Okay. It's up to you whether to accept the apology or not. I can't control that. Note that I was talking about introspection and taking inventory at the end of the night. The questions I ask myself are "What made you mad during the day and how did you react? Was it your problem or was the problem unavoidable? Even if you think the person was in the wrong or also wrong or not wrong at all, how did you behave?"
It's something I do. I often apologize on this board because the best version of me is not always what I present or I let emotions get the better of me.
Am I somebody, say, like BB? No. I'm always going to be emotional and caustic at times. But at the end of the day, I want to make sure that I'm living up to my own standards that I'm setting for myself. When I fail and treat somebody improperly, I apologize.
Whether others do that is up to them.
One last thing: I can't control the grace with which you either accept the apology or not, but I won't be answering questions about my change of mind in how I approached the topic yesterday. I think a little grace would serve us both better. You can do with that what thou wilt.