Had a situation the other week where I may or may not have been an #####.
I pull into a gas station that has 5-6 parking spots (all empty), all in a straight line in front of the building. I pull in and see a car, stopped, blocking the typical flow of traffic. The car was stopped right in front of spots 2 and 3 (perpendicular to them). I had noticed this car while pulling in, and it had not moved in the 5-7 seconds between my first spotting it and arriving at decision time.
I probably noticed some reverse lights, but don't really remember. I did a quick assessment, but wasn't trying to spend draw up plans to build the Great Wall of China here either. It's a small gas station, and I was going in to make 5 second transaction.
Also, this is a small gas station at a very busy intersection. Cars coming in and out of here really fast from the busy street (into the traffic flow she's currently blocking).
Anyway, based on the quick assessment, this left me with a few of options.
A. Pull into spot 1, as it was the only readily available spot to me, given that there was a car sitting there blocking access to the other spots.
B. Sit there (blocking all other cars from entering into the parking lot) and wait to figure out WTH this slow poke is doing.
C. Pull around this car, and attempt to park in spot 4 or 5. I considered this option, in my haste to get out of the way of entering cars that may be coming behind me. But that seemed like a potentially dangerous option. This car in front of me may be backing into a spot, but I don't know that for sure, so pulling around then immediately whipping in front of it to park didn't seem like a great idea. The area to pull around her would've also put me into the path of cars potentially pulling away from the gas pumps.
So, I chose option A. I get out, rush in to get this transaction out of the way, and get on to a bunch of other errands. As I'm opening the door (another 5 seconds gone by and this damn car is still sitting there), a little old lady yells at me from her car "hey, can't you see I was getting ready to back into that spot?". I just said, "Mam, I'm sorry, I wasn't really sure what you were doing" and went in.
Now, I don't feel great about whatever role I may have played in making a little old lady walk an extra 10 feet to buy her lotto tickets, but I was put into an unfortunate choice. I either had to be inconsiderate to one driver blocking the flow of traffic, or be inconsiderate to potentially more drivers had I gone with B or C.