Would love to hear the GMTAN thoughts on my Friday. Wife picks up my youngest son from school (he's 10). Bit of backstory here....tl;dr version there's a kid in class (let's call him Joe) who has throughout the year done stupid little #### to get under my kids skin, putting other kids #### in backpack, breaking pencils of his, taking stuff of out of my son's backpack etc...really stupid little #### honestly. As it's gone on for the whole year we've talked to the teacher about it with no change. About 2 weeks ago Joe duct tapes my son's trombone case closed. Talked to the teacher yet again about it, said he'll talk to the Joe and his parents etc. This week on Monday my son catches Joe putting glue on his spoon at lunch, we talked to the teacher again and asked him to move their desks apart and their cubbies apart (their cubbies were next to each other). Teacher said he'd talk with Joe and his parents again. That happened on Tuesday. So when my son gets in the car he he tells my wife that Joe drew a picture of him shooting my son, tells my son that this is him shooting my son. Joe then proceeds to show the entire class the picture and tell them it's Joe shooting my son. To this point we have just old my son to ignore Joe, not engage him and keep doing whatever he is doing at the moment. So my son ignores what Joe shows him, thankfully another kid in the class tells the teacher and Joe is gone for the rest of the day. My son tells us this kid has BB gun but not sure about anything else. It seems like this kid has completely focused/obsesses over my son.
We call the school as soon as my wife gets home and talks to the principal, who has to wait to to talk to the superintendent before they can tell us what the course of action is. We decide to talk to the cops about the situation, see what we should do in this situation. Wind up filing a report with them, they call Joe's parents, where we find out they do in fact have guns in the house and they may wind up doing an investigation based on the school does. We at least have a documentation trail if things continue to escalate.
The superintendent calls me back and we discuss the situation, Joe is suspended until the investigation is complete and they will let us know when and what the outcome will be. Also, I requested that Joe be put into another class for the remainder of the year, if that won't happen we will ask that our son be moved to another class.
So GMTAN is this over reaction, ok but a little over reaction, similar to what you would have done or under reaction and go scorched earth?