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3 Year old son sees Mommy naked....okay? (1 Viewer)

See the OP.....is this normal or okay? Wierd?

  • Normal or Okay

    Votes: 214 91.5%
  • Wierd

    Votes: 13 5.6%
  • Kid will be scarred for life

    Votes: 5 2.1%
  • Other

    Votes: 2 0.9%

  • Total voters
    234

eoMMan

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Let's say your 3 year son, who can speak and is aware that Mommy's privates are different than his, sees and is around his Mommy being naked.

Is this normal?

Is this okay?

Is this weird?

Will the be scarred for life?

 
You don't want a three year old seeing the specifics of mommy's privates. She should grow out her bush for a little cover.

 
yeah youre weird for thinking its not or dont have kids. My 5 yr old still catches glimpses of both of us getting out of the shower, getting dressed, etc.

 
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The truly damaging thing in this country is that children are taught that the human body is something to be ashamed of

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.

 
This is a rout.

At 3 nothing wrong. The last thing you want is to make it weird for them. Theyll eventually learn the boundaries on their own. At the same time, I wouldnt go out of my way to get naked in front of them like taking a bath with them.

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.
:unsure:

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.
:unsure:
Yea ummm.... it was a simple miscommunication till there. Now it gets awkward.

 
Completely normal.

That said my son saw the neighbor lady completely naked when he ran upstairs to get a toy from his buddy's room and she was coming out of the shower.

He was 7or 8 at the time and she was a low scorer on the offdee scale --- he was definitely scarred for life!

 
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Completely normal.

That said my son saw the neighbor lady completely naked when he ran upstairs to get a toy from his buddy's room and she was coming out of the shower.

He was 7or 8 at the time and she was a low scorer on the offdee scale --- he was definitely scarred for life!
My condolences.

 
We've got 3 girls, all 3 and under

We've got no problems with them seeing us naked(getting out of shower/dressed)

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.
:unsure:
Yea ummm.... it was a simple miscommunication till there. Now it gets awkward.
Really didn't expect to get so much attention on this part.

What boy doesn't play with himself? It's not like he's masturbating, he's just touching it. But like I said, we're trying to end this, at least while walking around the house.

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.
:unsure:
Yea ummm.... it was a simple miscommunication till there. Now it gets awkward.
Really didn't expect to get so much attention on this part.

What boy doesn't play with himself? It's not like he's masturbating, he's just touching it. But like I said, we're trying to end this, at least while walking around the house.
Its only going to get worse

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.
:unsure:
Yea ummm.... it was a simple miscommunication till there. Now it gets awkward.
Really didn't expect to get so much attention on this part.

What boy doesn't play with himself?
mine.

I actually think he is afraid to touch his junk, and it leads to problems sometimes.

 
I think we need to see naked pictures of the mom before we vote.
:yes: Don't scar the kid or give him unrealistic expectations. Remember, everything seems bigger at that age.

This happens all the time at my house. Less than a year ago our then-2 year old would take off his clothes and join mom in the shower. That was a little weird IMO. It's been a few months now since he did the same when I was in there, the kid just likes taking showers.

the "problem" we're having now is our 3 yo and 9 yo will walk around the house naked. At 3 it's understandable, at 9... we've had a few conversations now where I've made it clear to him that going from shower to changing is fine, but stalling, walking around for half an hour before getting dressed is beyond our comfort level, especially as he's playing with himself.
:unsure:
Yea ummm.... it was a simple miscommunication till there. Now it gets awkward.
Really didn't expect to get so much attention on this part.

What boy doesn't play with himself?
I still walk around the house like that.

 
shadyridr said:
96-3 :lmao:

Guess we know who the weird one is, right EoMman?
You care a lot about this, huh?

Next question.....

If it's okay for the youngins to see the parents naked, do they watch mommy and daddy make love? If no, why not?

 
shadyridr said:
96-3 :lmao:

Guess we know who the weird one is, right EoMman?
You care a lot about this, huh?

Next question.....

If it's okay for the youngins to see the parents naked, do they watch mommy and daddy make love? If no, why not?
:fishing:

1. Kids tend to mimic behaviors.

2. Stage fright.

 
shadyridr said:
96-3 :lmao:

Guess we know who the weird one is, right EoMman?
You care a lot about this, huh?

Next question.....

If it's okay for the youngins to see the parents naked, do they watch mommy and daddy make love? If no, why not?
I care a lot about this?

This conversation happened as my wife got out of the shower:

3yo son: Where's your peepee?

Wife: (deer in headlights) .... Girls don't have peepees... boys have peepees, girls have ######s

3yo son: (must have heard it wrong because he repeats it as...) Boys have peepees, girls have ninja turtles.

Wife: :unsure:

3yo son: I want a ninja turtle... I love them!

He then spent the next 5 minutes complaining about wanting a ninja turtle. He's super jealous of girls now.
Your 3 year old son saw his mom butt naked?
Yes.
Ok. I don't think that's normal.
AND IM NOT THE ONE WHO STARTED THE POLL!

 
kentric said:
NutterButter said:
kentric said:
Its a three year old FFS.
Yeah, tell me about it. That won't stop dyfs from coming to pay you a visit if your kid is talking about it at daycare. Good times.
You honestly think the DYFS will care that a 3 y.o. saw their mother naked?
Not sure where the line is supposed to be drawn, but I got an awesome visit from a dyfs worker and a police officer on a friday night b/c my 5 year old girl is talking at school about seeing me naked. They didn't care, but boy, was that a ####### an experience I didn't wish to have.

 
kentric said:
NutterButter said:
kentric said:
Its a three year old FFS.
Yeah, tell me about it. That won't stop dyfs from coming to pay you a visit if your kid is talking about it at daycare. Good times.
You honestly think the DYFS will care that a 3 y.o. saw their mother naked?
Not sure where the line is supposed to be drawn, but I got an awesome visit from a dyfs worker and a police officer on a friday night b/c my 5 year old girl is talking at school about seeing me naked. They didn't care, but boy, was that a ####### an experience I didn't wish to have.
Depending on what she was saying, that may have been a good call.

Kids talk about the darndest things, but a 5 yo saying "when daddy was naked he..." will get teachers attention.

 
kentric said:
NutterButter said:
kentric said:
Its a three year old FFS.
Yeah, tell me about it. That won't stop dyfs from coming to pay you a visit if your kid is talking about it at daycare. Good times.
You honestly think the DYFS will care that a 3 y.o. saw their mother naked?
Not sure where the line is supposed to be drawn, but I got an awesome visit from a dyfs worker and a police officer on a friday night b/c my 5 year old girl is talking at school about seeing me naked. They didn't care, but boy, was that a ####### an experience I didn't wish to have.
Depending on what she was saying, that may have been a good call.

Kids talk about the darndest things, but a 5 yo saying "when daddy was naked he..." will get teachers attention.
Yeah, I was totally fine with their reason for stopping by. Its better safe than sorry and they have a job to do. Its just a pretty uncomfortable situation and one I certainly would've avoided if I knew it would come to that.

 
Having boy girl twins makes things a lot easier. They dont care as much because its just the way it is. They get that girls are different than boys.

 

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