DJackson10
Footballguy
So I have a co worker (We work in retail for a major grocery store) who has been dating a guy for over a year many of us friends with her have tried to help her out over the yrs. Lost her mom do to alcohol poisoning and other things, dad doesn't do much for her and mocks her, older brother married, lived with her Grandma who paid for everything now her aunt and Uncle live in her Grandmothers house to take care of her. She was in special ed classes in school and is very gullible and attached to people. I work with the boyfriend's friend from school (They both used to get high together but she got clean). When I say high I mean hard drugs like herion and such. We all told her the guy was bad news but she didn't listen. After 2 months I noticed him coming to work high but no one said anything in case we were wrong as his department manager didn't work with him often. A guy who worked with him now in Meat dept was friendly with him nothing more. My Cworker was so attached to him it annoyed him as she would bother him during shifts and finally got in trouble for hanging around him. She also cursed in front of customers to a department manager she was written up for and was on thin ice almost fired. Theres been a few arguments between my co worker and boyfriend which has resulted in her hitting him at work. My buddy who worked with him in deli now in meat use to lie to her about if he thought BF was using because he had a ton of work to do and didn't have time for her drama. Anyway he no called no showed 3 days in a row. Found out he was picked up with heroine. Had to go to rehab was fired. Anyway my buddy in Meat found out his name was being used by the BF as an excuse to go out and get high. He was mad as he has a wife and child. The Boyfriend he found out apparently "accidentally" spent my co worker's tax return. I also heard but not confirmed that he spent her inheritance she received from her grandmother already. He was also hanging out with my co worker who use to go to school with him behind his Girlfriends back (She has jealously issues). My buddy in meat thinks there was more going on between the Boyfriend and the girl who works with me as they always went on break together for long periods among other things. He texted the BF saying he was a scumbag and real men don't blame other men for their problems. He then sent the text blocked his number and deleted it out of his phone. my co worker now blames my buddy for her boyfriend getting high and texted him how he was terrible person for letting him get high and how she was going to tell his wife. my buddy said he texted her back saying go ahead my wife is next to me laughing at you and that he had to hold her from going up to his work from killing her for what she said. The BF was getting high well before my buddy was working there. Anyway I told my co worker something yesterday and now she says I'm a liar (I guess she told her bf who lied to her and she believe him over us).
I don't want to be involved honestly but I'm at the point if she tries too I'll make her life very hard there. Her BF hasn't seen a judge yet and probably on probation and I actually know cops in the area he was arrested that if he even threatens me I could make sure he's in a nice cell for a very long time. I haven't told the girl who works with me what my co worker told me about her because honestly I'm afraid for my co workers safety. She's this little petite girl who thinks her sh** don't stink but she's never been in any situations where girls are way tougher and bigger then her. Everyone at work is sick and tired of the situation, she blames anyone who doesn't like him for the issues he has and frankly has lost friends who have tried to help her over the yrs over this. Obviously don't want to see anyone physically harmed. My store director doesn't like getting involved in these things either but I had another co worker blow up on her about this whole situation. Quite honestly this girl is lucky she has a job right now and I know she's lied to her aunt and uncle about the whole thing. Her aunt has come up to us saying stuff to people just being friendly about the BF and we try to play dumb like we don't know anything. Do I say something to her aunt? Do I confront my co worker and tell her don't involved me in this or just tell her everything I know about her scumbag cheating drug addict BF who just uses her? Or do I just ignore the situation? I like my job and what I do because I'm usually away from all this BS but the fact it's now bled into my department I feel something should be done. Maybe I go to my store director sand tell him she's taking out her BFs firing on everyone and maybe he'd do something about it that way.
I don't want to be involved honestly but I'm at the point if she tries too I'll make her life very hard there. Her BF hasn't seen a judge yet and probably on probation and I actually know cops in the area he was arrested that if he even threatens me I could make sure he's in a nice cell for a very long time. I haven't told the girl who works with me what my co worker told me about her because honestly I'm afraid for my co workers safety. She's this little petite girl who thinks her sh** don't stink but she's never been in any situations where girls are way tougher and bigger then her. Everyone at work is sick and tired of the situation, she blames anyone who doesn't like him for the issues he has and frankly has lost friends who have tried to help her over the yrs over this. Obviously don't want to see anyone physically harmed. My store director doesn't like getting involved in these things either but I had another co worker blow up on her about this whole situation. Quite honestly this girl is lucky she has a job right now and I know she's lied to her aunt and uncle about the whole thing. Her aunt has come up to us saying stuff to people just being friendly about the BF and we try to play dumb like we don't know anything. Do I say something to her aunt? Do I confront my co worker and tell her don't involved me in this or just tell her everything I know about her scumbag cheating drug addict BF who just uses her? Or do I just ignore the situation? I like my job and what I do because I'm usually away from all this BS but the fact it's now bled into my department I feel something should be done. Maybe I go to my store director sand tell him she's taking out her BFs firing on everyone and maybe he'd do something about it that way.