Here is another hypothetical. Supposing you met this girl on Saturday night. You talked for a few minutes but weren't interested. But, she's friends with 2 or 3 really hot girls you know, so you act pretty nice, maybe even mildly flirty so she will tell the hot girls. She then friends you on FB on Sunday, and messages you the following on Monday:
Cute pics with the baby[fn1]... U know chicks love that rite? H**** has been trying to get us to meet for over a year now[fn2].. Just had a first date with J*** on sat. Nite...[fn3] Kinda bad timing...but things have a way of playing themselves out as they should!! So glad to have finally met you.. You are hilarious and very cute[fn4]..would love to hear about ur ireland times sometime[fn5]...its so beautiful there...have a great easter!
C******
fn1. I have pics of me with my newborn nephew on my FB page.fn2. I sort of knew that H (one of the hot girls) had mentioned this, but I didn't realize the extent
fn3. I guess she introduced me to this guy. No idea why it's relevant. If it's been one date, you couldn't see someone else?
fn4. This is false.
fn5. I have lots of Ireland pictures, too.
So, how do I respond to this message, if at all? I want to say, you seemed nice, but I'm not interested, but you have hot friends that I don't want to think I'm a jerk. So tell them I'm cute and funny but don't message me when things with J don't work out.