"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yo (3 Viewers)

[Ray Karpis]

Wait...are you trying to like date this girl? This is textbook hit it and quit it territory, with an option for after last call contact.

If you mean "date" as in only see her for secks, then yes.

just go out with her to her 'scene' a few time. You will meet tons of hot ### that is scoring drugs from her, add a little facebook and you've got a nice social network to plunder ahead of you.

Question: Good idea to add HI to facebook or not?Also, I'm throwing a Super Bowl party and thinking about inviting her. Good or bad idea? My thinking is I shouldn't because she might think we are heading towards relationship status. Thinking invites to bars/clubs/my home is the best bet to keep this going.No communication with HI since Sunday.

...Facebook friends, Superbowl party...I knew all this "harem of women" talk sounded too forced.

 

[comfortably numb]

Enjoy your new found freedom, cause I have a feeling you will be in a relationship within 6 months.

odds on the under gaining steam

 

[No. 16]

Wait...are you trying to like date this girl? This is textbook hit it and quit it territory, with an option for after last call contact.

If you mean "date" as in only see her for secks, then yes.

just go out with her to her 'scene' a few time. You will meet tons of hot ### that is scoring drugs from her, add a little facebook and you've got a nice social network to plunder ahead of you.

Question: Good idea to add HI to facebook or not?Also, I'm throwing a Super Bowl party and thinking about inviting her. Good or bad idea? My thinking is I shouldn't because she might think we are heading towards relationship status. Thinking invites to bars/clubs/my home is the best bet to keep this going.No communication with HI since Sunday.

...Facebook friends, Superbowl party...I knew all this "harem of women" talk sounded too forced.

These were all just questions... like I said my initial answer is no to becoming Facebook friends and to the Super Bowl party. Just figured if anyone else saw positives out of those plays. I'm not out there looking for a LTR, but I wouldn't mind having a stable of chicks that I can depend on and not just having to live and die by what is at the bar every time I go out. Big difference between FWB, LTR, and one night stands. Each require different levels of disclosure/commitment. That's the only reason why I bring those questions up.

 

[No. 16]

Damn, I hate it when I have no work (sucks to work on-call). I'm fine when I'm hanging out with my friends or family, but at times like this when no one is around my head just thinks about the ex. Especially this week when we both should be getting on a plane to Hawaii to celebrate 7 years together. Now she's going with her sister.

After we broke up she asked me if I still wanted to go with her to Hawaii, but then I found out about the personal trainer, so I told her to go find someone else to go with. Now I'm kind of regretting that decision. I could have boned her for another 7 nights in tropical paradise considering we still boned the morning she moved out.

Please tell me this gets better once I bone the Hawaiian coke dealer?

 

[Bigboy10182000]

Damn, I hate it when I have no work (sucks to work on-call). I'm fine when I'm hanging out with my friends or family, but at times like this when no one is around my head just thinks about the ex. Especially this week when we both should be getting on a plane to Hawaii to celebrate 7 years together. Now she's going with her sister. After we broke up she asked me if I still wanted to go with her to Hawaii, but then I found out about the personal trainer, so I told her to go find someone else to go with. Now I'm kind of regretting that decision. I could have boned her for another 7 nights in tropical paradise considering we still boned the morning she moved out. Please tell me this gets better once I bone the Hawaiian coke dealer?

I only skimmed through the thread so excuse me if some of this has been asked and/ or addressed...Does anything she has done or is doing just piss you off? After 4 years with my ex I had the emotional part but then there was more anger toward everything that was going.You did the right thing with the Hawaii trip...it probably would have been awkward.I know nothing about the Hawaiin coke dealer lol

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Is this the face of clutchness?

 

[IvanKaramazov]

I only skimmed through the thread so excuse me if some of this has been asked and/ or addressed...Does anything she has done or is doing just piss you off?

Besides getting pinned to the sheets by her personal trainer?

 

[Gr00vus]

Damn, I hate it when I have no work (sucks to work on-call). I'm fine when I'm hanging out with my friends or family, but at times like this when no one is around my head just thinks about the ex. Especially this week when we both should be getting on a plane to Hawaii to celebrate 7 years together. Now she's going with her sister. After we broke up she asked me if I still wanted to go with her to Hawaii, but then I found out about the personal trainer, so I told her to go find someone else to go with. Now I'm kind of regretting that decision. I could have boned her for another 7 nights in tropical paradise considering we still boned the morning she moved out. Please tell me this gets better once I bone the Hawaiian coke dealer?

Please tell me you're not paying for any part of her vacation.

 

[Bigboy10182000]

I only skimmed through the thread so excuse me if some of this has been asked and/ or addressed...Does anything she has done or is doing just piss you off?

Besides getting pinned to the sheets by her personal trainer?

That's what I mean...I can understand thinking about her but I wouldnt be upset over her given that

 

[Bob Sacamano]

I only skimmed through the thread so excuse me if some of this has been asked and/ or addressed...Does anything she has done or is doing just piss you off?

Besides getting pinned to the sheets by her personal trainer?

To be fair, I don't think it was HER personal trainer. I think it was just A personal trainer.

 

[Gadzooks]

Haven't really looked at this thread since the first day it was started. Can I get a synopsis of everything since page 3?

 

[urbanhack]

Damn, I hate it when I have no work (sucks to work on-call). I'm fine when I'm hanging out with my friends or family, but at times like this when no one is around my head just thinks about the ex. Especially this week when we both should be getting on a plane to Hawaii to celebrate 7 years together. Now she's going with her sister.

I have something that will take your mind off of things. Can you drive out to Russian River brewery and buy a couple of growlers for me and them ship them? I can paypal you the money.

 

[No. 16]

No she gave me back all the money I paid towards the vacation.

Yes it was just a random personal trainer she met. When she went to Vegas for her cousins birthday, while I went to Tahoe for the bachelor party.

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

 

[Bigboy10182000]

I only skimmed through the thread so excuse me if some of this has been asked and/ or addressed...Does anything she has done or is doing just piss you off?

Besides getting pinned to the sheets by her personal trainer?

To be fair, I don't think it was HER personal trainer. I think it was just A personal trainer.

Just got a flashback or some Hangover quotes

 

[Bigboy10182000]

No she gave me back all the money I paid towards the vacation.

Yes it was just a random personal trainer she met. When she went to Vegas for her cousins birthday, while I went to Tahoe for the bachelor party.

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

Positive thinking is one thing but it's natural to be angry with someone who did what she did IMO

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Haven't really looked at this thread since the first day it was started. Can I get a synopsis of everything since page 3?

- No. 16 is single.- His ex hooked up with a personal trainer shortly after they broke up.- The more No 16 discloses about his post breakup routine, the closer the board gets to siding with his ex in the whole thing.

 

[Gadzooks]

Haven't really looked at this thread since the first day it was started. Can I get a synopsis of everything since page 3?

- No. 16 is single.- His ex hooked up with a personal trainer shortly after they broke up.

- The more No 16 discloses about his post breakup routine, the closer the board gets to siding with his ex in the whole thing.

 

[Gr00vus]

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

What you need to do is work yourself up to forget about her. Read a book. Hit they gym. Play some hoops. Play some video games. Learn to cook/dance (which would be additional plusses for you with the ladies). Learn to code. Learn a musical instrument, painting, drawing, photography, martial arts, sailing, scuba diving, etc. Anything that will occupy your down time that will capture your attention. Don't waste energy thinking about her, spend it on other stuff. You've got an opportunity to be interesting here, don't waste it fixating on your ex.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

Haven't really looked at this thread since the first day it was started. Can I get a synopsis of everything since page 3?

- No. 16 is single.- His ex hooked up with a personal trainer shortly after they broke up.- The more No 16 discloses about his post breakup routine, the closer the board gets to siding with his ex in the whole thing.

I like the guy. I think he's on the right track. He just needs to be reeled back in periodically. The guy's been in a relationship so long it probably takes everything he's got to not roll his eyes every time the Hawaiian opens her mouth. He deserves a little slack.Of course it's also possible I'm still angling for us to become such good friends he decides to take pity on an old married guy and forward along links to the ex-. But that's not really relevant here.

 

[Kev4029]

Haven't really looked at this thread since the first day it was started. Can I get a synopsis of everything since page 3?

- No. 16 is single.- His ex hooked up with a personal trainer shortly after before they broke up.

- The more No 16 discloses about his post breakup routine, the closer the board gets to siding with his ex in the whole thing.

 

[No. 16]

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

What you need to do is work yourself up to forget about her. Read a book. Hit they gym. Play some hoops. Play some video games. Learn to cook/dance (which would be additional plusses for you with the ladies). Learn to code. Learn a musical instrument, painting, drawing, photography, martial arts, sailing, scuba diving, etc. Anything that will occupy your down time that will capture your attention. Don't waste energy thinking about her, spend it on other stuff. You've got an opportunity to be interesting here, don't waste it fixating on your ex.

Thanks. Signed up for Crossfit and started yesterday so that should take up my time on weeknights. Always wanted to learn guitar so I'll probably start that up to kill the rest of my idle time and starting looking for a more permanent job. What's funny is the stuff that I enjoyed doing to kill idle time before: running Franchise basketball drafts, arguing about the NBA, and playing video games are stuff that I stopped doing since we broke up. They were time killers I enjoyed before, but now they just seem so empty without her to bugging me about them. I get your point though. I need to start DOING instead of just THINKING. Self-improvement over self-pity.

 

[Kev4029]

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

What you need to do is work yourself up to forget about her. Read a book. Hit they gym. Play some hoops. Play some video games. Learn to cook/dance (which would be additional plusses for you with the ladies). Learn to code. Learn a musical instrument, painting, drawing, photography, martial arts, sailing, scuba diving, etc. Anything that will occupy your down time that will capture your attention. Don't waste energy thinking about her, spend it on other stuff. You've got an opportunity to be interesting here, don't waste it fixating on your ex.

Thanks. Signed up for Crossfit and started yesterday so that should take up my time on weeknights.

Always wanted to learn guitar so I'll probably start that up to kill the rest of my idle time and starting looking for a more permanent job.

What's funny is the stuff that I enjoyed doing to kill idle time before: running Franchise basketball drafts, arguing about the NBA, and playing video games are stuff that I stopped doing since we broke up. They were time killers I enjoyed before, but now they just seem so empty without her to bugging me about them.

I get your point though. I need to start DOING instead of just THINKING. Self-improvement over self-pity.

I just figured you had slowed up on that because the Warriors blow. Well that and because your draft team sucks.

 

[No. 16]

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

What you need to do is work yourself up to forget about her. Read a book. Hit they gym. Play some hoops. Play some video games. Learn to cook/dance (which would be additional plusses for you with the ladies). Learn to code. Learn a musical instrument, painting, drawing, photography, martial arts, sailing, scuba diving, etc. Anything that will occupy your down time that will capture your attention. Don't waste energy thinking about her, spend it on other stuff. You've got an opportunity to be interesting here, don't waste it fixating on your ex.

Thanks. Signed up for Crossfit and started yesterday so that should take up my time on weeknights.

Always wanted to learn guitar so I'll probably start that up to kill the rest of my idle time and starting looking for a more permanent job.

What's funny is the stuff that I enjoyed doing to kill idle time before: running Franchise basketball drafts, arguing about the NBA, and playing video games are stuff that I stopped doing since we broke up. They were time killers I enjoyed before, but now they just seem so empty without her to bugging me about them.

I get your point though. I need to start DOING instead of just THINKING. Self-improvement over self-pity.

I just figured you had slowed up on that because the Warriors blow. Well that and because your draft team sucks.

Warriors sucked last year and it didn't stop me.

 

[Kev4029]

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

What you need to do is work yourself up to forget about her. Read a book. Hit they gym. Play some hoops. Play some video games. Learn to cook/dance (which would be additional plusses for you with the ladies). Learn to code. Learn a musical instrument, painting, drawing, photography, martial arts, sailing, scuba diving, etc. Anything that will occupy your down time that will capture your attention. Don't waste energy thinking about her, spend it on other stuff. You've got an opportunity to be interesting here, don't waste it fixating on your ex.

Thanks. Signed up for Crossfit and started yesterday so that should take up my time on weeknights.

Always wanted to learn guitar so I'll probably start that up to kill the rest of my idle time and starting looking for a more permanent job.

What's funny is the stuff that I enjoyed doing to kill idle time before: running Franchise basketball drafts, arguing about the NBA, and playing video games are stuff that I stopped doing since we broke up. They were time killers I enjoyed before, but now they just seem so empty without her to bugging me about them.

I get your point though. I need to start DOING instead of just THINKING. Self-improvement over self-pity.

I just figured you had slowed up on that because the Warriors blow. Well that and because your draft team sucks.

Warriors sucked last year and it didn't stop me.

I kid, I kid.

 

[Ray Karpis]

16 - use some of your idle time to find me a good deal on a rental car in the Bay area. I'll be there in early May...looking for a convertible or a jeep to take to wine country for 5 days. Best deal I've found online is in the $400-$450 range.

Maybe see if your coke whore can swing a deal with one of her regulars.

 

[No. 16]

16 - use some of your idle time to find me a good deal on a rental car in the Bay area. I'll be there in early May...looking for a convertible or a jeep to take to wine country for 5 days. Best deal I've found online is in the $400-$450 range. Maybe see if your coke whore can swing a deal with one of her regulars.

Try priceline?

 

[No. 16]

Haven't really looked at this thread since the first day it was started. Can I get a synopsis of everything since page 3?

- No. 16 is single.- His ex hooked up with a personal trainer shortly after they broke up.

- The more No 16 discloses about his post breakup routine, the closer the board gets to siding with his ex in the whole thing.

I like the guy. I think he's on the right track. He just needs to be reeled back in periodically. The guy's been in a relationship so long it probably takes everything he's got to not roll his eyes every time the Hawaiian opens her mouth. He deserves a little slack.Of course it's also possible I'm still angling for us to become such good friends he decides to take pity on an old married guy and forward along links to the ex-.

But that's not really relevant here.

Damn, I thought I would want to watch and view the old material with her but I tried the other night and it just made me too damn sad. So I had to use spankwire instead. Can't wait until I can view it like any other pr0n.

 

[Gr00vus]

Maybe I need to work myself up to hate her. Just thought it would be easier to think positive.

What you need to do is work yourself up to forget about her. Read a book. Hit they gym. Play some hoops. Play some video games. Learn to cook/dance (which would be additional plusses for you with the ladies). Learn to code. Learn a musical instrument, painting, drawing, photography, martial arts, sailing, scuba diving, etc. Anything that will occupy your down time that will capture your attention. Don't waste energy thinking about her, spend it on other stuff. You've got an opportunity to be interesting here, don't waste it fixating on your ex.

Thanks. Signed up for Crossfit and started yesterday so that should take up my time on weeknights.

Always wanted to learn guitar so I'll probably start that up to kill the rest of my idle time and starting looking for a more permanent job.

What's funny is the stuff that I enjoyed doing to kill idle time before: running Franchise basketball drafts, arguing about the NBA, and playing video games are stuff that I stopped doing since we broke up. They were time killers I enjoyed before, but now they just seem so empty without her to bugging me about them.

I get your point though. I need to start DOING instead of just THINKING. Self-improvement over self-pity.

Thinking isn't a bad thing - thinking about her is a bad thing. Maybe at some point in the future when you're really over her you can reflect on this relationship just to learn from the experience, but not now, if ever. Find other stuff that grabs your attention to occupy your mind/time. You'll be better off all around.

By the way, grudge ####### the HI chick should also be on the table in terms of things to do with your spare time. Just don't get attached to her emotionally.

 

[Hipple Long Ware & Peete]

I'm pretty sure the tattoo wearing coke dealer will be plowing 16 with her strap-on by next Friday. He'll fall in love and they'll be married within 6 months.

really? chicks who dig coke are usually good for some wild marathon sex and a threeway or two (the good kind).

Why would anyone be interested in that?

Because he hasn't been banging her for the past 7 years.

 

[No. 16]

Finally hate my ex-gf.

Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.

Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now.

Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

 

[Wrigley]

I've always hated her

 

[Mr. Know-It-All]

Be careful, maybe they just plan on getting you guys drunk and stealing your kidneys. Good chance you'll wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney missing.

 

[xulf]

Finally hate my ex-gf.Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her!Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now. Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

Odds are that your ex and her sister are bunking together and the personal trainer is bunking with the sisters BF.

 

[No. 16]

Be careful, maybe they just plan on getting you guys drunk and stealing your kidneys. Good chance you'll wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney missing.

Will my penis still work?

 

[No. 16]

I've always hated her

Wiseman.

 

[urbanhack]

####### #####!

 

[IvanKaramazov]

Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

I'm just an old married guy, but I'm going to guess that this strategy will be met with something less than unanimous approval.

 

[jomar]

Finally hate my ex-gf.Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now. Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

if only there was some way to get back at her. maybe if you had some pics or vids to post that could be embarassing to her....

 

[Bob Sacamano]

####### #####!

You're a good friend, gb.

 

[Socrates11]

Finally hate my ex-gf.Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now. Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

if only there was some way to get back at her. maybe if you had some pics or vids to post that could be embarassing to her....

 

[Bob Sacamano]

You should hide a pig whore in her family crest. That'll learn her.

 

[zed2283]

Finally hate my ex-gf.Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now. Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

Mmmm... viet chicks

 

[comfortably numb]

Finally hate my ex-gf.Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now. Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

eff her, she was banging him before your break up.Hope you didn't contract any diseases

 

[Evilgrin 72]

Be careful, maybe they just plan on getting you guys drunk and stealing your kidneys. Good chance you'll wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney missing.

Will my penis still work?

THAT'S the spirit !!!

 

[Wrigley]

Finally hate my ex-gf.Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now. Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

if only there was some way to get back at her. maybe if you had some pics or vids to post that could be embarassing to her....

This is a good idea

 

[Rick James]

Finally hate my ex-gf.

Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.

Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now.

Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

If you see the Hawaiin coke dealer one more time without scoring I'm flying out to Cali and punching you in the nuts. You aren't "playing the game", you're playing her games. Cut off contact immediately and move on to other options.

 

[Apple Jack]

Finally hate my ex-gf.

Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.

Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now.

Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

If you see the Hawaiin coke dealer one more time without scoring I'm flying out to Cali and punching you in the nuts. You aren't "playing the game", you're playing her games. Cut off contact immediately and move on to other options.

He's Rick James, #####!

 

[Bigboy10182000]

Finally hate my ex-gf.

Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.

Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now.

Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

If you see the Hawaiin coke dealer one more time without scoring I'm flying out to Cali and punching you in the nuts. You aren't "playing the game", you're playing her games. Cut off contact immediately and move on to other options.

What he said. Next time she's at your place you need to take the bull by the horns.

 

[No. 16]

Finally hate my ex-gf.

Found out she went to Hawaii with her sister (who she told me about), her sisters BF, and personal trainer. What a ####in #####. #### her! ETA: Hawaii trip was for our 7 year anniversary.

Feels good to actually hate her. It makes it so much easier to move on now.

Also met up with HI chick at Dave and Busters last night for a few drinks. Was out there with friends and invited her over. She didn't get too drunk and drove her own car so she wasn't DTF. Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

Going out tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow will be interesting. Going to wingman for a friend for a group of 3 viet chicks. The girls have a hotel room across the street from the club and invited us to pre-party there. If that doesn't scream DTF I don't know what does.

If you see the Hawaiin coke dealer one more time without scoring I'm flying out to Cali and punching you in the nuts. You aren't "playing the game", you're playing her games. Cut off contact immediately and move on to other options.

What he said. Next time she's at your place you need to take the bull by the horns.

Indeed. Have a bottle of goose, a 6 pack of redbull, and a dental dam with her name on it.

 

[Dr. Awesome]

Chick is playing games. I'll play along since the chase is half the fun.

I'm just an old married guy, but I'm going to guess that this strategy will be met with something less than unanimous approval.

Chasing is fun. It's a lot less fun when you're being played. Cokehead is toying with him at this point. Though it makes this thread more entertaining.