started to pile on about him “personally” running an investigation. Sure it can be funny, but when guys do it months later (hell I saw it a couple of days ago), it’s a bit sophomorish to me. What kind of community are we building with that kind of stuff?
@Joe Bryant this is also my response to your question on what to do about it. I think if there’s anywhere that needs the heavy handed mods, it’s the PSF. I venture in there to read the news and get the takes from some extremely smart folks in there. I’ve learned a ton, probably too much, about all sorts of stuff. However, the price you pay to get that info is “high”. Page after page of bickering and needling. You can actually get a good read on when real news breaks vs. when it’s quiet just by scrolling through and seeing when guys are bickering or not.
This is an excellent point. I miss those threads too. I feel like the last couple threads that were mainstream and stayed manageable were the Malaysian airliner and the Boston bombing. I checked into those threads hourly, and the last several hours of chasing Tsarnaev I stayed in the Boston thread constantly. Vegas Shooting I think did ok but eventually devolved into the gun control stuff. Again, there are just a few people who can't control themselves and have to crap up any thread with back and forth political trolling and it all devolves. It's a shame.Okay, I haven't chimed in--so I am feeling left out here. As a member of this community since the Cheatsheet days, I feel like I know some of the FFA guys better than my IRL friends. In the past when other boards went to pay to post, I was here and bought my FBG subscription because I felt that somehow my $$ helped keep these forums free, even though I don't use a tenth of the features my subscription provides.
I didn't take part in the whose hottest threads--heck, two weeks ago I stumbled in one and asked if we were judging from left to right or right to left. so I don't care if they are gone. Additionally, moving the PSF was the best decision ever made.
Where I am going to totally go in a different direction is I want absolute heavy handed moderation in the FFA in current event threads. This place was where I spent 911, the OJ trial verdict, the Vegas Shooting, etc and in the past, this is where we got the newest updates on these events. Lately, it seems we cannot have any discussion on anything going on without someone turning it into their side's agenda and then boom, the thread is immediately sent to the PSF. I come here for info because a lot of the time we have people there in the city where it is happening and they have insight we can't get from the MSM. I want mods in those threads axing those posts/posters the minute it starts to go off the rails and the thread kept in the FFA. We really need to get back to this.
Thank you Joe and all the FBG staff for this great place.
Yes, people have been suspended for that. including myself, apparently.Let's be honest, as true as that statement is, even though it's not being "Excellent", no one will ever get suspended for it. Now calling Hillary a moron? That'll get you a TO
Wow. HarshYes, people have been suspended for that. including myself, apparently.
Watching the end of the Tsarnaev chase live was pretty crazyThis is an excellent point. I miss those threads too. I feel like the last couple threads that were mainstream and stayed manageable were the Malaysian airliner and the Boston bombing. I checked into those threads hourly, and the last several hours of chasing Tsarnaev I stayed in the Boston thread constantly. Vegas Shooting I think did ok but eventually devolved into the gun control stuff. Again, there are just a few people who can't control themselves and have to crap up any thread with back and forth political trolling and it all devolves. It's a shame.
I don't disagree, but my only reason for mentioning is that drawing a line like that or in the other examples is going to take a lot of enforcenent. When it is done inconsistently (you can call x person something but cant call y person the same) it could breed resentment or lead to the claims that there is bias against different sides. My point is that it is going to take a lot of work.Wow. Harsh
Pretty much agree 100%. Calling someone a moron (unless it's a personal attack on a member here) I think is pretty tame and shouldn't be cause for a TO.I don't disagree, but my only reason for mentioning is that drawing a line like that or in the other examples is going to take a lot of enforcenent. When it is done inconsistently (you can call x person something but cant call y person the same) it could breed resentment or lead to the claims that there is bias against different sides. My point is that it is going to take a lot of work.
Who left?That yoga pants thread was money. I cant beleive anyone would want it gone. Sad. If someone doesn't want to go in there, don't click on it.
There were way too many whos hottest threads. Could have just told them to cut it back instead of destroy ing threads which resulted in a bunch of guys leaving.
That is what i meant. Once you start with that you're not having a respectable open minded discussion.I don’t think the nicknames for public figures should warrant a timeout, but when you start targeting groups of people or specific posters with stuff like Libs, Trumpers, Red Hats, etc you should be warned to stop. Do it again and it’s a TO.
We have to self police to a certain extent as well. Posters shouldn’t be attacked for their views; when we see it we should probably report it. I’ll give an example...
Helltoupe was called out about his belief of the “bus loads of illegal voters” thing in NH last year. I think he was rightfully called to back it up with facts. However, blood got in the water and folks started to pile on about him “personally” running an investigation. Sure it can be funny, but when guys do it months later (hell I saw it a couple of days ago), it’s a bit sophomorish to me. What kind of community are we building with that kind of stuff?
@Joe Bryant this is also my response to your question on what to do about it. I think if there’s anywhere that needs the heavy handed mods, it’s the PSF. I venture in there to read the news and get the takes from some extremely smart folks in there. I’ve learned a ton, probably too much, about all sorts of stuff. However, the price you pay to get that info is “high”. Page after page of bickering and needling. You can actually get a good read on when real news breaks vs. when it’s quiet just by scrolling through and seeing when guys are bickering or not.
NFW. Drop it man.Heck, i would be fine with having politics back in the FFA if it was moderated stricter and you have a Trump thread and a Hillary thread or Dem and Rep thread and people can have at it in there.
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