Hey friend! I'm not going to be much help and hope others here will have more sage advice. The holidays can be a tough time of year many, many people. And 2021 is a tough year, after 2020 was a tough year.
And you've had an especially tough year in terms of transitions. I mean, new job, move across the country, divorce...did you set all your possessions on fire, too, just to hit the superfecta of stress?
In seriousness, it sounds like you're taking all the right steps to get through your funk, and you
will get through your funk. I'm excited for the big and positive changes you've made, and you should be proud of your ability to take those steps. It's scary to break out of "what we know," even if we know that the changes will be best for us. I think you'll love Denver once you settle in a bit more. All those sunny days in the winter should be great for your spirits. Are you an outdoor person at all? When I moved to the Seattle area, one way I met a lot of people was to get involved in various hiking and climbing groups. Not only did I meet most of my friends here in that way, but just getting out and challenging myself, exercising, and soaking in the pure air in itself does wonders for my mood. I think of the Denver area as being a lot like here in that people spend so much time outdoors. Maybe you ski or snowboard?
Very happy to have had the opportunity to get to know you a bit better in the Charity Music Drafts. Hope you'll continue to be in some of the music threads and drafts. It's been a lot of fun!
Like I said, I suck at advice on this, but wanted to let you know you have a lot of iFriends here who care and will be eager to see everything improve for your over the next months. I feel certain it will.