A couple of thoughts/questions:
1) You say that you need to get in shape. How would you rate yourself and her when you first got together and how would you rate yourself now? Were you equals to begin with, but now she is higher up the scale?
2) What has changed in the last year? It looks like you both got jobs. Were you both looking for work prior to that and you had an "us against the world" approach? Were you helping her through tough times? Women like to lean on guys until they no longer have a need for them. Once she found a job, met new people (and new guys), you pretty much weren't needed.
As mentioned, women don't break things off until they know they have some prospects. She may not be banging another guy, but she has at least one fella that she knows she already has on the hook. If she comes back to you, it's b/c that guy didn't want her. Do you really want to be her backup plan?
1) I'd say were both pretty much similar when we met and now. I dont have as much muscle, put on about 5-10 pounds but she went fr being 103 to her present weight of 113. She's beautiful but I'm a confident guy so I wouldn't say I outkickrd my coverage if that's what you're asking.2) We both are registered nurses so I guess we went through applying to nursing school, getting through nursing school, passing the boards, and then looking and finally finding jobs the past 6 years. So i guess that's what helped bond us together.
So, a doctor found her attractive and now she's trading up. He's probably married, and that's why she still lives with you.
Well I just can't wait 'til the sun comes up
I'll be jumping in the saddle of a pick-up truck
I've got forty green acres of God's green earth
and Daddy, I'm a man who loves his work
I got a caddle prod
I got Bessie, and Bossie And Rosebud too
They swish their tails and they all say moo
When I do my milk, I feel my temperature rise
I see a little twinkle in those big brown eyes
C'mon Bossie, stand still, it won't hurt, oh!!!
There's a certain kind of loving that my wife don't know
Love so tender just falls off the bone
When I raise my hand I see the cattle shake
I got to have a heaping helping of that sweet flank steak
I got a cattle prod, I got a cattle prod