Neil Beaufort Zod said:
Why do you think it's "feminine" to choose, as a league, not to draft certain players? Honestly. I don't see the connection.
Also, your post seemed kind of defensive. He challenged your intelligence (an inappropriate thing to do) and you responded by posting plenty of big words and phrases in your response. It's very different than your previous post, as if you wanted to show how smart you were and how wrong he was. Did you do that on purpose?
If you think it's a fact that their decision mean they're acting like a "stereotypical flock of females," I'd like to know more about this stereotype. Was it the fact that they got together and made the decision? Or the fact that they're not allowing certain players on their teams? Or the fact that they decided on what basis they'd ban players?
The Vick situation has brought out a lot of interesting subtexts to the game of fantasy football. Your response was one of them and I was wondering if you could elaborate. Thanks.
In regard to the tone of my post and whether or not I used "big" words on purpose I'll just say that whatever I typed was a natural response to what was posted. I do a lot of writing for a living so it's easy for me to slip into a certain mode. I don't really think my tone was inconsisitent with many of the things I have posted here in various threads but I'm not really all that concerned either way.As for why I think it's "feminine" to decide as a group to ban players from being drafted that's simply my opinion based on my personal experiences in dealing with men and women. If during my draft someone said "Hey you know what, Vick and Big Ben are really bad dudes. I think we should ban them as a group so nobody is subjected to having to root for them," that person would have been laughed out of the room and called several different versions of a female dog or a kitty kat. Maybe that's just me and my friends but I know a lot of guys outside of my leagues who would react the same way and I know a lot of women who would be in favor of such a move.
In general, my experience has been that most men will say hey if you don't want to draft the guy for personal reasons, fine that's your decision. But to decide what's best for the whole group is something that women would be more likely to do. I don't feel the need to justify this it by citing research on brain patterns based on gender and I don't feel it represents an antiquated view of gender stereotypes. Again, it's my opinion based on my experience. If someone has had a different opinion based on different experiences so be it. I really didn't think I would need to go into this level of detail on a forum that presumably has a vast majority of male participants but maybe the world is more progressive than I thought. Please note my opinon doesnt reflect a view that either gender is superior just a general differece in the way we approach certain things.
And it is interesting to point out that the OP said it was his
wife that pointed out he should feel guilty about rostering Vick and led him to creating this thread.
"If an individual doesn't want to draft Vick for personal reasons then fine but why ban him and Big Ben as a group?"
Your question indicates you didn't understand "quite well" the first time. This combined with your 19th-century understanding of women and hormones indicated to me that you're rather limited. You may be brilliant in real life for all I know. Perhaps you're playing a cretinous persona on a message board for purposes known only to you.
"The only thing I know is that your league is missing out on a lot of FF points."
Somehow it doesn't surprise me that this is the only thing you know. But I must agree with you. I suppose my league will have to risk losing to your league when they face off this Sunday in the league-on-league fantasy championship.
Have a better one!
The fact that you continue to take pot shots at my intelligence in an apparent attempt to hurt my feelings or something is another thing that is very feminie in my book. I.e: When I argue with my wife, I tend to focus on the merits of the opposing view points while she gets emotional and personal (even as a lawyer). But again, this is all based on my personal experience. Obviously we have different view points on this. You can continue to infer that I'm stupid and use SAT words to call me an idiot and I'll keep thinking that your name is Gary without the r or just a guy who is very in touch with his more feminime side. Either way, I think this conversation is straying further and further away from anything constructive and what the people who run this site would want. So I'll just agree to disagree.
Peace-
Waiting on your witty response to this....actually you can have the last word. That's something else I've learned over the years in dealing with women or men who think like them.