bostonfred
Footballguy
My approachBack to the drawing board...
I tried to modify my diet to do the keto, which I had great success with, but be careful to not get gout and kidney stones with more water, additive to the water (citrate) and watching how much food I was taking in that were not good for kidney stones and gout.
Pretty much everything I find that has citrate has some level of carbs. So, I tried to drink more water and less of the Crystal Light kind of drinks with the citrate. I ended up with a minor flare up of gout a few months ago and so I went back to drinking lots of citrate out of fear of kidney stones (citrate is more about prevention of kidney stones but I got a lot of flare ups of gout leading up to the stones so I am worried it was a sign of stones too). Doing that kept me out of ketosis. I kept trying to find a balance but I ended up with another big flare of gout right now. My weight loss stalled.
So, forget that balance. Keto is out. The purines that cause uric acid and the phosphates are in a lot of similar foods.
I think I will go to a low calorie and watching portions approach that leans away from the foods that are to be avoided for gout and kidney stones.
Get started tracking. Get the myfitnesspal app, set it to lose 2lb/week and sedentary lifestyle, get used to logging foods and staying under calories (but not too much) and logging every bit of exercise even long walks at the grocery store. It all counts at first because you are rewarding your activity. It really helps motivate you to walk more and eventually add more and better quality exercise.
Start a streak of consecutive days under your calorie goal and set a target date. 90 days. August 11th. July 18th. Pick something you can do and do it. Then plan to take a cheat day or two and get back to it.
Don't worry about perfect nutrition early on. You need to lose a lot of weight, and that's a bigger priority than adding in chia seeds and kale to your smoothies. Focus on big picture stuff, like if gout is an issue have tart cherry juice in the house and also cut back on salty meats and stuff you shouldn't eat. Stay hydrated and cut back on the alcohol. Whatever the recommendations are for you.
If you can find healthy, low calorie foods you like, start adding them in more often. Berries are the key for me, strawberries/raspberries/blueberries almost every single morning, loads of fiber and healthy antioxidants and vitamins, taste amazing, but not bad on calories. I love broccoli and cauliflower so I have one or the other or both for dinner almost every day. Fiber fills you up and keeps you from getting backed up which can happen easily when you're dieting because you aren't pushing as much toothpaste through the tube as you used to.
Give yourself cheat meals - things that feel like you're cheating because you aren't supposed to be able to have it when you're on a diet. Find foods you really like that aren't too many calories. If you have a fast food habit then give yourself an occasional fast food day. If you need pizza then have a pizza day. But scout out the foods you can have. Some pizzas are like 500 calories a slice, Papa Gino's is a chain near me, a large cheese slice is 230. That's a huge difference. I feel like I'm getting away with something when I eat three slices for 690 calories but it's just a normal sized dinner.
You can probably lose 2lbs/wk on about 1900 calories without exercise right now. That's a lot of food once you get used to it. You can get a big chicken burrito at chipote for 1000 calories... or a smaller burrito, or cut out the rice, or take out the cheese, sour cream and/or beans.... if a burrito is the comfort food you like then make that your goal every day. Corp just ate nothing but burrito bowls and chick fil a nuggets almost every day and lost a lot of weight.
All kinds of things you can do but the two most important things are 1) to start, but 2) consult your doctor before beginning this or any diet or exercise program because I am not a doctor and this is not medical advice.