i'll kick off the proceedings a little early, simply because i can harbor my bilious distaste for the work of Cameron Crowe no longer....
Which is worse - trite or bitter?
For most of my life. i would have said "bitter" and probably believe that still. My father was a subsistence farmer who was working harder by age 7 than i ever have, my mother an orphaned immigrant. They measure still each of life's rewards & rebukes by the distance they've traversed to receive them and that has poisoned pleasure for them all the way thru. Likewise, people of color and difference rarely seem to accept the challenges of their circumstances in good humor, which is precisely the quality that would most help them prevail. I'll not belabor all this because i am a white man who surfed more than he swam and dont have the standing, but i have long learned that a billionaire can be more miserable than a bidi girl because everyone has, or imagines to have, short sticks in their life stories and suffers them similarly.
Is there a more insipid white-man problem than triteness, but is it now more actually toxic than bitterness? This month's Movie Club gives us a chance to explore that because one of the offerings is from the Bill Gates of trite, Cameron Crowe. He reminds me of the door-to-door salesmen of my youth who, by their presence, announce the lack of value of the product they offer. What imitation of the good life will you buy, step right up for this preview of tomorrow's cliches, what can i do to get you in this moist pile of polished turds TODAY? Not a genuine moment nor organic motive nor honest feeling in Jerry Maguire.. Every circumstance and emotion generated in our factories to be aluminum siding for your personality. No wet paint in wish fulfillment, no termites in dreams, are there? Sign here.
No such pitch in the skillfully written & shot High Flying Bird. It may all be a game, but now the game is the real, brothers & sisters. My way thru the pain is to get you to bite on the crossover dribble, fake you out your shoes. No portion of life i cant game and, once it's a game to everybody, the Ls dont hurt as anything more than anything else on the championship track and none of it touches me as a player. We wont discuss the fact that everybody but the champs go home losers, those are merely the ingredients of the next game and, if we get enough people to watch us ball, we...get...PAID.
Which is more honest, more real, more true - Fuller Brush or Air Jordans? Neither, brothers and sisters. Abstractions & distractions, nothing more. Get OUT your bitterness, AWAY from your delusions. There are plenty of actual victories to be had when you live & give instead of pretend & play. Live, give, love, laugh, leave it better than you found it. You had you at hello.