....Why do we need a test of "Did you complain about xyz that your political side did? Then shut up"
I'm probably guilty of it sometimes myself in the past. I'm going to work to do better, so I can actually have a conversation beyond "You didn't complain back in October..."I hope you'll join me.
Human beings behave in line with instinctive survival mechanisms. This is our biological imperative - To survive and to reproduce.
This is one of the reasons men react so strongly to disloyalty and things that become anti-community/anti-tribe in nature. Loyalty is a survival mechanism. You need a group for your children to survive and you can only function in a group based on trust.
How do men talk?
Men talk tactics and problem solving. This is the basis of all male conversation. The hunting grounds are good here. This is where the most threats are when traveling. This is how to fix this problem. This is the best way to use your Waiver Wire in fantasy football.
Tactics must be based on facts and Mark I eyeball reality. This is part of the old Ranger rules, which was say what you like among others, but always tell the truth to your brothers in arms because all decisions, life and death, are based off that information.
How do women talk?
Women talk about others in the group. This is the basis of all female conversation. Since their survival and hierarchy is built though usually non violent and social dynamics. This is why women gossip and talk so much. The biggest threat to women in primitive times were other women who might impede on their resources, their male mates and the survival of their children.
Tactics here must be based on feelings. This is no longer about the best place to hunt, this is about interpersonal dynamics and verbal/social warfare. Here, cognitive dissonance can exist. Facts mean little in this arena since the battleground is sifting through what people mean indirectly, not what they are showing openly.
So when you say you don't like how something feels when it's presented in terms of hypocrisy,
you are not bringing up the issue ON WHETHER THE SUBJECT MATTER IS TRUE OR NOT.
The truth is the only litmus test that matters for actual day to day problem solving. It is the only litmus under which our social interactions will function in a group dynamic for our mutual survival. The truth is why we didn't go extinct. We do this one way, we all die. We do it this instead, we all live. Feelings don't mean jack ####.
What you are saying is it doesn't matter to you if it's true or not, it matters how it makes you feel.
I'm saying I don't care about how anyone feels, it matters more if it's true.
The denial of truth and facts is a bed rock of identity politics. It's also a denial of masculinity. It's a denial of fact based tactical decision making.
You can trust a man who is honest. You can't trust a man who behaves in line with the biological imperative of women and bases decision making on feelings. If you don't believe me, ask yourself how long the human race would have survived if it rested strategically on feelings over day to day hardened reality of what did and did not work tactically. And modern society and culture has shifted to show my point in big bold neon signs - Women are urged to act more like men and men are told in entertainment, Big Education and the MSM that their base nature is toxic and bigoted and evil and misogynistic and must be punished. Is anyone going to really deny this has been happening in the Western world for a very long time now?
Identity politics is packed deeply in feelings and then the big bow on the outside of the box is virtue signaling. It's how rationalization becomes digestible through progressive forms of said cognitive dissonance.
You know why I'm right? BECAUSE WE TEACH OUR CHILDREN THE VALUE OF THE TRUTH. Don't lie to others, it only makes things worse as all lies are revealed eventually and don't lie to your family and don't lie to yourself. We teach our children to dig in and push past their feelings and look towards their future, their safety, their duty to their family and their obligation to their own integrity.
You are entitled to your free speech.
But "No", I won't join you. I will not surrender my masculinity in denial of the truth, if what is presented is the truth. If hypocrisy is an extension of that first and most important question - "Is it true?", then so be it.
All of you have free will. Ask yourself if you'd rather stick to what has kept men alive all throughout human history. Or if you'd rather choose to fit seamlessly with what women naturally do best and deny the fundamental reality of how we actually want to raise our children.
"Doing better" in my eyes is keeping my Man Card where it belongs. I care about standing up for my Conservative brothers here. I care about diversity of thought and opinion on FBG. I care about the integrity of this community, of which I am a part. I don't have any more caring in me left to worry about anyone's feelings.
Old Man Gekko was not built to give quarter. Natural dominance means he can only drop dimes.
Spend these ten cents well, it cost you more than you realize.