#57 - Joan Jett and the Blackhearts - I Hate Myself for Loving You
Can anyone hear this and not think of the Sunday Night Football song? I hope Joan made bank from it.
I Hate Myself for Loving You was the lead single from Joan Jett's 1988 album
Up Your Alley. It reached #8 on the Hot 100, her first top 10 hit in 6 years.
I brought up in an earlier post that in '86/'87/'88, I (and a lot of my friends) used to sit around on school nights and listen to a specific radio program on the local pop station while doing homework - "
Phlash Phelps Lights Out" where he would play the biggest hits of the day with lots of dedications/songs mixed in. Without social media, what better way to broadcast your feelings than expressing them on-air to anyone in a 50-mile radius? I made it live on air twice** but called in to make plenty of other dedications that Phlash would read out before playing a song. So lame...
At some point in the summer of '88, I was dating a girl a year younger than me. I broke up with her to date her older sister, and then ditched the older sister to get back with the younger one. Classy, I know. One night, I'm listening to Phlash and I hear - "I want to dedicate
I Hate Myself for Loving You to [my real first and last name] because he's a complete jerk for what he did to me... but I want him back anyway." Soccer tryouts were fun the next morning - didn't get hazed at all. Strangely, I'm still FB friends with both sisters.
I Hate Myself for Loving You
* Phlash's lead-in music was a terrible take on a Peter Wolf song - "Phlash Phlash Phelps, lights out, uh huh."
** Once, I was the sad-sack that dedicated Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam's
All Cried Out to the girl who broke up with me right before 9th grade homecoming and she ended up going with my nemesis instead. Even worse, a year or two later, I broke up live on-air with a girl who went to a different HS by dedicating Dead or Alive's
Brand New Lover to her. She and I are definitely not friends on FB.