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My 14yo in trouble at school (1 Viewer)

Tom Skerritt

Tom Skerritt

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Picking up my kids from school today. One of the teachers approaches my window to tell me that my son needs to come by her office at 8:00am tomorrow morning. She said busted my him for bad language in the hallway. 

I politely obliged, and drove off. Turned to my son to get details, and he told me that a friend of his slammed his locker shut, so my son somewhat loudly called him an "A$$". That's it. Teacher was right behind him but apparently didn't see the locker slamming. 

Is this that big of a deal? This is high school. I told my son to blow it off, be contrite and apologize. Otherwise nothing to see here. But I have to wonder if we're making this into way more than it needs to be. Am I wrong?

i kinda want my son to go in tomorrow and tell this teacher that I beat his a$$ for getting in trouble. And we don't tolerate getting in trouble in my house. 

 
Picking up my kids from school today. One of the teachers approaches my window to tell me that my son needs to come by her office at 8:00am tomorrow morning. She said busted my him for bad language in the hallway. 

I politely obliged, and drove off. Turned to my son to get details, and he told me that a friend of his slammed his locker shut, so my son somewhat loudly called him an "A$$". That's it. Teacher was right behind him but apparently didn't see the locker slamming. 

Is this that big of a deal? This is high school. I told my son to blow it off, be contrite and apologize. Otherwise nothing to see here. But I have to wonder if we're making this into way more than it needs to be. Am I wrong?

i kinda want my son to go in tomorrow and tell this teacher that I beat his a$$ for getting in trouble. And we don't tolerate getting in trouble in my house. 

 
Tom Skerritt said:
Picking up my kids from school today. One of the teachers approaches my window to tell me that my son needs to come by her office at 8:00am tomorrow morning. She said busted my him for bad language in the hallway. 

I politely obliged, and drove off. Turned to my son to get details, and he told me that a friend of his slammed his locker shut, so my son somewhat loudly called him an "A$$". That's it. Teacher was right behind him but apparently didn't see the locker slamming. 

Is this that big of a deal? This is high school. I told my son to blow it off, be contrite and apologize. Otherwise nothing to see here. But I have to wonder if we're making this into way more than it needs to be. Am I wrong?

i kinda want my son to go in tomorrow and tell this teacher that I beat his a$$ for getting in trouble. And we don't tolerate getting in trouble in my house. 
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You need to go up there at 8 am and take that spanking yourself from the presumably hot teacher.

 
In a little more than a month, your son will be able to use the "but the president of the USA said it first!" as a defense for these kinds of things.  

 
It's probably a wag of the finger and a slap on the wrist.  ### isn't THAT bad of a word, but is still considered bad language.  You or your son mocking this or making a spectacle of it will probably only make it worse.  Let them lecture him and move on.

 
There appears to be more to this story that your son is leaving out. 

If I were to guess, your son gave her attitude when she addressed it or this is a repeat offense. 

 
Tom Skerritt said:
Picking up my kids from school today. One of the teachers approaches my window to tell me that my son needs to come by her office at 8:00am tomorrow morning. She said busted my him for bad language in the hallway. 

I politely obliged, and drove off. Turned to my son to get details, and he told me that a friend of his slammed his locker shut, so my son somewhat loudly called him an "A$$". That's it. Teacher was right behind him but apparently didn't see the locker slamming. 

Is this that big of a deal? This is high school. I told my son to blow it off, be contrite and apologize. Otherwise nothing to see here. But I have to wonder if we're making this into way more than it needs to be. Am I wrong?

i kinda want my son to go in tomorrow and tell this teacher that I beat his a$$ for getting in trouble. And we don't tolerate getting in trouble in my house. 
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A teenager always tells the whole truth.  :loco:

 
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Sounds like nothing at all. My daughter at 4, wife picking her up from daycare, she was a trouble maker once again. "Don't beat my ### Mommy!"

She graduates college Magna Cum Laude  next weekend.

 
When she tells you what he said you should reply..."no f***ing way, I have no god**** idea where he learned that type of horses*** language"...

 
Teacher is an ####### imo

Get a life and find something better to do than rat on a high school kid for cursing

 
Let's assume the real issue is your kid mouthed off at the teacher when she confronted him.

Chances are she is probably disliked universally for being an ###.

If she is cool and your son is the ### I don't think you would make this thread unless you were confused.

That mean your son has been hiding the fact that he's an ### from you for 14 years.

Hes building the necessary skills to succeed in the business world one day.

No cause for alarm. I would just blow off the meeting either way. What are they going to do?

 
Tom Skerritt said:
And we don't tolerate getting in trouble in my house. 
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Perfect opportunity to teach him situational awareness.  It's not about saying "###", it's about not knowing where you are and who is around you when you say "###".  That's his lesson here.

 
How hot was the teacher. It might be smoke screen for some teacher/student quality time. IYKWIM

 
Let's assume the real issue is your kid mouthed off at the teacher when she confronted him.

Chances are she is probably disliked universally for being an ###.

If she is cool and your son is the ### I don't think you would make this thread unless you were confused.

That mean your son has been hiding the fact that he's an ### from you for 14 years.

Hes building the necessary skills to succeed in the business world one day.

No cause for alarm. I would just blow off the meeting either way. What are they going to do?

 
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Not much to see here. A kid said ###. Oh boy, alert the press. What is most concerning is you seem to try and make excuses for him. They didn't see the kid slam his locker....who cares? Would they then allow him to call the kid an ### if they did? No, so moot point. You also then talk about the other kid in a second post...again, doesn't matter. On a scale of 1-10, this comes in at about a 2. It would be higher if he chose a more valgar word,but like Dedfin said, the real crime here is time and place. 

 
Doesn't matter if it is "a big deal".

Tell your kid "go to the teacher's office in the AM and watch your language at school. " WALA

 
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Tomorrow morning, apologize to teacher:

"I'm sorry I called Larry an ###.  I was tempted to call him an ####### because he was acting like an #######, but I know that I shouldn't say ####### in school so I just called him an ###.  If he does something like that again, I won't call him an ####### or an ###, I'll just call him A Sphincter Says What"

 
Johnny Bing said:
There appears to be more to this story that your son is leaving out. 

If I were to guess, your son gave her attitude when she addressed it or this is a repeat offense. 
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probably not a repeat offense, but the attitude is highly likely. He does that #### to me at home, and the attitude makes me angrier than the offense. 

 
Cjw_55106 said:
Not much to see here. A kid said ###. Oh boy, alert the press. What is most concerning is you seem to try and make excuses for him. They didn't see the kid slam his locker....who cares? Would they then allow him to call the kid an ### if they did? No, so moot point. You also then talk about the other kid in a second post...again, doesn't matter. On a scale of 1-10, this comes in at about a 2. It would be higher if he chose a more valgar word,but like Dedfin said, the real crime here is time and place. 
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Not making excuses at all. Do the crime, do the time. Just don't think there's a crime here. It's high school. 

 
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