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For your birthday this year you should go home tonight and say the following...All I want is ONE thing for my birthday this year.....to no longer recognize Valentine's Day ever again. No card giving, nothing. It would be the best gift anybody has ever given me.
Exactly. You should do it randomly throughout the year whenever you feel like it....not guilted into it because society decided this should be that day, and if you don't expect hell.
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This. Do something nice for your gf/wife, get her some flowers, go to dinner together. Is it really that difficult? I mean, is it the 30 bucks you have to lay out to buy her some flowers, or is it that you have to sit and have dinner with her?
I find it amusing how hard it is for some guys to get secks with their significant other. If this is really all you're looking for and the only way to get her to give it up, than make her a nice dinner on Feb. 5th. It will mean more to her anyways because she'll know you're doing it just because you do really appreciate and love her and not because you feel forced into being nice for a day.
Where did I say that?
It has nothing to do with the money or time, it has to do with feeling forced to do it because someone randomly decided Feb. 14th would be a good day to guilt men into being affectionate to their SO.Do the flower, dinner thing on Feb 11th and it will be much more meaningful.
I didn't say that's what you said. But per your original response the upside for guys in the V-Day situation is they have a better chance at gettings secks. I find it sad that the only enjoyment guys get out of this day is that their chances of getting laid goes up from 22% to 68%.
Feb. 18th = Designer sweatpant and puzzle day.
Your "girl" is a blow-up doll, isn't she?
Do you tell trick or treaters that you don't give out candy on that randomly selected day and to come back in August, right after you eat your Thanksgiving turkey if they want anything?
Good man.The only date that we buy nicer gifts throughout the year for each other are our birthdays.We've agreed no gift (not even cards) for Valentines Day, Sweetest Day, Christmas, etc.. We used to just get only an ornament for each other for Christmas, but this year about 2 weeks prior she suggested we stop with that nonsense from now on as we already have enough ornamants to fill our tree.
You guys sure sound fun to be around.Good man.The only date that we buy nicer gifts throughout the year for each other are our birthdays.We've agreed no gift (not even cards) for Valentines Day, Sweetest Day, Christmas, etc.. We used to just get only an ornament for each other for Christmas, but this year about 2 weeks prior she suggested we stop with that nonsense from now on as we already have enough ornamants to fill our tree.
You guys sure sound fun to be around.Good man.The only date that we buy nicer gifts throughout the year for each other are our birthdays.We've agreed no gift (not even cards) for Valentines Day, Sweetest Day, Christmas, etc.. We used to just get only an ornament for each other for Christmas, but this year about 2 weeks prior she suggested we stop with that nonsense from now on as we already have enough ornamants to fill our tree.
Cut him some slack. He spends all his money on clothes.
V-Day is the best night to be out "creeping". So many vulnerable women out that night with their other single friends gettingcant wait till its over. Hurray for the start of dating season
and looking for man love.
Oh yeah I forgot, opening a card with a bedazzled heart on it is sooooo FUN! Most guys wish they could have this setup but just know it's never possible so feel better mocking it instead.You guys sure sound fun to be around.Good man.The only date that we buy nicer gifts throughout the year for each other are our birthdays.We've agreed no gift (not even cards) for Valentines Day, Sweetest Day, Christmas, etc.. We used to just get only an ornament for each other for Christmas, but this year about 2 weeks prior she suggested we stop with that nonsense from now on as we already have enough ornamants to fill our tree.
THIS is the best part of Valentine's Day. Ironic that it's most fun for guys when they are single.V-Day is the best night to be out "creeping". So many vulnerable women out that night with their other single friends gettingcant wait till its over. Hurray for the start of dating season
and looking for man love.
Yep, I freaking love Valentine's Day. Minimal effort and she's about as excited as she's gonna get. Out of the ten best total days of my life 3-4 of them were probably a past V-day.
Been a good day for me.urbanhack said:
Shooter McGavin said:I could see being adamantly opposed to v-day if your significant other expected diamonds and dinner at Le Cirque, but if she's like most women, a small token of affection like flowers and a card and/or making her a nice dinner is all that's expected. And I know I always receive a small gift, too. Making these kinds of gestures on this specific traditional day doesn't preclude you from doing nice things for your wife/gf during other times of the year, either, so I don't really get the hate.
Has anyone here ever celebrated "Sweetest Day"? I've never even heard of it.offdee said:Good man.The only date that we buy nicer gifts throughout the year for each other are our birthdays.
We've agreed no gift (not even cards) for Valentines Day, Sweetest Day, Christmas, etc.. We used to just get only an ornament for each other for Christmas, but this year about 2 weeks prior she suggested we stop with that nonsense from now on as we already have enough ornamants to fill our tree.
I'm starting to re-think my position on this now.urbanhack said:
used to run this game back in college. got scared off when the girl i brought home my senior year called me "honey" in the morning and cried hysterically when i broke off communication a week later (She actually screamed "But we met on VALENTINES day!!!!" as she bawled uncontrolably into a pillow).And i'm really not that great a catch. women are just insane.V-Day is the best night to be out "creeping". So many vulnerable women out that night with their other single friends gettingcant wait till its over. Hurray for the start of dating season
used to run this game back in college. got scared off when the girl i brought home my senior year called me "honey" in the morning and cried hysterically when i broke off communication a week later (She actually screamed "But we met on VALENTINES day!!!!" as she bawled uncontrolably into a pillow).And i'm really not that great a catch. women are just insane.V-Day is the best night to be out "creeping". So many vulnerable women out that night with their other single friends gettingcant wait till its over. Hurray for the start of dating season
I think if I were single again, the last thing I would do is creep on Valentine's Day. A cautionary tale indeed.
That's why Valentine's Day is just a selfish woman holiday. Even when they are giving out gifts really all they are doing is giving what they wish THEY would have done for them so they can brag about it to their friends.What guy would really walk into a room full of balloons and flower petals or chocolates on a bed and think it was great? And what woman is so out of touch with men that they think this is a great idea?
I apologize for taking so long to upgrade TLEF. Good stuff here as usual.But we met on VALENTINES day!!!used to run this game back in college. got scared off when the girl i brought home my senior year called me "honey" in the morning and cried hysterically when i broke off communication a week later (She actually screamed "But we met on VALENTINES day!!!!" as she bawled uncontrolably into a pillow).And i'm really not that great a catch. women are just insane.V-Day is the best night to be out "creeping". So many vulnerable women out that night with their other single friends gettingcant wait till its over. Hurray for the start of dating season
Yeah, its very tough to go online, send some chocolate covered strawberries or some sort of different flowers (anything but roses for my wife). Took me 10 mins and less than 100 bucks to do both.
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Pretty funny for someone to write "rid1culousness" of something else.Yeah, its very tough to go online, send some chocolate covered strawberries or some sort of different flowers (anything but roses for my wife). Took me 10 mins and less than 100 bucks to do both.
And that must have been so rewarding for you. So special.Yeah, its very tough to go online, send some chocolate covered strawberries or some sort of different flowers (anything but roses for my wife). Took me 10 mins and less than 100 bucks to do both.
Yes... because I did it for me.And that must have been so rewarding for you. So special.Yeah, its very tough to go online, send some chocolate covered strawberries or some sort of different flowers (anything but roses for my wife). Took me 10 mins and less than 100 bucks to do both.
Thrilled that I have a girlfriend that recognizes it as the Hallmark holiday it is.
Yep, I freaking love Valentine's Day.
