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The Renovate Otis's New House Thread (2 Viewers)

Hey guys. Is it a PITA to build a house, assuming a perfect builder, a guarantee on timing and pricing, and a wife that won't complain about any decisions I make? Other than all that #### it should be a breeze, amirite?

 
Oh and theres no chance your wife doesn't become a construction-zilla once she is able to pick and choose every little detail about your house. When she sees there are 20 different types light fixers and she is not budging from the most expensive option...good luck.
My wife isn't big on details. There are a few things either of us care about, and I don't expect to have her attention beyond that. If anything I'll be the one obsessing over the details, and barely.
If details aren't a big deal, why build?
Because there is no house a available in the area we like that has exactly the right combination of block, lot size, and interior. I don't mean down to the glazing of the toilet in the third bathroom, but high level stuff.
You may care only about the high level stuff now, but a few years down the road after you are settled into that new house you'll be ticked about all sorts of stuff in the house that irks you which you had an opportunity to provide input on and didn't it. That's why you want to pay attention to the details now.

The other thing I'll say is that I live in an area where tear downs/total rebuilds have been common for the last 10 years or so. When these homes come back on the market, it's readily apparent which ones had some thought put into the design and which didn't and those are valued accordingly.

 
Serious answer: if you can find the perfect lot, a reputable builder, and you and your wife agree on everything, you can get a house built fairly quickly and easily. I firmly believe the way to do that is to buy or rent in the area you want to live in and take as much time as you need to decide on all those things together with a builder. Design what you want and then wait for the piece of land, buy it and build it.

That said, obviously that's easier in areas of the country where you can buy a lot and sit on it while you pay your mortgage/rent, even if there's a house already on the lot you buy.

If you can find a way to have a nice, comfortable place to live and take your time, building a house can be a wonderful experience. If you've already sold your house and are looking at an uncertain amount of time to live somewhere else while you figure it out, it's a nightmare.

 
Serious answer: if you can find the perfect lot, a reputable builder, and you and your wife agree on everything, you can get a house built fairly quickly and easily. I firmly believe the way to do that is to buy or rent in the area you want to live in and take as much time as you need to decide on all those things together with a builder. Design what you want and then wait for the piece of land, buy it and build it.

That said, obviously that's easier in areas of the country where you can buy a lot and sit on it while you pay your mortgage/rent, even if there's a house already on the lot you buy.

If you can find a way to have a nice, comfortable place to live and take your time, building a house can be a wonderful experience. If you've already sold your house and are looking at an uncertain amount of time to live somewhere else while you figure it out, it's a nightmare.
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My wife had corrected me. It's possible this is again a ploy to motivate me to put an offer in on Das UglyHaus, but she assures me she would be interested in having input into things like tile selections.

 
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Oats getting worked over in here.

Ever see a house being built, O?

Just some 2x4s nailed together, a couple days later they got plywood over it. After that you slap on the drywall on the inside and then it's just you and the missus picking out the colors and the materials for finish work.

12 months is a way overestimate of what it should take.

Do it and report back, you should have it move-in ready by the start of football season at the latest.

 
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Oats getting worked over in here.

Ever see a house being built, O?

Just some 2x4s nailed together, a couple days later they got plywood over it. After that you slap on the drywall on the inside and then it's just you and the missus picking out the colors and the materials for finish work.

12 months is a way overestimate of what it should take.

Do it and report back, you should have it move-in ready by the start of football season at the latest.
Oh, I know when I'm being worked. And you, sir, are working me hard. Follow your lead and come football season I'll be sniffing the rancid parmesan cheese through the wall from my neighbor's apartment as I'm huddled in the corner with the family under some blankets because the landlord can't get the heat working.

UGLYHOUSE FOR THE VICTORY

 
:lmao:

No way this is all real. Oat is the biggest/longest fishing attempt in the history of these boards?

 
:lmao:

No way this is all real. Oat is the biggest/longest fishing attempt in the history of these boards?
But it has great potential. Otis should build a house just for our entertainment value. It could bring Otis back and put him on a level with Ron. ;popcorn:

 
You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.
How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).
Our builder works with an architect. We gave him our general thoughts on what we liked and didn't want and he met with the architect himself to get her to do her thing.

Just because we discussed design with him doesn't mean an architect wasn't used.

 
You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.
How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).
Companies that build houses don't have architects thy use where you live?

 
When we had our home built I found a design we really liked from the builder. It was a 2400 SQ ft brick ranch style. There were a few things we wanted to change that were not in the original floor plan. We opened it up from the kitchen to the family room and separated that by a bar with seating. Had them remove another wall to make the whole upper level open. The walkout basement was huge so I had them put another 26x16 bedroom and bath room in the basement that I turned the bedroom into a home gym. So if and when I ever sell it will be 4 bedrooms 3 1/2 baths. Instead of the 3 and 2 1/2 the original design was. Having used the builders design and just tweaking a few things saved up quite a bit of cash. In fact after he built our home he changed the future floor plans for the ranches to the one he used for ours.

So if you can find a design you really like it is not that difficult to make some changes to fit your needs during construction.

 
"Guys, I'm trying to get the slab done and I ordered a bunch of concrete. It showed up in bags!!! Every time I've seen concrete before it looked more like quicksand and it poured out the back of a truck. What do I do with this stuff?"
Put the bags in place. Cut open top of bag. Wait for rain.

 
"Guys, I'm trying to get the slab done and I ordered a bunch of concrete. It showed up in bags!!! Every time I've seen concrete before it looked more like quicksand and it poured out the back of a truck. What do I do with this stuff?"
Put the bags in place. Cut open top of bag. Wait for rain.
:goodposting:

Plus, you wouldn't have to lay a vapor barrier since the bags would serve that purpose.

 
"Guys, I'm trying to get the slab done and I ordered a bunch of concrete. It showed up in bags!!! Every time I've seen concrete before it looked more like quicksand and it poured out the back of a truck. What do I do with this stuff?"
Put the bags in place. Cut open top of bag. Wait for rain.
:goodposting:

Plus, you wouldn't have to lay a vapor barrier since the bags would serve that purpose.
Hell yeah. Didn't even think about that. Instant savings.

 
We had our first house built almost 20 years ago. I worked at an architecture firm and got advise and adjustments to the plans from the builder by people at work. Also, received some advise on how to keep the builder in check during the process. Took 5 months from start to finish and that was during winter in New England.

I also put an addition on about 10 years later because we liked the neighborhood, needed more space and did not want to move. Had a builder do that too.

It can be a PITA if you don't keep on it, but you can also end up with more of what you want.

 
Just had ours built and we moved in last November. From when they broke ground til when the finished took about 3 months. Really wasn't a bad process at all. We would stop in every now and then to check on progress and make sure everything was where we wanted it to be. Was pretty simple picking out everything for the house too.

 
Didn't you just buy the house you live in less than 5 years ago?

did you ever sell the apartment from 7-8 years ago?

Haven't you put a ton of money into this current home?

 
Just got permits issued and will be breaking ground sometime this week or next. Estimated 100 days after we break ground to move in. We bought the lot in March, but had no house on it so no demo was required. My Father in Law is a GC who has built many homes from ground up, so got extremely lucky here. We decided we were going to build new about two years ago. Design was easy as we knew what we wanted, finding the right lot took forever and is actually a bit further from the city then I'd like, but everything else about it is perfect.

 
See bolded.

Didn't you just buy the house you live in less than 5 years ago?

YES

did you ever sell the apartment from 7-8 years ago?

YES

Haven't you put a ton of money into this current home?
YES (made it all back and then some)
 
Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.

Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.

 
Oh and theres no chance your wife doesn't become a construction-zilla once she is able to pick and choose every little detail about your house. When she sees there are 20 different types light fixtures and she is not budging from the most expensive option...good luck.
Given the data presented here in the FFA, Otis should take the estimated cost and add about 40% to it.

 
You guys all seriously take time to design stuff... With the builder?
Of course, given the chance--it's your house not his. At least have a voice in the amenities.
How about an architect? We get paid to... you know... design stuff. Builders- they get paid to... build stuff. But therein lies the problem with my profession (and a lot of houses).
Companies that build houses don't have architects thy use where you live?
Not for the work I do- super high-end residential. Even when I was doing lower/mid range projects, people who want a new/reno house or apartment hire architects and then bid contractors. Of course, that's from the perspective of an architect- I'm obviously out of the loop with people who don't want the architect and go straight to the builder (although I've had a couple of projects that came from contractors who secured the project from the client directly... but it's still a separate contract).

And yeah- there are design-build companies that combine both. And yeah, I know there are builders that have architects on staff. I'm obviously biased, but I think it's beneficial for the client to get the checks and balances when contractor and designer are separate entities.

 
Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.

Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.
Good luck, O.

From an obviously slanted pov, you'll get exactly what you want with designing your own and will have to learn to abide with things you don't want when buying an existing house (unless you renovate). But it's definitely more money and will be 2 years give or take of headache and hassle with regular massive checks going out without any recognizable play-thing readily available. But then you come out the other side and have exactly what you want. Forever.

I wonder if anybody who's gone through that route regrets it?

 
Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.

Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.
Good luck, O.

From an obviously slanted pov, you'll get exactly what you want with designing your own and will have to learn to abide with things you don't want when buying an existing house (unless you renovate). But it's definitely more money and will be 2 years give or take of headache and hassle with regular massive checks going out without any recognizable play-thing readily available. But then you come out the other side and have exactly what you want. Forever.

I wonder if anybody who's gone through that route regrets it?
I'd be interested in hearing this too. That's the debate.

I'm also wondering if we are better off buying the new-inside house now and then down the road, when we don't have newborns floating around, reconsidering doing a knockdown-and-build. It's just a rough/hectic time in the O-house lately, probably not the ideal time for added stress/tasks.

 
Great news. About to put in an offer on UglyHouse and find out we're in a bidding war. Another offer in already.

Now need to offer more than we think it's worth, but we're desperate enough that we may just do it. That or cut bait and start seriously investigating this build thing. I'm talking with our financing guy in 15 minutes about a construction loan, just to kick the tires on it.
Good luck, O.

From an obviously slanted pov, you'll get exactly what you want with designing your own and will have to learn to abide with things you don't want when buying an existing house (unless you renovate). But it's definitely more money and will be 2 years give or take of headache and hassle with regular massive checks going out without any recognizable play-thing readily available. But then you come out the other side and have exactly what you want. Forever.

I wonder if anybody who's gone through that route regrets it?
I'd be interested in hearing this too. That's the debate.

I'm also wondering if we are better off buying the new-inside house now and then down the road, when we don't have newborns floating around, reconsidering doing a knockdown-and-build. It's just a rough/hectic time in the O-house lately, probably not the ideal time for added stress/tasks.
Yeah... these early years with the kids is rough. Hard to concentrate on much more than that. But it gets better... right? RIGHT?! :oldunsure:

I wonder though- like having kids- if there's ever a truly "good" time to do it? You don't want to wait until the kids are gone, and there will always be stresses and reasons not to. :shrug:

eta: oh... the regret question was rhetorical... but maybe there are people who regret it.

 
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