Mister Martie
Footballguy
Buying the house the majority voted against in the previous thread?
The majority was wrong.Buying the house the majority voted against in the previous thread?
Ok.The majority was wrong.Buying the house the majority voted against in the previous thread?
I seriously do. PM?Congrats on settling.Ef this. Putting in an offer on UglyHouse tomorrow. This sounds like a nightmare.
Let me know if you want to see pictures of CustomHome
You may care only about the high level stuff now, but a few years down the road after you are settled into that new house you'll be ticked about all sorts of stuff in the house that irks you which you had an opportunity to provide input on and didn't it. That's why you want to pay attention to the details now.Because there is no house a available in the area we like that has exactly the right combination of block, lot size, and interior. I don't mean down to the glazing of the toilet in the third bathroom, but high level stuff.If details aren't a big deal, why build?My wife isn't big on details. There are a few things either of us care about, and I don't expect to have her attention beyond that. If anything I'll be the one obsessing over the details, and barely.Oh and theres no chance your wife doesn't become a construction-zilla once she is able to pick and choose every little detail about your house. When she sees there are 20 different types light fixers and she is not budging from the most expensive option...good luck.
Settling is what happens to a new house.Congrats on settling.Ef this. Putting in an offer on UglyHouse tomorrow. This sounds like a nightmare.
Let me know if you want to see pictures of CustomHome
Serious answer: if you can find the perfect lot, a reputable builder, and you and your wife agree on everything, you can get a house built fairly quickly and easily. I firmly believe the way to do that is to buy or rent in the area you want to live in and take as much time as you need to decide on all those things together with a builder. Design what you want and then wait for the piece of land, buy it and build it.
That said, obviously that's easier in areas of the country where you can buy a lot and sit on it while you pay your mortgage/rent, even if there's a house already on the lot you buy.
If you can find a way to have a nice, comfortable place to live and take your time, building a house can be a wonderful experience. If you've already sold your house and are looking at an uncertain amount of time to live somewhere else while you figure it out, it's a nightmare.
Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Oh, I know when I'm being worked. And you, sir, are working me hard. Follow your lead and come football season I'll be sniffing the rancid parmesan cheese through the wall from my neighbor's apartment as I'm huddled in the corner with the family under some blankets because the landlord can't get the heat working.![]()
Oats getting worked over in here.
Ever see a house being built, O?
Just some 2x4s nailed together, a couple days later they got plywood over it. After that you slap on the drywall on the inside and then it's just you and the missus picking out the colors and the materials for finish work.
12 months is a way overestimate of what it should take.
Do it and report back, you should have it move-in ready by the start of football season at the latest.
Hey guys. Is it a PITA to build a house, assuming a perfect builder, a guarantee on timing and pricing, and a wife that won't complain about any decisions I make? Other than all that #### it should be a breeze, amirite?
But it has great potential. Otis should build a house just for our entertainment value. It could bring Otis back and put him on a level with Ron. ;popcorn:![]()
No way this is all real. Oat is the biggest/longest fishing attempt in the history of these boards?
How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Our builder works with an architect. We gave him our general thoughts on what we liked and didn't want and he met with the architect himself to get her to do her thing.How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
I was picturing a 20' high basement.2 story basement sounds awesome.
"It's cooler in the basement, let's hang here."
"Better yet, let's go to the SUB basement."![]()
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No way this is all real. Oat is the biggest/longest fishing attempt in the history of these boards?
Companies that build houses don't have architects thy use where you live?How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Put the bags in place. Cut open top of bag. Wait for rain."Guys, I'm trying to get the slab done and I ordered a bunch of concrete. It showed up in bags!!! Every time I've seen concrete before it looked more like quicksand and it poured out the back of a truck. What do I do with this stuff?"
Put the bags in place. Cut open top of bag. Wait for rain."Guys, I'm trying to get the slab done and I ordered a bunch of concrete. It showed up in bags!!! Every time I've seen concrete before it looked more like quicksand and it poured out the back of a truck. What do I do with this stuff?"
Hell yeah. Didn't even think about that. Instant savings.Put the bags in place. Cut open top of bag. Wait for rain."Guys, I'm trying to get the slab done and I ordered a bunch of concrete. It showed up in bags!!! Every time I've seen concrete before it looked more like quicksand and it poured out the back of a truck. What do I do with this stuff?"![]()
Plus, you wouldn't have to lay a vapor barrier since the bags would serve that purpose.
Pain in Arkansas?Pain In (naughty place)WF is a PIA?
Where poop comes from. So yes.Pain in Arkansas?Pain In (naughty place)WF is a PIA?
A PITA?Pain In (naughty place)WF is a PIA?
Didn't you just buy the house you live in less than 5 years ago?
YES
did you ever sell the apartment from 7-8 years ago?
YES
Haven't you put a ton of money into this current home?
YES (made it all back and then some)
Given the data presented here in the FFA, Otis should take the estimated cost and add about 40% to it.Oh and theres no chance your wife doesn't become a construction-zilla once she is able to pick and choose every little detail about your house. When she sees there are 20 different types light fixtures and she is not budging from the most expensive option...good luck.
Not for the work I do- super high-end residential. Even when I was doing lower/mid range projects, people who want a new/reno house or apartment hire architects and then bid contractors. Of course, that's from the perspective of an architect- I'm obviously out of the loop with people who don't want the architect and go straight to the builder (although I've had a couple of projects that came from contractors who secured the project from the client directly... but it's still a separate contract).Companies that build houses don't have architects thy use where you live?How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Good luck, O.Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.
Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.
I'd be interested in hearing this too. That's the debate.Good luck, O.Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.
Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.
From an obviously slanted pov, you'll get exactly what you want with designing your own and will have to learn to abide with things you don't want when buying an existing house (unless you renovate). But it's definitely more money and will be 2 years give or take of headache and hassle with regular massive checks going out without any recognizable play-thing readily available. But then you come out the other side and have exactly what you want. Forever.
I wonder if anybody who's gone through that route regrets it?
Yeah... these early years with the kids is rough. Hard to concentrate on much more than that. But it gets better... right? RIGHT?!I'd be interested in hearing this too. That's the debate.Good luck, O.Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.
Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.
From an obviously slanted pov, you'll get exactly what you want with designing your own and will have to learn to abide with things you don't want when buying an existing house (unless you renovate). But it's definitely more money and will be 2 years give or take of headache and hassle with regular massive checks going out without any recognizable play-thing readily available. But then you come out the other side and have exactly what you want. Forever.
I wonder if anybody who's gone through that route regrets it?
I'm also wondering if we are better off buying the new-inside house now and then down the road, when we don't have newborns floating around, reconsidering doing a knockdown-and-build. It's just a rough/hectic time in the O-house lately, probably not the ideal time for added stress/tasks.
brass or brushed nickel?Where are we on the left handed vs right handed door decision?![]()
whoa whoa whoa... let's not get crazy here- first thing's first. Then we need to know if it's reverse or not.brass or brushed nickel?Where are we on the left handed vs right handed door decision?![]()