Since all the "successful" are coming out and singing the praises of how hard work paid off for them, let me share my story.
I as well succeeded through hard work. Rose through the ranks of IT to the point where my consulting services were in demand across the country. Spent many years traveling the country. And because I was solving high stress situations, I was paid ridiculously well... until one day I started having ear problems. I started losing hearing from it, had a constant ringing in it and it always felt like it was clogged with water... then the episodes of vertigo started. Turns out I had developed Meniere's disease... and it's incurable. When I asked me doctor how I got it, he said it's usually caused by injury or stress.... and I didn't have an injury. The only source of stress in my life was my job. So my hard work resulted in me having to live the rest of my life with a 24/7 ringing in my ear, always feeling like it's full of water, struggling to hear people with one ear, and random episode of vertigo.... yeah.
But what really changed my outlook on life is that I may have been lucky. Hard work could have resulted in my having a heart attack, or a stroke, or something a lot worse than just Meniere's disease. So I consider myself lucky that I now know not to fall for the "hard work" lie. Fortunately for me though because of my hard work I have the capital to do life the non-chump way. The stock market.... nah... that's for preserving wealth. It's not where wealth is created. The stock market is the exit strategy for those who have achieved wealth through venture capitalism. Fortunately for me I had a business that need venture capital, so I became my own venture capitalist. We launched our first location earlier this year and the response has been amazing. Over 13,000 fans on facebook already. Made a profit in our first month open, and when our first year ends in a few months, will have a profitable first year. We're building a brand that had $0 value, and will someday be worth millions. That's how you create wealth. I don't work hard at it.... at least no where near the amount of effort I gave my IT career. I consciously avoid doing things to keep my stress level low. I refuse to let this opportunity end up causing me the same amount of stress working for the corporate world did.
But perhaps most importantly it has helped me see just how much of an exception I was in the world by succeeding through hard work. The people I hired worked hard for me... so hard I actually tell them to stop working so hard. At first they looked at me like I'm nuts. But after hearing what hard work did to me health they begin to understand.... and some of them have actually been brought to tears. These are people who make $10 to $15 an hour. They've been taught to work hard, work hard, work hard... but at $10 to $15 an hour, they're never going to achieve the success I had in IT. I was making over $100 an hour when I finally quit. Working hard would never produce for them the capital working hard produced for me. But it would produce the same health problems it gave me.
If life is about working hard, then life sucks. Of course, what I've posted will bring in the whole "work/life balance" discussion. But again, so what. The people making $10 to $15 an hour from me aren't going to get anywhere whether they work hard or do the work/life balance work I ask them to do. I'm just helping them avoid a heart attack. If they want to achieve the american dream, they'll either need capital, or be in the small percentage of people who have talents and skills to make hard work result income that allows them to acquire capital.