I know the answer to this but I really don't want to do it so I'm turning to the GMTAN to confirm or deny what I already know I should probably do.
I was planning to go to Denver tomorrow, camping tomorrow night, football with friends Sunday and go see a concern Monday night. I haven't been back to CO for a year and a half and this is my get ready for peak blowout.
However, my Mom won't be cleared to fly until next week and both my sisters are here and staying with us as well. Given that it's still possible that my Mom is living on borrowed time, I want to spend that time with her. I also don't want to abandon my wife to being stuck playing hostess for my family (even though she really does love them). I've also missed a lot of work this week and am way behind and taking Monday and Tuesday off will only make that worse. I also have the start of a cold.
However, given the stress of the past week, the upcoming stress until Christmas and the fact that my wife and my mom are both telling me to go, I really want to go.
But know I really shouldn't. In order of the cons that are weighing heavily:
1. My Mom of course. If I knew she didn't potentially have stage IV cancer, I'd have no problem leaving but given that there is still a possibility that she might, every minute counts. My optimism in this is my enemy here though.
2. Work - I'm way behind and this won't get any better. Although the trip is to clear my stress level out before my busy season, I will be digging a deep hole to get out of.
3. Wife entertaining family - Not as concerned about this one.
Not going is the right thing to do here, right?
Edit - I just realized I might not have updated with the most recent status. This week is a blur so I don't really remember what I posted here and what I didn't. My mom got discharged from the hospital yesterday. Risk of dropping dead in the very near term is mitigated. She has a follow up Tuesday to get cleared to fly back to Toronto.