#43 - The Smithereens - Only A Memory
The Smithereens will forever be larger-than-life to me - a funny thing to say about a bunch of unassuming "bar band" guys from North Jersey.
I mentioned way upthread about the serial murders that absolutely shook Gainesville during the first few weeks of my freshman year in August/September 1990. Not gonna get too much into it, but as a 17-year old living 800 miles from home, it was... I don't really know how to appropriately describe it. There's a memorial on the 34th Street Wall with the victims' names that's been maintained for over 30 years now. When I was visiting UF with my son this past summer, we went to the wall and I just lost it - completely overwhelmed. Shocking for my son, who I don't think was prepared for the impact it would have on his old man.
Anyway, after canceling classes for a week and lots of students heading home, UF re-opened after a suspect was identified and arrested (it turned out not to be the guy). Student government announced a free show at the Gator Bandshell by the Smithereens for the following Friday, and it turned into two hours of just pure joy - several thousand college kids getting a chance to just be college kids again. The Smithereens owned the stage, playing hits and new songs and covers and everything in between. It being late summer in Florida, the skies opened up near the end of their set and drenched everyone - not a soul in the crowd headed for their cars. The band kept playing and playing, coming out for several encores until Pat DiNizio basically said "This has to be the last one b/c we're out of songs." I'll never forget the show of love between the band and the crowd - it's like they knew how badly we all needed this and seemed honored to be the ones to deliver.
Or maybe I'm projecting and the Smithereens forgot all about it by the time they did their next show in Atlanta or Birmingham - but I'm still gonna believe my version. I still can't hear a Smithereens song without all of this flooding back and I'll always love them for it.
Only a Memory