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Marital Advice - Friendly camping trip too friendly? (1 Viewer)

What do I do next?

  • Nothing, let it go.

    Votes: 9 18.0%
  • Go to counseling.

    Votes: 13 26.0%
  • Have my wife call this guy to figure out the events.

    Votes: 25 50.0%
  • [No response text]

    Votes: 15 30.0%

  • Total voters
    50
Is George about 2'10" and have fur all over his body? That could be why he is having a tough time spelling it out for your that you wife cheaated on you. My advice: stop leaving george at home by himself (this will save you thousands in home repairs and personal property damage). Second, use the pair I'm sure you have confront Steve face to face and tell your wife that you won't stand for this. Get some counseling, separate, divorce, do what you need to do, but you will be far more of a man if you confront this guy and your wife and tell them there was a line they crossed and you won't stand for it. Is one of your kids a boy? If so, do you want him to treat other people this way? Show him how to be a man by handling this thing right.

 
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Perhaps we need to get OJ Simpson case celebrity...Forensic Scientist Dennis Fung on the case. We'll bring him to the campsite and examine the area

 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
 
At the very least, mostly everybody feels that there needs to be more urgency in obtaining concrete evidence. If it wasn't for that #### wedding tomorrow, you could probably mosey along at your pace and gather the info when it's convenient for everybody involved. With the email and phone attempts to George, Steve and guy#3, it's pretty obvious that there will be a few people at the wedding who know that you're bothered by the possibility of being cuckholded by one of them. Is that about right? Is that something that you can comfortably handle? If your wife is telling the truth about not knowing what went on, how comfortable will she be about it? (Quite frankly, I'm not sure she's being honest with you. Her (re)actions don't match up with how someone would act if there was a chance that she's been molested. But you know her better than we do. If her denial of what happened is false, you will eventually know as long as you are persistent in finding out the truth.)

As someone who's been cheated on, I know how bad this is eating you up. I didn't know the characters involved in my circumstance. She lived far away and because I loved her, I tried to work through it. When I was around people that I figured knew about the situation, I was completely uncomfortable and I was never able to recover. Since they are longtime friends, you may need to distance yourself, or be ready to write them off as a "closed chapter in your life". Stay strong within yourself and do whatever you can to get to the bottem of this. You've mentioned the kids involved and you are right about protecting them, but you need to protect yourself, and quite possibly your wife.

Good luck.

 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
That's how I imagined it, too. ;)
 
Perhaps we need to get OJ Simpson case celebrity...Forensic Scientist Dennis Fung on the case. We'll bring him to the campsite and examine the area
i do not think you are serious about helping the situation.
ahhh yes.....Mr. Campsite Bathroom Stall hiding something are we? My "Dream Team" of forensic scientists will be visiting you to get concrete evidence.... ;) *gets ready to plant evidence*
 
Have you thought about having your wife tested? If Steve is a player, god knows what he may be carrying around in that peestick of his. And now, for all you know, she may be carrying it too.

 
It's called ADULTERY! How is it that irrational to say that a marriage should be over because of it? Where he and his wife are right now is that they've established that she held another guys unit in her hand and then was unaccounted for the next 15-30 minutes. That's already out there. What else she knows and is not telling him hasn't even been established. Where they are now is already adultery and grounds for divorce to me, and I've been married for 14 years and have 4 kids. If my wife did that, bye-bye. How you can just blow that off is beyond me, are you saying that you'd stay with your wife if she did that? Not me.

:goodposting:

12 years and 2 kids, and it'd be "later wh0re".

:thumbup: 12 years and 3 kids. She would have her bags packed immediately!!!
15 years 2 kids... :thumbup:
 
I have not heard word on one of the characters in a while. How might Steve's wife help? I thought she was squatting in the urinal at the time of the suggested sausage holding. I don't think MITYH has tried to find out what she knows. She might be a good resource to band up with and try to find out "what did our spouse's do with/to each other?".
The issue is she might not care if her Husband was getting a little something on the side.........
Well, she's interesting. She's kind of a wild one. I've never, ever seen her do anything with another guy. However, in past camping excursions, I've seen her damn near give Steve oral in a room full of people. She was also quite drunk. So, she either didn't actually know what was going on, or just played it off as funny. She's not exactly the sharepest tool in the shed, I'll say that. Hot, but not exactly smart (36 D btw).From what guy #3 had to say, it appears that both George and Steve's wife were back at camp long before anything really bad could've happened.
So do you think she would be the kind to leave the bathroom if her husband started to mess around with your wife? I'm only saying you seem to be talking to all parties that were there except her at this point.
 
[modvoice]Veering in to questionable territory here....[/modvoice]
Can we at least isolate that it's the wife beating talk that's veering us? B/c I think MOST of us have followed the rules here.Don't kill this thread, people. It's really all i've got right now.
If it dies you can go camping with a clear conscience no?
yeah, but then i'll have nothing to look forward to when i come back. nothing.
 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
Actually, no. I would guess B's. She is not well endowed.
 
Well, she's interesting. She's kind of a wild one. I've never, ever seen her do anything with another guy. However, in past camping excursions, I've seen her damn near give Steve oral in a room full of people. She was also quite drunk. So, she either didn't actually know what was going on, or just played it off as funny. She's not exactly the sharepest tool in the shed, I'll say that. Hot, but not exactly smart (36 D btw).From what guy #3 had to say, it appears that both George and Steve's wife were back at camp long before anything really bad could've happened.
Did you follow up with guy #3 to let him know how serious this is and make sure his e-mail giving you the 'details' wasn't a joke? Just asking because I don't think it's been specified. His initial response was based off of a question that you asked in a somewhat tongue-in-cheek manner, so you never know if his answer was a joke as well. I'm just sayin'...
 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
Actually, no. I would guess B's. She is not well endowed.
:goodposting: Hey don't ruin it for us!
 
I have not heard word on one of the characters in a while. How might Steve's wife help? I thought she was squatting in the urinal at the time of the suggested sausage holding. I don't think MITYH has tried to find out what she knows. She might be a good resource to band up with and try to find out "what did our spouse's do with/to each other?".
The issue is she might not care if her Husband was getting a little something on the side.........
Well, she's interesting. She's kind of a wild one. I've never, ever seen her do anything with another guy. However, in past camping excursions, I've seen her damn near give Steve oral in a room full of people. She was also quite drunk. So, she either didn't actually know what was going on, or just played it off as funny. She's not exactly the sharepest tool in the shed, I'll say that. Hot, but not exactly smart (36 D btw).From what guy #3 had to say, it appears that both George and Steve's wife were back at camp long before anything really bad could've happened.
So do you think she would be the kind to leave the bathroom if her husband started to mess around with your wife? I'm only saying you seem to be talking to all parties that were there except her at this point.
yellerhat fails to understand that George WIFE holding another man's unit, presumably while the other man's wife was still there.so something BAD happened before they left
 
Have you thought about having your wife tested? If Steve is a player, god knows what he may be carrying around in that peestick of his. And now, for all you know, she may be carrying it too.
This is another good approach with her.manhat: honey, I know this has been tough on the both of us. I am really worried about you because I know what a snake steve is. I understand that you dont remember anything, so I think the best course of action is to get you tested for a std. If you truly cant remember anything, knowing steve, I dont feel comfortable being intimate with you until we know for sure.manhat wife: :goodposting: um okormanhat wife: :thumbup: honey, I have a confession to make....
 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
Actually, no. I would guess B's. She is not well endowed.
:goodposting: Hey don't ruin it for us!
Cancels nothing here. If she's quite attractive with B's, that means she has a KILLER pooper and legs that I could suck on for a week.
 
I have not heard word on one of the characters in a while. How might Steve's wife help? I thought she was squatting in the urinal at the time of the suggested sausage holding. I don't think MITYH has tried to find out what she knows. She might be a good resource to band up with and try to find out "what did our spouse's do with/to each other?".
The issue is she might not care if her Husband was getting a little something on the side.........
Well, she's interesting. She's kind of a wild one. I've never, ever seen her do anything with another guy. However, in past camping excursions, I've seen her damn near give Steve oral in a room full of people. She was also quite drunk. So, she either didn't actually know what was going on, or just played it off as funny. She's not exactly the sharepest tool in the shed, I'll say that. Hot, but not exactly smart (36 D btw).From what guy #3 had to say, it appears that both George and Steve's wife were back at camp long before anything really bad could've happened.
So do you think she would be the kind to leave the bathroom if her husband started to mess around with your wife? I'm only saying you seem to be talking to all parties that were there except her at this point.
yellerhat fails to understand that George WIFE holding another man's unit, presumably while the other man's wife was still there.so something BAD happened before they left
say again?
 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
Actually, no. I would guess B's. She is not well endowed.
:angry: Hey don't ruin it for us!
Cancels nothing here. If she's quite attractive with B's, that means she has a KILLER pooper and legs that I could suck on for a week.
So there is a boobs to pooper ratio that I am unaware of??man I always learn someting new here!
 
the wife knows she did something, no doubt about it. She's quilty and knows it and is playing yellowhat for a fool, IMO.

still, I'd just move on. Make sure you tap Steve's wife and snap some photos for Steve. Send a couple to your wife for good measure, then claim you don't remember sending them.

later

 
Have you thought about having your wife tested? If Steve is a player, god knows what he may be carrying around in that peestick of his. And now, for all you know, she may be carrying it too.
This is another good approach with her.manhat: honey, I know this has been tough on the both of us. I am really worried about you because I know what a snake steve is. I understand that you dont remember anything, so I think the best course of action is to get you tested for a std. If you truly cant remember anything, knowing steve, I dont feel comfortable being intimate with you until we know for sure.manhat wife: :angry: um okormanhat wife: :whistle: honey, I have a confession to make....
This is brilliant!! Really. If only someone had thought of it, say, 2000 posts ago_OK, 1800 posts ago. I'm always exaggerating.
 
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I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
Actually, no. I would guess B's. She is not well endowed.
:angry: Hey don't ruin it for us!
Cancels nothing here. If she's quite attractive with B's, that means she has a KILLER pooper and legs that I could suck on for a week.
So there is a boobs to pooper ratio that I am unaware of??man I always learn someting new here!
It is easy, the bigger the boobs and the smaller the pooper = better ratio :whistle:
 
I think way too many people are giving George a free pass here.Let me state first, none of this is his fault, he is not the main person to be pissed at, not even in the top 2, but my friendship with him would be OVERIf I see the drunken wife of one of my friends about to grab another guy's johnson OR go into a bathroom stal with him I stop it right there. If it meant taking a beat down, I'd be up for that, but these are all college buddies, so it would not have come to that. Grabbing either one and saying "OK, a bit much to drink here let's not get crazy" and then escorting her back to camp probably solves this.Barring that, I would not wander down and casually mention it and then let nothing happen for at least 15 minutes, I'd be rolling into camp and gathering whatever troops it took to get back up there RIGHT AWAY and stop whatever is happening, hell wandering out and YELLING to Mr. Yellowhat where the two bathroom buddies could hear may be enough.Don't give me this crap about being friends with both and not wanting to get involved, because by walking away he was letting events transpire that could ruin the marriages of both his friends. And did he even mention anything to Steve's wife?Not cool, not cool at all. I'd lay my ### on the line for my friends, and this guy couldn't seem to be bothered enough to lift a finger to stop a bad situation.
Unless George has done something similar with her.
This is a no. George has however, banged my wife's single sister, who is quite attractive.
The sister has D's too I imagine?
Actually, no. I would guess B's. She is not well endowed.
:angry: Hey don't ruin it for us!
Cancels nothing here. If she's quite attractive with B's, that means she has a KILLER pooper and legs that I could suck on for a week.
So there is a boobs to pooper ratio that I am unaware of??man I always learn someting new here!
Well, ex surgery, I think it's a pretty solid rule of thumb to go by. Very few girls are the total package without enhancement. Naturally large chested girls tend to be thicker in other areas. Flatter girls tend to have long sexy legs and taught buttoxes. Both can have great faces, so if you can match up a great face with either large chest or great legs/fanny, I think life has dealt you a good hand.
 
avoiding injuries said:
I have found that the best way to catch up on this thread when you have logged on and see that it has gone 15 extra pages is to do a "Ctrl + F" find feature and type in ####(his member number). This will take you to all of MIYH posts on each page.
Absolutely the only way to catch up on this thread.
 
The marriage as they have known it is over. When trust died and suspicion (and probably righteous suspicion) entered, it was over. MITYH did not end this, nor can he by anything he does in reaction to what happened. The end already occured. She ended it along with Steve. MITYH was done to. He can end nothing. The halcyon days are gone for good.

Can a new relationship with the same woman grow from the ashes, certainly. It could be done on behalf of the children, in respect to the original marriage, or for any number of reasons I cannot concieve. It will, however, be a new relationship. To outsiders it may seem a continuation, but to those going through it it will be something wholly new. It will be something that grows not from the unfettered youthful, even ignorant, optimism of new love. Rather it will be something that sprang into being in the face of harsh realities. Will it be stronger, more mature, more world weary, more resilient, who can say. The only certainty will be that it is something new.

The new thing, will not, however, grow in the face of ongoing lies. Ongoing lies only prolong the agonizing death throws of the dying first relationship. Lies keep the fire burning hot so that nothing can rise like a phoenix from the cooling ashes.

 
I have not heard word on one of the characters in a while. How might Steve's wife help? I thought she was squatting in the urinal at the time of the suggested sausage holding. I don't think MITYH has tried to find out what she knows. She might be a good resource to band up with and try to find out "what did our spouse's do with/to each other?".
The issue is she might not care if her Husband was getting a little something on the side.........
Well, she's interesting. She's kind of a wild one. I've never, ever seen her do anything with another guy. However, in past camping excursions, I've seen her damn near give Steve oral in a room full of people. She was also quite drunk. So, she either didn't actually know what was going on, or just played it off as funny. She's not exactly the sharepest tool in the shed, I'll say that. Hot, but not exactly smart (36 D btw).From what guy #3 had to say, it appears that both George and Steve's wife were back at camp long before anything really bad could've happened.
So do you think she would be the kind to leave the bathroom if her husband started to mess around with your wife? I'm only saying you seem to be talking to all parties that were there except her at this point.
yellerhat fails to understand that George WIFE holding another man's unit, presumably while the other man's wife was still there.so something BAD happened before they left
say again?
he said:From what guy #3 had to say, it appears that both George and Steve's wife were back at camp long before anything really bad could've happened.yet George knew that his wife grabbed steve's junk, so before George an Mrs Steve left, something bad had already happened and it was getting worse
 
Have you thought about having your wife tested? If Steve is a player, god knows what he may be carrying around in that peestick of his. And now, for all you know, she may be carrying it too.
This is another good approach with her.manhat: honey, I know this has been tough on the both of us. I am really worried about you because I know what a snake steve is. I understand that you dont remember anything, so I think the best course of action is to get you tested for a std. If you truly cant remember anything, knowing steve, I dont feel comfortable being intimate with you until we know for sure.manhat wife: :angry: um okormanhat wife: :scared: honey, I have a confession to make....
This is brilliant!! Really. If only someone had thought of it, say, 2000 posts ago.
I have read all 2500 posts and know it has been mentioned, but it has not been so eloquently stated until now. :whistle:
 
This is precisely why I think this thread is a scam...Posting jokes about your SIL when your marriage is at the very least is in trouble (alledgedly)...

I dunno who is dumber...all the people who have invested 3 days in this or MITYH for not driving down to wherever Steve lives and beat the s### outta him regardless how close your relationship is...bro's before ho's ALWAYS and friends don't do this to other friends...you have had plenty of time to confront him...any "friend" who treated my wife like that would be pulling his d### outta his mouth.

JMHO...

Pie Man

 
The marriage as they have known it is over. When trust died and suspicion (and probably righteous suspicion) entered, it was over. MITYH did not end this, nor can he by anything he does in reaction to what happened. The end already occured. She ended it along with Steve. MITYH was done to. He can end nothing. The halcyon days are gone for good.Can a new relationship with the same woman grow from the ashes, certainly. It could be done on behalf of the children, in respect to the original marriage, or for any number of reasons I cannot concieve. It will, however, be a new relationship. To outsiders it may seem a continuation, but to those going through it it will be something wholly new. It will be something that grows not from the unfettered youthful, even ignorant, optimism of new love. Rather it will be something that sprang into being in the face of harsh realities. Will it be stronger, more mature, more world weary, more resilient, who can say. The only certainty will be that it is something new.The new thing, will not, however, grow in the face of ongoing lies. Ongoing lies only prolong the agonizing death throws of the dying first relationship. Lies keep the fire burning hot so that nothing can rise like a phoenix from the cooling ashes.
:thumbup: :confused:
 
avoiding injuries said:
I have found that the best way to catch up on this thread when you have logged on and see that it has gone 15 extra pages is to do a "Ctrl + F" find feature and type in ####(his member number). This will take you to all of MIYH posts on each page.
Absolutely the only way to catch up on this thread.
Um...MitYH's member number is now getting filtered? :confused:
 
The marriage as they have known it is over. When trust died and suspicion (and probably righteous suspicion) entered, it was over. MITYH did not end this, nor can he by anything he does in reaction to what happened. The end already occured. She ended it along with Steve. MITYH was done to. He can end nothing. The halcyon days are gone for good.Can a new relationship with the same woman grow from the ashes, certainly. It could be done on behalf of the children, in respect to the original marriage, or for any number of reasons I cannot concieve. It will, however, be a new relationship. To outsiders it may seem a continuation, but to those going through it it will be something wholly new. It will be something that grows not from the unfettered youthful, even ignorant, optimism of new love. Rather it will be something that sprang into being in the face of harsh realities. Will it be stronger, more mature, more world weary, more resilient, who can say. The only certainty will be that it is something new.The new thing, will not, however, grow in the face of ongoing lies. Ongoing lies only prolong the agonizing death throws of the dying first relationship. Lies keep the fire burning hot so that nothing can rise like a phoenix from the cooling ashes.
Wow. :confused: :thumbup: :shrug:
 
The marriage as they have known it is over. When trust died and suspicion (and probably righteous suspicion) entered, it was over. MITYH did not end this, nor can he by anything he does in reaction to what happened. The end already occured. She ended it along with Steve. MITYH was done to. He can end nothing. The halcyon days are gone for good.Can a new relationship with the same woman grow from the ashes, certainly. It could be done on behalf of the children, in respect to the original marriage, or for any number of reasons I cannot concieve. It will, however, be a new relationship. To outsiders it may seem a continuation, but to those going through it it will be something wholly new. It will be something that grows not from the unfettered youthful, even ignorant, optimism of new love. Rather it will be something that sprang into being in the face of harsh realities. Will it be stronger, more mature, more world weary, more resilient, who can say. The only certainty will be that it is something new.The new thing, will not, however, grow in the face of ongoing lies. Ongoing lies only prolong the agonizing death throws of the dying first relationship. Lies keep the fire burning hot so that nothing can rise like a phoenix from the cooling ashes.
:confused: That was beautiful.
 
This is precisely why I think this thread is a scam...Posting jokes about your SIL when your marriage is at the very least is in trouble (alledgedly)...I dunno who is dumber...all the people who have invested 3 days in this or MITYH for not driving down to wherever Steve lives and beat the s### outta him regardless how close your relationship is...bro's before ho's ALWAYS and friends don't do this to other friends...you have had plenty of time to confront him...any "friend" who treated my wife like that would be pulling his d### outta his mouth.JMHO...Pie Man
Thanks Pie Man!
 
This is precisely why I think this thread is a scam...Posting jokes about your SIL when your marriage is at the very least is in trouble (alledgedly)...I dunno who is dumber...all the people who have invested 3 days in this or MITYH for not driving down to wherever Steve lives and beat the s### outta him regardless how close your relationship is...bro's before ho's ALWAYS and friends don't do this to other friends...you have had plenty of time to confront him...any "friend" who treated my wife like that would be pulling his d### outta his mouth.JMHO...Pie Man
niceLAUNCH
 
This is precisely why I think this thread is a scam...Posting jokes about your SIL when your marriage is at the very least is in trouble (alledgedly)...I dunno who is dumber...all the people who have invested 3 days in this or MITYH for not driving down to wherever Steve lives and beat the s### outta him regardless how close your relationship is...bro's before ho's ALWAYS and friends don't do this to other friends...you have had plenty of time to confront him...any "friend" who treated my wife like that would be pulling his d### outta his mouth.JMHO...Pie Man
wow you must be really tough.
 
The marriage as they have known it is over. When trust died and suspicion (and probably righteous suspicion) entered, it was over. MITYH did not end this, nor can he by anything he does in reaction to what happened. The end already occured. She ended it along with Steve. MITYH was done to. He can end nothing. The halcyon days are gone for good.Can a new relationship with the same woman grow from the ashes, certainly. It could be done on behalf of the children, in respect to the original marriage, or for any number of reasons I cannot concieve. It will, however, be a new relationship. To outsiders it may seem a continuation, but to those going through it it will be something wholly new. It will be something that grows not from the unfettered youthful, even ignorant, optimism of new love. Rather it will be something that sprang into being in the face of harsh realities. Will it be stronger, more mature, more world weary, more resilient, who can say. The only certainty will be that it is something new.The new thing, will not, however, grow in the face of ongoing lies. Ongoing lies only prolong the agonizing death throws of the dying first relationship. Lies keep the fire burning hot so that nothing can rise like a phoenix from the cooling ashes.
da bears :confused:
 

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