I don't think it shows lack of awareness at all. I realize there's work to be done but I also am a realist and realize that like it or not, a police officer's actions are a learned response based on experience. I'm no fan of police in general because I personally feel they habitually abuse their authority, but I also don't think they go around shooting people for no reason. Don't give them a reason to draw their weapon - don't become belligerent, don't resist, don't become physical, etc... Show me the case where someone got shot after following police instructions.
If only it were that simple
About 7 or 8 years ago I was pulled over because my tags had expired. I ended up having a gun pulled on my during this routine traffic stop despite me following the orders of the officer.
2 days prior to the stop I receive in the mail the new registration sticker for my tags. It’s raining that day and I didn’t have a garage. I don’t feel like going back out in the rain to put the sticker on the tag so I place the sticker under my car keys so I know to grab it on my way to work.
It rains the next day as well so I don’t put the sticker on the tag but I do leave it in the passenger seat so I don’t forget it.
Day of the stop. It’s not raining. I pick my daughter up from day care, I put her in the booster seat in the back. I am taking her with me to softball practice. I have to make a stop by a friend’s house to pick up a couple of bats. Instead of putting the bats in the back of the SUV I just put them on the passenger side.
I take the beltline to the other side of town where practice is traffic is bumper to bumper. About 2 exits before I want to get off I notice an officer a few cars behind me and I think to myself #### I forgot to put that damn sticker on the plate. So now I am hoping this guy doesn’t get to where he can see my plates.
Of course despite all the traffic he is able to spot my tags with the expired sticker on them. He follows me of my exit and turns his lights on for me to pull over. The street is busy so I put on my hazards and drive to the next side street and pull in a parking lot.
I had a personalized license plates at the time that said YENRUB.
The officer is a young white guy looked like he was fresh out of the academy. I’m in my early 40’s
He sits in his car for a few seconds I can tell he is running the plates. Then he walks to the car and asks for license and registration. I give him the paper work. After looking at my license and noticing that my address is on the other side of town he looks at me and says “you’re a long way from home what are you doing on this side of town where are you going?”
Now my 1st thought was who in the hell does this mother####er think he is I’m a grown ### man I can go any ####### where I want to go. But I didn’t say that I simply say that “I am going to softball practice at the park down the street”.
He then asks if the car is stolen. At this point I am pissed and respond with “I gave you my license and registration with YENRUB on them and the plates on the vehicle say YENRUB on it. Why would you ask me that?”
He gives me some BS about a rash of stolen cars.
Then he asks me if I have any weapons in the car. I tell him that I do not.
Then he asks me if I know why I was pulled over and I say “yes, it’s because my sticker is out of date”. I tell him that I have the up to date sticker in the passenger seat. I reach over to the passenger seat to get the envelope with the up to date sticker at that time I guess he noticed the bats. That is when the gun comes out. He tells me to put my hands up and says “you said you didn’t have any weapons in the car”. At this point I’m more confused than scared because I never thought about the softball bats being weapons so I really have no idea what he is talking about.
Fortunately for me he got an emergency call on the radio for a real crime happening nearby so he had to leave.