SaintsInDome2006 said:
Henry Ford said:
dparker713 said:
Henry Ford said:
So:
We know of at least two boyfriends the dad wanted her to break up with according to the parents' allegations; we know that for some reason the parents allege that she thought she wouldn't have to take meds or follow rules if she lived with her father while they were split up; her father coaches 8th grade girls' basketball, which is his youngest daughter's age; his email address creepily references the first daughter's name; he's the former chief of police; Mom's allegations say that Rachel created an online dating account for her Dad; Dad's allegations do not say this; everyone agrees she's bulimic; and parents' quick response to their daughter running away was to call and tell the school they won't pay for her to finish her senior year.
Looks open and shut for the parents, for sure.
Parents say they both wanted her to break up with those boys; if the Mom is the heavy, how is that odd?; is coaching a child's team suspect now?; eh, plenty of possible explanations for this; while I generally share Yankee's distain, this is hardly a point against the parents in court; affidavits are supposed to be limited to personal knowledge and this is not the only place where the two accounts have different information - the mother makes no mention of a Christmas Eve sit-down with the man the daughter is staying with, presumably because she wasn't there; you generally need to give decent notice to withdraw before a semester starts, and I'm sure my parents would have pulled my tuition to a different NJ Catholic HS a lot faster than these parents did.
Henry, its like you're applying the summary judgment standard to the parent's claims.
Given that this thread began with how obviously disgusting and worthless the kid is...
yeah. That's exactly what I'm doing. I'm explaining that there are material facts legitimately in dispute in this case, from which a finder of fact could determine liability on the part of the parents. And that a knee-jerk reaction that the kid is a spoiled brat who's lying about everything is just that - knee-jerk.
Late to the party, but what is the legal basis for an 18 year old child to get x dollars from her parents for a, b, c, d?
In new Jersey there is a lot.
I guess I'm learning this.
Sounds mucho screwed up, improper and even though apparently founded on some legal basis it sounds entirely made up by some court or legislature at some point NJ's recent past.
In other words, I see no legitimate principle to support this.
Where does this NJ right emanate from? Pure greed and liberality?
Common law (law made by judges at trials and appeals) and legislative acts through our statutes. But the basic reason is that the family division of the New Jersey court system has empowered in it the overriding power to effect the cases before it in what we call, "the best interest of the child."
We have two civil court systems here (I don't know if all states do this but I'm guessing they do). We have a Law Division and a Chancery Division. Law division is the place where you sue for money damages - personal injury, breach of contract, that kind of stuff. All the jury awards you hear about come out of the law division. There are different subsets of the law division but that isn't important here.
The Chancery division is where you go when you want to force someone to do something. Injunctions against the KKK marching, stopping a neighbor from ripping up your bulkhead to fix theirs, ordering companies to allow an estate representative to act as the person who died (probate law) and then family law. Now, as a small aside, both the law division and the chancery division share each others powers, but the ultimate relief you seek - either money or forcing someone to stop doing something or to do something - is wher eyou primarly file your complaint.
The family part therefore is a chancery court. The chancery power is based in the great legal theory known as "equity." In common form, what is fair. In chancery court, the judges have the power to pierce through the law and get to the heart of the matter and come up with a fair - in the court's eyes - resolution. So family judges have equity power to side step the law if necessary in a case. They also must couch their courts in terms - from above - in best interests of the children.
The sum result is that we have statutes and common law but at the end of the day each and every case is fact sensitive and if there are kids involved, really, all bets are off for the most part. Now when push comes to shove, the court must follow the law, but being attorneys as we are, we have guided our courts and our legislature to always add language at the end of every law that basically says - the equity court can do whatever it needs to do in the interest of fairness.
In that you get New Jersey family law.