They have gone a long way to win me back with reserved seating and actual ####in' leg room. Problem is (well, not a problem, but a it limits trips to the theater) is I have a 9 month old now. We don't do daycare, so I am either at work, with the 2 kids, or it's too late for a show. It will probably be another 4 years until I can start up seeing stuff in the theaters a lot more. I won't lie - price is also an issue for me. Would just try to watch one or two on $5 Tuesdays or something.
Stop apologizing for being a great dad.
I also have allowed the theaters to lure me back with reserved seating, it clears up a lot of my issues in having to fend folks off for seats. I am that guy that doesn't want to move once I am seated. And the newer theaters have so much more leg room like you mention.
The theaters still don't make a lot of money on me,
still like to sneak in a snack, sometimes I will buy the $5 coke if the theater has their soda machine set right(should be pretty sweet and not soda water).
It's good you like the animation films, I'm a sucker for Pixar and I snicker a bit at Shrek but I won't re-watch a Shrek where I can view some of the better Pixar films many times and they are still very enjoyable.
I remember my father taking me to the movies and teaching us how to sneak in cans of coke and bags of snacks, we couldn't go to as many movies if my brother and I had to have a snack every time...we were lower middle class at best and mostly upper poor growing up if there is such a thing. Mom was a teacher, dad was a retail bank manager, we never had extra money but we didn't ever go hungry either.
At some point when I turned 12-13 my father started taking me to more adult theme films, I'm talking Oscar type films where a lot of kids would just be bored and I'm not going to lie, sometimes I didn't always love those films growing up. But I got to see some films I'm proud of on a big screen. The Last Emperor of China impacted me big time, the cinematography and the behind the scenes look into the King's Palace in China, I was in awe.
When I lived in Los Angeles I had access to some of the best theaters in the World, lucky to have seen older films like Citizen Kane and Gone With the Wind when I was out there and other films we all want to see like Raiders of the Lost Ark with a special Q&A with some of the producers after the screening. Very fortunate and I feel like once you live in SoCal and have any love for film, you become a film snob quickly and it is readily acceptable out there, everyone has their niche they gravitate towards.